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CHRISTINE77
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I wouldn’t call vanity a virtue, but as you show, it can be a great motivator. Some people respond better to compliments than others, but often they can be very generous in response to them.But can the question of ‘intentions’ ever be clearly discerned? And even if it is, does it matter so much?
Imagine a wealthy person who is asked (before his friends) to make a donation to a charity. He does so, and gives generously.
His motivation may primarily have been that he wants to ‘look good’. He might be motivate (to some degree) by an altruistic instinct, or a religious perspective. Maybe his desire to ‘look good to others’ is totally subconscious- he is not aware of it himself.
What I am suggesting is that the desire to ‘appear to be good’ (i.e. vanity), may actually be an effective tendency towards good actions (and so really a kind a virtue).
If we imagine the opposite extreme- a person wholly free of concern for what others think of them, who can say “I couldn’t care less how others regard me.” Would such a person be a saint- or a criminal? I suppose either is possible, but the absence of vanity in such a person (although they may have a great deal of pride) could well be dangerous, and perhaps indicate a devaluing of other human beings.
In answer to your question- yes, I would feel safer if the pilot and co-pilot were under constant surveillance (but not for the reason of bad language)!
Of course people who are dependent on the opinions of others are susceptible to being taken, by people who use flattery to their advantage.
So I would say vanity is not a virtue, but rather a stumbling block, which in some cases can produce good works, and in other cases not.