Just a point of theology here. These two passages don’t mean what you are saying. St. Jerome clarified their meaning for us in his early commentaries and the Church has subscribed to Jerome’s interpreation for over 1600 years. We cannot ascribe another meaning to them.
The first passage, the “Sin against the Holy Spirit” refers to the belief that a sin, any sin, is too big for God to forgive. That belief is blasephemous, because it is stating that there is an evil that is too great even for God to forgive. It places a limit on God’s omnipotent power to forgive. Sin is the product of bad choices and the influence of Satan. God is not overruled by either man’s choices or the power of Satan. There is nothing that God can’t forgive or nothing that God won’t forgive when there is a contrite heart.
The second passage, the one where Jesus calls the children into his presence and speaks about those who scandalize one of these would be better off if he tied a rock to himself and commited suicide does not mean what it says. It was a metaphoric way of speaking. St. Jerome reminds us that Jesus would never advise that one commit suicide to avoid another sin. So it raises the question, what is Jesus speaking about?
St. Jerome tells us that Jesus is talking about moral innocence, not children. This statement goes along with another, “Unless you become like a child, you cannot enter the Kingdom of Heaven.” Jesus is equating the leading of the innocent into sin with spiritual suicide. In other words, when we lead another person into sin, regardless his age, we are commiting spiritual suicide.
However, no where does Jesus say that the sin cannot be forgiven. Just the opposite. Jesus reminds us that all sins can be forgiven, except the sin against the Holy Spirit. He can forgive even this sin, unless the person no longer believes in forgiveness. God cannot give what man does not accept.
Therefore, we are morally bound to take the Beatitudes to heart. “Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy.” Jesus also reminds us, “Be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect.” God cannot deny us forgiveness when we ask for it. It is against his nature. If we are to be like the Father, we cannot deny anyone forgiveness either. If we read the writings of St. Faustina, Jesus repeats the same message of the Gospels. His mercy is infinite and he desires mercy. The Church accepts that the revelations made to St. Faustina must be observed by all Catholics, because they are the same statements that appear in the Old and New Testaments. There is nothing new there, except the manner of wording the message. That’s why the Church instituted Divine Mercy Sunday.
Since Catholics must believe as we pray, if we worship God’s infinite mercy on Divine Mercy Sunday, then we must believe that his mercy is infinite and we must also believe that our mercy has strive to be equally infinite.
No, we cannot present ourselves to our final judgment withholding mercy from anyone. We shall be measured with the same rod that we measure others.
We have to be very careful how we use the scriptures. We must always use them in the manner that the Church interprets them. There is no allowance for private interpretation of scripture in the Cathollic Church. St. Paul forbade this.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF