i've noticed something about christians

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I have never heard of “Operation Save America”. And what in the world is a “Hellhouse”, some kind of Halloween haunted house thingie?

They used to be called Operation Rescue (if you are familiar with Randall Terry or Flip Benham). They are very fond of screaming abuse outside schools and lots of other “fun” shock tactics in efforts to convince people of their views. If you want to learn more about them, they are easily findable on the web (though I would recommend looking up newspaper reports of the actions they reference on their website, to get another perspective as well). Frankly, I wouldn’t bother unless you have a very strong stomach.

I actually agree with * some* of their positions–to an extent–, though it makes me shudder to think that anyone might believe I have the remotest thing in common with this group. They’ve recently set up a base of operations in our area, unfortunately, so we get to see lots of them.

As for Hellhouses, yes, they crop up here (at least a couple of them) every Halloween. religioustolerance.org/hallo_he.htm will give a description. I knew about them before I ever encountered one (my extended family is primarily very literalist, Charismatic Evangelical Protestant in religious orientation and think these are a great idea–they are also think very highly of Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson), so I have thankfully never actually set foot in one.

How can one talk to a Neopagan? Frankly I have no idea.

Well, you’re making a start now :D. You might find the thread “Neopagan Apologetics” under the Apologetics forum useful as a starting point. It began with a point by point response to the article “Anti-Neopagan Apologetics” that recently was in This Rock. Be warned that it’s a long thread–263 posts–and kind of buried by now on the forum as the last post was Dec 30. Once you get past the calls for exorcism, etc on the first couple of pages there is some good information there about the perspective of at least some Neopagans and where the article missed the boat.

Having said all that, it is also important to recall that we are all human. We all make mistakes. We all have pet peeves and little things that annoy one person mightily and another not at all. An sometimes we ( - I - ) don’t even follow our ( - my - ) own advice. Thank you, KarenNC, for your graciousness. My apologies as well.

Accepted and appreciated. It would probably have been more helpful for me to post my personal experiences much earlier in the conversation so that we both knew where the other was coming from. I knew things were a bit different outside of the South in this respect, but did not realize exactly how different they could be.

I have to admit it was similar to an experience we had in Quebec a number of years ago. I had been told that Quebec was bilingual, so we figured our high school French would be adequate to any situations that didn’t already have English available. We were staying in the mountains outside of Montreal.

Our experience was that outside of a very few areas of Montreal, English was nowhere to be found (on street signs, in businesses, on radio/tv, in newspapers), and very few folks were able (or possibly in some cases, willing) to use English even after hearing our broken attempts at French (it was better once they knew we were American rather than Canadian, I have to admit). In the midst of this, we found the single English language paper, which we clutched onto like unto a drowning man:) . There was an article in it on how threatened French was in Quebec by the overuse of English–our first thought was “How???”
 
Personally I have been verbally abused simply because I am a catholic. I have been called “the worst of the lot” told that my church oppresses women & hates homosexuals. That the Churches views on sexuality are nonsense & that we are in general “stupid.”

This from people I have worked with to whom I mentioned in passing that I am a Catholic. I do not lecture people or try to force my views on others & yet these people somehow feel justified to attack me based on my religion.
 
Karen NC is correct about the billboards, restaurants, etc in the south.

Growing up in Western MA you were either 1st or 2nd Congregational or Catholic. When I moved to SC while in high school, I received many invites to churches from the kids at school. When I said I was Catholic, they looked at me like I had a third eye in the middle of my forehead. When we moved in, we were visited by preachers. I often wonder where the Catholic priest was. I guess I was hoping for a visit. Then I realized Catholics don’t go door to door. They also don’t have buses that carry youth groups on retreats or rallies, or senior citizen buses that go and “pick up” seniors to come to church. Evangelicals spend their money on getting the word out. Appartanly it is working. When I taught CCD all I got was the curriculum…there weren’t any trips or retreats…no money for that. As a matter of fact, I was visited by a couple from the Free Will Baptist church with a business card inviting me to their church. Happens all the time.

I have heard of Randall Terry and the Hellhouse. John Boy and Billy, radio DJs make a skit out of it every Halloween.

The boy I dated in high school was Pentacostal Holiness. Meeting his family was a real treat. I felt like a museum piece. Soooooo this is what a Catholic looks like…ooooo. I am very Italian looking and a Yankee as well…so they were intrigued to say the least. The civil war is still going on in the south, lest you forget. My southern boy, said he liked me because I was “exotic” looking. Go figure.

Oregon is one extreme of separation of church and state and the south is a whole 'nother story.

I know Wiccans, I have a friend who is Wiccan…I learned from her and she learned from me. We respect each others beliefs. I don’t agree with her, and she doesn’t agree with me…but we are ok with that.

