Convertin99, great question, and I hope your health is improving.
I’ve lurked off and on for about 10 years. At first I wanted to just have some questions answered that mystified me about the Catholic faith, such as what exactly the reasoning behind annulments, opposition to ABC, etc., was, as I was working in a Catholic hospital at the time and met a lot of Catholics, some who agreed with traditional Catholic mores, some who didn’t.
There were many posters at the time that I enjoyed conversing with and therefore I stayed. However recently there is a lot going on in Real Life that has me not posting much.
At one point I was very interested in pursuing Catholicism further, but unfortunately, I have to say that the papacy of Pope Francis has made me much less likely to do so. Not because of anything Pope Francis himself has done, but how his papacy seems to have made public many deep divisions even among the Church hierarchy – though I suppose they were there all along.
I’ve also listened to the CA Live radio show, and listened to EWTN radio and watched EWTN on TV as well. If anything, this has made me more confused. Apologists who claim to defend the faith disagree on issues such as, is it OK to take someone off a ventilator (YES per all Catholic medical personnel I’ve ever known but NO per one CA apologist), or OK to get a vaccine derived from fetal cells (YES per everyone, but Colin Donovan stated that people were obligated to try to get the vaccines that are NOT derived from that to be used in the US, or at to at least tell the doctor that they were opposed to how the vaccine was made. No other apologist has stated that Catholics have such an obligation).
Then there’s the debate over “licit use of hormonal therapy”. Most seem to at least begrudgingly admit there is such a thing, but many seem to think Catholics are obligated to try every other possible treatment first, and only use “birth control pills” as a last resort.
Or is it OK to donate organs after death - most say YES but some state it’s ONLY ok if it’s after the heart has stopped beating. Or is it OK to curse and swear - some say yes, others say no.
Even Father Mitch Pacwa, who I find very erudite and learned, confused me when a caller asked him if it was OK to get a tattoo and he said NO. Even though the CAF apologists here have never stated that.
But I realize lay and even ordained apologists are not the Magisterium. But then, what is the Magisterium? Now even Cardinals are publicly questioning the Pope and being threatened with demotion.
So I really haven’t been convinced that the Catholic Church actually can be trusted as a Teaching Authority. Yes, I know the Church is full of sinners and all, but this isn’t about clerics merely failing to live up to what they preach. It’s about clerics not even preaching the same thing.
I hope I haven’t offended anyone with this post, I am trying to be charitable while also being honest.
MY dear friend in Christ,
GREAT post and questions. THANKS
Are you aware that the CAF Forum limits space?
Each of your points deserves an in-depth reply, which is not possible given the space limitations here.[PLEASE look for a private message from me]
It needs to be pointed out that the CAF is a Public Form, so not everyone who identifies themselves as “Catholics”, are equally qualified to ALL of your legitimate concerns
Nor is it likely that anyone one of us [other than perhaps a Priest], is qualified to respond to all of your issues.
One should be aware that while everyone is free to express their opinion; that one’s opinion is often that; nothing more than a personal opinion. And YES, when seeking answers as you are that can be a serious problem. A good rule to follow is that if said opinions are not supported by evidence to remain wary of that advice.
Much of what you address deals with Moral Theology to a more or lesser degree. That’s a broad field, and often requires an experts opinion, not always available here
Allow me to agree with Father Mitch Pacwa on the tattoo.
**From our Catholic Catechism
364 The human body shares in the dignity of “the image of God”: it is a human body precisely because it is animated by a spiritual soul, and it is the whole human person that is intended to become, in the body of Christ, a temple of the Spirit:
Man, though made of body and soul, is a unity. Through his very bodily condition he sums up in himself the elements of the material world. Through him they are thus brought to their highest perfection and can raise their voice in praise freely given to the Creator. For this reason man may not despise his bodily life. Rather he is obliged to regard his body as good and to hold it in honor since God has created it and will raise it up on the last day.**
The answer is NO because our bodies are in a real sense on-loan to us from God. And as our Souls are integral to each body; further our bodies hold the possibility of being “home” to God the Holy Spirit.
Therefore, and even more so for Catholics who have the conditional opportunity to ALSO receive Jesus Himself [the Real Presence] of the GOD who created us, into our bodies in Catholic Holy Communion. Any act that in a manner defaces one’s body is sinful because it opposes God’s Will for each of us. Tattoo’s being an ego driven choice certainly falls into that category. The seriousness of that sin is conditional on the personal intent, the type of tattoo, and it’s location.
God Bless you!
And please look for my private message
Patrick