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I read that praying the Seven Sorrows of Mary for 40 days will help us overcome addictions. I am on my 3rd or 4th day. I believe this can heal me. But so far it’s NOT. Sure, I do okay for the early hours. But then I binge again. I am defeated! I have to change this. I sure hope praying this Rosary and thinking on the sorrows of The Blessed Mother helps bring change in my life. Nothing is working for me anymore.
 
Have you tried counselling, or behaviour modification, or support groups. Prayer helps, but there are also a lot of good, well trained people who can help you. When I was diagnosed with cancer I prayed the rosary every day, I still do, but I didn’t expect to be healed without going to doctors and receiving treatment. Addiction is a disease, you need professional help to overcome it. There are twelve step programs for all types of addictions, joining one may give you the added support you need. I will say a prayer for you.
 
It cannot work if after 3 or 4 days you give up. You should have faith first and foremost and go through the whole 40 days. You yourself said there is a bit of improvement. Pray and do not give up.
 
I love you! Don’t give up, no matter what. Don’t give up! God is bigger than our problems and roadblocks. I’ll pray for you.
 
Come, Holy Spirit

Come, Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of Thy faithful and en-kindle in them the fire of Thy love.

V. Send forth Thy Spirit and they shall be created.
R. And Thou shalt renew the face of the earth.

Let us pray. O God, Who didst instruct the hearts of the faithful by the light of the Holy Spirit, grant us in the same Spirit to be truly wise, and ever to rejoice in His consolation. Through Christ our Lord.

Amen.
 
First of all, congratulations on seeking to improve yourself! That is already such an enormous accomplishment, you should feel proud of yourself. I am so sure that Our Lady is pleased with your efforts and is ready to help you if you continue to call out to her with faith!

I am in my final year of my psychology degree at university and I can tell you that accepting you need help is already a great step towards getting better. Your faith and desire to pray for your recovery will certainly aid you, but I would also recommend seeking professional help. Addiction is a complex medical issue and although prayer and faith are important components of any recovery, I strongly believe our Lord does not call us to shun medical help. Prayer and faith should strengthen your desire to get better and guide you in following through with your treatment, not necessarily become your only treatment. There are many free resources available on the web, through crisis hotlines, through our churches, etc. and I strongly encourage you to try and look into them.

You are already so strong for pursuing your recovery! Your bravery and courage are inspirational and I think that with faith and hard work, you can be on your way to living the life you desire! I will pray for you, my friend. Remember you have a caring Catholic family that is full of love for you and a wondrous God who is always just a prayer away. Don’t lose faith and remember that Our Lady has promised her protection to those to call out to her in faith. It isn’t an easy journey, but through the power of the Spirit, I know you can do it!
 
I read that praying the Seven Sorrows of Mary for 40 days will help us overcome addictions. I am on my 3rd or 4th day. I believe this can heal me. But so far it’s NOT. Sure, I do okay for the early hours. But then I binge again. I am defeated! I have to change this. I sure hope praying this Rosary and thinking on the sorrows of The Blessed Mother helps bring change in my life. Nothing is working for It helpsme anymore.
Faith without works is dead. Sometimes we have to take it a minute or an hour at a time. You are doing the same things over and over again and expecting different results. When you get the urge to give in…DON’T! Do something different. Phone someone. Find a meeting that helps with your addiction. We need to put other things in place. We hang in there and don’t give in. The first few weeks (depending on what you are abstaining from) are difficult. That’s the reality. It helps to have people you can talk to, and somewhere you can go. It helps to distract ourselves from the obsessive thoughts and the compulsion to use.
I am coming up 21 months clean from all mind and mood altering drugs. When I got clean, I knew that it was gonna be excruiatingly hard and painful. I was detoing from alcohol,marijuana,codeine,speed,coke and stolen methadone that weren’t even prescribed to me. I had nicked it from another addict. I was withdrawing for weeks and it was horrible.
But remember…you only have to do this once. Then it’s over. You then start recovery. Keep on praying, it does help, we may not recognise that it does straight away, or in the form that we thought it would. Keep praying…more will be revealed. Prayers are with you.👍

P.S. I will message you a link to a site where there is 24 hour support. People that are going through the same as you/have come through it. There are video meetings there through out the day and night. Love and hugs x
 
Praying that the Lord may strengthen you and enable you to overcome your addiction.

O Blood and Water, which gushed forth from the Heart of Jesus as a fountain of Mercy for us, I trust in You!
 
I read that praying the Seven Sorrows of Mary for 40 days will help us overcome addictions. I am on my 3rd or 4th day. I believe this can heal me. But so far it’s NOT. Sure, I do okay for the early hours. But then I binge again. I am defeated! I have to change this. I sure hope praying this Rosary and thinking on the sorrows of The Blessed Mother helps bring change in my life. Nothing is working for me anymore.
I think you answered your own question.

You said to pray for forty days and yet you want it to work after three or four.

That is like me expecting a full weeks pay after working only three or four hours of one shift.

Make sure you complete the forty days and don’t give up.

Have Faith.
 
Thank you all for your great responses. I appreciate them all.
By the way, my addiction is food related. Pray for me.
Thank you.
 
Prayed for you. I suffer with this but on a much smaller scale. I am trying to learn to eat to live and not live to eat.

Thanks!
 
Prayed for you. I suffer with this but on a much smaller scale. I am trying to learn to eat to live and not live to eat.

Thanks!
Thank you for your prayer.
My bing eating is only on sugars. I don’t binge eat often with regular food. But it’s really hurting my life. I am also unemployed. 😦 I’m kind of lost right now but I am trying to offer up my “sufferings” (others have it so much worse than I do), as receptive suffering.
 
Hail Mary, full of grace,
the Lord is with Thee.
Blessed art Thou among women
And Blessed is the fruit of Thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God
Pray for us sinners now
and at the hour of our death.
Amen
 
Faith without works is dead. Sometimes we have to take it a minute or an hour at a time. You are doing the same things over and over again and expecting different results. When you get the urge to give in…DON’T! Do something different. Phone someone. Find a meeting that helps with your addiction. We need to put other things in place. We hang in there and don’t give in. The first few weeks (depending on what you are abstaining from) are difficult. That’s the reality. It helps to have people you can talk to, and somewhere you can go. It helps to distract ourselves from the obsessive thoughts and the compulsion to use.
I am coming up 21 months clean from all mind and mood altering drugs. When I got clean, I knew that it was gonna be excruiatingly hard and painful. I was detoing from alcohol,marijuana,codeine,speed,coke and stolen methadone that weren’t even prescribed to me. I had nicked it from another addict. I was withdrawing for weeks and it was horrible.
But remember…you only have to do this once. Then it’s over. You then start recovery. Keep on praying, it does help, we may not recognise that it does straight away, or in the form that we thought it would. Keep praying…more will be revealed. Prayers are with you.👍

P.S. I will message you a link to a site where there is 24 hour support. People that are going through the same as you/have come through it. There are video meetings there through out the day and night. Love and hugs x
Congratulations on your recovery.
 
Thank you all for your great responses. I appreciate them all.
By the way, my addiction is food related. Pray for me.
Thank you.
I can certainly relate to that. It took a diagnoses of cancer, and my hematologist telling me losing weight would improve my chances of survival before I was able to tackle my overeating. I don’t know what food issues you have, but I found my first step was to admit to god and myself that I was not strong enough to make the changes I needed to make. I asked for his help and slowly began to make changes to my eating habits. I have lost weight, exercise daily and am presently in complete remission. The good news is that after a year, I am no longer tempted to return to my old habits. Keep strong, but I will repeat, if you’re having a hard time don’t be afraid to ask for help. Having cancer has taught me there are a lot of kind people in the world.
 
I can certainly relate to that. It took a diagnoses of cancer, and my hematologist telling me losing weight would improve my chances of survival before I was able to tackle my overeating. I don’t know what food issues you have, but I found my first step was to admit to god and myself that I was not strong enough to make the changes I needed to make. I asked for his help and slowly began to make changes to my eating habits. I have lost weight, exercise daily and am presently in complete remission. The good news is that after a year, I am no longer tempted to return to my old habits. Keep strong, but I will repeat, if you’re having a hard time don’t be afraid to ask for help. Having cancer has taught me there are a lot of kind people in the world.
Wow! Thank you for your inspiring message.
 
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