Keep in mind that most of what KarenNC was referring to is evangelicals…fundys if you will. Catholics are kind of in the background in the south. And yes, they do pray before meetings, etc. I don’t have a problem with that. If I did, the hallway is out there waiting for me.
 
** had a third eye in the middle of my forehead. When we moved in, we were visited by preachers. I often wonder where the Catholic priest was. **

I bet they did. 🙂 Depending on where you moved, I would not be surprised if there wasn’t one. I did not meet anyone that I knew was Catholic until I was in high school. There are still counties in NC where there are no Catholic churches, IIRC.

** Keep in mind that most of what KarenNC was referring to is evangelicals…fundys if you will. Catholics are kind of in the background in the south. **

Absolutely true that the evangelicals are in the forefront for a lot of this, but much of what I referenced is from mainline denominations as well. The 4H leader I mentioned is Episcopalian and belongs to one of the most liberal churches in the area as well as being very vested in inclusivity in many areas. I also know her outside of 4H and she had been present on several occasions when I mentioned something about being Neopagan. She was absolutely floored that there might be anyone who might not celebrate Easter or might not feel entirely comfortable with their young child singing confessionally Christian songs–they didn’t even enter her radar as non-secular things to do. She was very open to seeing my position, to her credit, once I mentioned it.

That is part of the need for education about what living in a diverse society actually looks like that I meant. Opening folks eyes to those things that are so much a part of the background are actually part of a specific religion, not secular. It doesn’t mean ill intent on their part, just a need for a shift of awareness.

You are quite correct about Catholics, though their presence is increasing. See ncatlasrevisited.org/Religion/rlgnTitle.html

In 1990, there were 149,483 reported Catholic adherents in the state out of a population of 6,628,637. By comparison, in 1990 there were 1,446,228 Southern Baptists in NC and 28,870 Jews.

The number of Catholics grew to 315,606 adherents by 2000 out of a population of 8,049,313, mostly due to immigration from folks from the Northeast and of Latinos.
 
There are still counties in NC where there are no Catholic churches, IIRC.

Wow! That’s incredible to me. I’d have a rough time with the heavy-duty fundamentalist stuff: a lot of it is off-putting to me.
 
well in that case come to cumberland county…theres almost a catholic church everywhere you turn around, and if not that a church on every street corner. And i would know, i live here

but i would like to say HI to vocimike and karenNC, you guys really like posting on my threads dont you? lol

your wiccan friend,
reborn
 
okay as alot of you already know im pagan, but thats not what im here to talk about right now and this is something that i want to get off of my chest…

latley i’ve noticed that theres been more tolernce for other religions and i’m all for religion of any kind. But latley i’ve noticed that christians get stuck with the short end of the stick sometimes, because for example jewish people dont get arrested for speaking hebrew or wearing some kind of outfit, nor do you see hindi’s getting a lawsue for having a statue of there idol on the store counter (very sterotypical i know and im sorry)…but god forbid, no pun intended…that a catholic whips out a rosery and says a hail-mary, then they get in trouble and are told they can’t pray in public if there christian…and on a joking point i’m sure that soon we wont even be able to say hail-mary in football soon
Heh and someone told me I was imagining it and I’m oversensitive. Good to see the double-standard is noticed by non-Christians as well.
 
To me, what’s interesting is how timid Catholics are about spreading the Good Word. There’s no doubt that “Evangelizing” as a concept has been negatively tainted by the fundamentalist-style Bible beaters. . . kind of unfortunate, since all the noise has ended up hurting sincere Christian outreach.
 
**]Clear evidence, in the form of personal experiences **

??? Asking you to provide details to back up your claim of a systematic program of active discrimination against Christians with examples of your personal oppression is oppressing you?

and links to numerous articles have been provided to you. If it were not for discrimination, organiuzation like the Catholic League, the Anti-Defamation Leaaue, and the American Family Association, would not even exist.

The Anti Defamation League is aimed at discrimination against Jews, not Christians. It’s existence (as well as that of any other anti-discrimination group) can hardly be cited as proof that I discriminate against Christians. You claimed that I personally do such. I am asking you to back this up in regards to me as an individual, not simply link me to more rhetoric about how everyone else “persecutes” you.

There also exist groups to combat discrimination against Islam, Wicca, other Neopagan religions, etc.

I have never denied there were individual incidents of discrimination against any number of groups, religious or otherwise. We do not live in a perfect world or a perfect country.

I did state that I simply do not see a systematic campaign of oppression against Christians any more than I do against any other religion in this country, including mine. Playing a game of “I’m more persecuted than you” (and it is done by many groups, including Neopagans) is not helpful to anyone.

We should all be grateful that we do not live in a country that does actively persecute people (ie kill them, deny them basic civil rights or citizenship) based on their religion and that we no longer have laws, such as many of the ones existing around the time of the founding of our country, that extended civil rights to all “except Papists.”

