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NoDoes the catechism of the RCC contradict the Word of God?
Yes (though whether they interpret it truthfully is another question).Can Anyone Interpret Scripture?
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NoDoes the catechism of the RCC contradict the Word of God?
Yes (though whether they interpret it truthfully is another question).Can Anyone Interpret Scripture?
No there’s no record in history. I don’t believe Jesus was an uncle, but we have no way of knowing. The person posting the original question asked it for some reason, and hypothetically there’s always a possibility that Jesus could have been an uncle. The most likely situation would be if Joseph was a widower and had children before he and Mary were betrothed.If Mary had brothers and sisters who had children?
Is there any record of this in history?
In fact, isn’t it thought that Mary was an only child?
Is the reference you cite available online?The vast references of all sources indicate that Saint Mary Salome is the daughter of Saint Cleophas and Saint Mary of Cleophas, wife of Zebedee. She cannot also be another daughter of Saint Anne at the same time. The only wiggle room was one reference that indicated she might have been a half-sister by another father married to Saint Anne, but this sounded like conjecture, and I’d want to see it documented (nameless father). Why, as Saint Jerome and others wrote in the articles we’ve referenced, would anyone have more than one daughter named Mary? The sites far outnumber anything close to that, most tie Saint Mary of Cleophas and Saint Mary Salome together (mother and daughter). If anything, it is the messy language thing about “sisters” instead of sisters-in-law and nieces, between the Virgin Mary and the other Marys, much like the “brethren” thing. Saint Mary Salome is Jesus’s first cousin on Joseph’s side; her son John, the Disciple Jesus Loved, the youngest of them all, is his second cousin. Other than those I’ve given, there are no other “brethren”. So, no chance Jesus is an Uncle.
The article by the Catholic Legate, written by Mark Bonocore, entitled “Our Blessed Mother and the Saints, What the Bible Says about Mary’s Virginity” is the most expansive about how the “Joseph as Widower” theory came about, and very handily shoots it down, relying on the cousins versus brothers explanation of Saint Jerome. Apparently the early Church had trouble teaching the “brethren” concept between Jews and Gentiles. It is explained very well in this article. I think that link has already been provided. I think it is also one of the best articles explaining about the virginity of Joseph and Mary, quoting Scripture, as well as including Jesus and Saint Paul.
So, no chance of stepbrothers, either. Or other children of Mary and Joseph, after you read that article.
Now you can rest!
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Jesus did have 2 blood-related grandparents. We name them Sts. Ann and Joachim.…God doesn’t have blood relatives other than the Blessed Mother Mary… If you believe Jesus had blood relatives then I guess you’d be of the mentality that could believe in the DaVinci code!..
Thank you for sharing.Our Blessed Mother & The Saints
What the Bible Says About Mary’s Virginity
by Mark Bonocore
St. Jerome’s argument that “brother” is merely a Jewish tribal reference happens to be based in a Scriptural observation that totally destroys the Epiphanian “James bar-Joseph” theory once and for all. And that observation is simply that James “the brother of the Lord” had a different mother than Jesus, and this different mother was still alive at the time of the Crucifixion!
This fact can be seen most clearly by comparing Matt 13:55 and Mark 6:3 (passages which list the names of Jesus’ “brothers”) with Matt 27:56 and Mark 15:40 (where the mother of two of the listed “brothers,” James and Joseph [Jose], is mentioned with the “Joseph” vs. “Jose” variant between Matthew and Mark being preserved in both places). Thus, the ONLY way for James to have been the biological son of Joseph is if a) Joseph divorced his first wife or b) if Joseph practiced polygamy - neither of which are part of Tradition, and neither of which fit with the Scriptural character of Joseph.
