Oh, now this is quite interesting. How to approach it…
What’s your idea of the difference between a Christian and a non-Christian? Because, you see, my idea of the difference is that Christians have been transformed by God from a non-Christian state of being “in the flesh” to a Christian state of being “in the Spirit” and they’re presently indwelt by the Holy Spirit. Who is a person, by the way, and God at that; not to be confused with an impersonal quality like “grace” that is definitely not a deity.
My understanding of the situation is such that this is not at all true of a great many Catholics. Not a terribly high percentage of the Catholics that use CAF, mind you. But in the world at large, baby it’s incredible.
It’s not a matter of getting your soul infused with “saving grace.” And there’s nothing you can do (the universal, all-inclusive “you” that readily includes all clergy and laity) that will guarantee a certain set of actions by God at a particular time. What’s needed is for God to transform a person from a non-Christian to a Christian and indwell that person from then on. He does it when He does it, usually not at baptism and especially not when infants are baptized.
So now I guess each of us knows where the other stands.
Yes, I suppose it is. But you’re quite sure that anyone who’s baptized in the acceptable way is a Christian, yes? Well, I’m not quite so sure, but I am interested in knowing what you mean by calling all of these people “Christians.” Again, I do see the progression from “valid baptism” to “they’re all Christians.” But what else does it mean? You see what I’m asking for, don’t you? You can skip right past the part where you say “Everyone who’s baptized by Trinitarian formula is by definition a Christian.” I got that. I see no compelling reason to agree with it, but I got it. See if you can add anything else. Like a compelling reason, perhaps. Or the reason you came to this conclusion, even if it’s not so compelling. Or the relative importance of this issue and the consequences that result from it. Whatever you have on hand.