Those who denied (and still deny) the Nazi Death Camps helped those ran them. Those who claimed that black people were well off in the South participated in discrimination. Those who help cover-0up a problem are part of the problem. When you deny that this obvious discrimination exists, you participate and furthering it.

When you are more interested in rational civil discussion than name-calling, I will be glad to talk with you further.
 
Wow! That’s incredible to me. I’d have a rough time with the heavy-duty fundamentalist stuff: a lot of it is off-putting to me.
For an example, take the county (Mecklenburg) with the largest population in NC, 796,000+. The metro area has the following churches:

There are:
453 Baptist churches
186 Methodist
146 Presbyterian
108 Church of God
56 Nondenominational
31 Church of Christ
26 Christian
23 Catholic
20 Episcopal
15 Pentecostal
14 Assembly of God
12 Nazarene
10 Evangelical
8 Seventh Day Adventists
7 Bible
6 Apostolic
5 Orthodox
2 Foursquare
2 Reformed
1 Calvary Chapel
1 Congregational
65 Other (I know there are some Moravians, not sure about which others are in this category)

From www.usachurch.com This doesn’t include the Messianic Jewish congregation that I know exists. So that’s 1193 Christian churches. Many of these have active memberships into the multiple hundreds,

Cumberland County (Fayettville metro area), which Reborn mentions, has 713 churches with a county population of just over 305,000.

For comparison, Fresno County, CA has roughly the same population as Mecklenburg County, NC (799,000 or so). It has 339 Christian churches (16 Catholic) according to www.usachurch.com. The biggest single category is Baptist with 50 churches.
 
Karen, that is pretty cool! Thank you for the info.

I went to the site and discovered that in the entire Portland Oregon metro area (three counties) there are 882 churches. The bad news is the population for this region is about 2,127,000.

So in your country, you have about 600 peiople per church. Here is the Portland metro area, there are 2,411, one quarter the ratio of your area.

So there we have, emprical evidence for our different experiences!
 
RPP,
After your post I went back and looked again to verify whether I was reading info for Mecklenburg only or if they included other counties in the Metro area (hadn’t processed that–I was interrupted for several hours in the middle of the post). Since I like accurate info 🙂 , I wanted to make sure I was right in my numbers.

The Charlotte Metro Area includes York County, SC, as well as Gaston, Cabarrus, and Union counties of NC in addition to Mecklenburg, and the population for the Metro Statistical Area is given at 1,405,173 in 2000 (2005 estimate is 1,521,278). It appears that all those areas are included in the number of churches at www.usachurch.com, so it is actually more like 1275 people per church (which makes sense to me given that we have several in the megachurch range (membership of over 2000), and I would say a majority if not more of the others have memberships in the hundreds, some low, some high. There is one church here with 8000 members that says they are currrently growing at a rate of 1000 per year. Another just opened a satellite campus with over 2000 at the satellite (not the main church) on Sundays. It may be hard to believe based on the above 🙂 , but we do actually have a sizable number of folks in the area who aren’t affiliated with a church, and regularly have articles in the paper bemoaning the secularization of the region and threat to Christianity.

So we end up with about twice as many churches as in your area, still quite a significant difference.

This is at best a rough estimate since we may be looking at info from different periods between the different sites, hard to tell. The population of this area is growing fairly rapidly. It is also not clear whether that is a self-reporting site and if it is comprehensive since they don’t mention their methods of data collection that I can find.

An interesting article from the Christian Science Monitor on the spread of megachurches is at
csmonitor.com/2006/0206/p13s01-lire.html
If you scroll down to the bottom there is a distribution map by state.

charlottediocese.org/customers/101092709242178/filemanager/docmgr/religion1990.pdf is an interesting listing from the Catholic Diocese of Charlotte, showing the distribution of Roman Catholics in Western NC (46 of NC’s 100 counties) compared to the general population . Now this is from 1990. At charlottediocese.org/customers/101092709242178/filemanager/docmgr/catholic_pop_2000_2.pdf you can see how it grew in 10 years, though it says that the 2000 one includes unchurched Hispanics, which I don’t think are included in 1990. Not sure how they determine unchurched Hispanics should be counted as RC, since a lot are evangelical Protestant, but there you are.

The Diocesan website is a wealth of statistical info on Catholics in Western NC if anyone is interested charlottediocese.org/atlasofthediocese.html?action=gQfLqCGOka4%3D&id=Al65f5%2FfpIA%3D If this is typical of Catholic diocesan sites, they would also be useful to those in other areas.

A couple of other sites to do this sort of research
hirr.hartsem.edu/ The Hartford Institute for Religion Research and thearda.com/ The Association of Religion Data Archives. Neither appears to have a lot of info on various Neopagan religions, however.

Yes, I am an info and research geek 😃 .
 
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