Rather, the Greco-Syrian, “Epiphanian” tradition (also to be found in the Protoevangelium of James), which presents Joseph as a widower with grown children at the time of his marriage to the Blessed Virgin, is rooted in an easy-to-understand pastoral solution that was commonly disseminated by the bishops and fathers of the Eastern Church to defend the Tradition of Mary’s perpetual virginity and to explain the reference to “brothers” in Scripture. Given the cultural animosity between Gentile Christians and their Jewish enemies throughout the first several centuries of Church history, in which Jewish culture and the “Jewishness” of various themes in Scripture were significantly downplayed (Christianity was, after all, a “Gentile” religion ), it is not surprising that the earliest fathers would opt for a straightforward pastoral explanation which did not depend upon understanding the tribal dynamics of Jewish culture, and which their Gentile flocks could easily understand (i.e., “the brothers mentioned are Joseph’s kids”). St. Jerome, however, who had close associations with Jews (the very Jews who helped him translate the OT), and who was not only a first-hand witness of how Jews thought and lived, but who also approached the New Testament Scripture with a much more rational, Western mentality, and thus knew that the “Joseph the widower” scenario could not be reconciled with the origins of James, gave the Church its present understanding which is certainly NOT rooted in any alleged dualism on Jerome’s part, but in a better and more comprehensive understanding of the Scriptures; and one that is free from the anti-Jewish cultural bigotry that prevented the earliest Church fathers from grasping what the word “brothers” really meant.
What is more, the “Mary” who appears at the Cross/Tomb accounts in the Synoptics, and who is unquestionably the mother of Jesus’ “brothers” James and Joseph [Jose], is most likely the same Mary who appears in John 19:27, where she is called the “wife of Clopas” and is also apparently identified as “His mother’s sister.” Now, let us think about this. Two sisters, both named “Mary”? Not very likely. Yet, if we take the word “adelphe” here as a translation of the Jewish tribal term, and assume that Mary the wife of Clopas (and mother of James) and Mary the mother of Jesus are merely close relatives, yet not biological siblings, then it makes perfect sense that James would also be called Jesus’ “brother.” However, assuming that this woman in John 19 is indeed the same Mary from the Synoptics, and thus the mother of James, what we would then have to conclude is that this Mary was married to Joseph, had James (and Jose and presumably a whole slew of other kids by him), and then divorced Joseph and married Clopas, allowing Joseph to marry the Blessed Virgin. Or, we must conclude that Joseph was married to two women named Mary, both of them “sisters,” like Leah and Rachel. But, again, we have no Scriptural reference or tradition for any of this. And there is also the little matter of Scripture referring to James as “the younger James” (Mark 15:40), thus implying that he was younger (NOT older) than Jesus; and certainly younger than James Bar-Zebedee, who was evidently about the same age as Jesus.
Thus, all-in-all, Jerome’s solution is the best and the one most consistent with Scripture. While the “Epiphanian” witness of the early Greco-Syrian fathers is useful in that it illustrates their desire to protect the belief in Mary’s perpetual virginity as a true and universal Tradition, it must be admitted that their explanation was merely a pastoral one, and not something that can be reconciled with the Sacred Text.
Here is solid Scriptural proof that Mary always remained a virgin, and that it was the intention of Joseph and Mary to live chastely with one another.
First of all, in Luke 1:26, we are told:
“In the sixth month, the angel Gabriel was sent by God to a town of Galilee
called Nazareth, TO A VIRGIN BETROTHED TO A MAN named Joseph, of the
HOUSE OF DAVID, and the VIRGIN’S name was Mary.”
So, what does this tell us? Simply this: Mary is a virgin; and Mary is soon to be married to Joseph --a descended of David.
Sorry, there is MUCH MORE, so go to the link if I’ve got you interested, 'cuz it’s just too long to post: www.catholic-legate.com/articles/maryvirgin.html
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So what do you believe? James and co. were stepbrothers?Thank you for sharing.
It didn’t convince me, though. As I expected, it’s one person’s theory that any of us are free to accept or not. Personally, I don’t find his theory persuasive.
Cheers
But as I’ve said, Paul also calls other people apostles though they’re not part of the 12. Barnabas and Silas, for instance. As we know the only time another member of the 12 was chosen was with Matthias. So how can we be sure the James Paul refers to was one of the 12?The Third Apostle James?
James “Brother of Jesus” is referred to as one of the
APOSTLES by Paul in Galatians 1.9. Yet we know from
Matthew 10:2-4 that neither of the Apostles named James was
actually a Son of the Virgin Mary! One of the Apostles James,
is however, the Son of ALPHAEUS, who most bible scholars
agree is the same person as Clopas - already identified as
Father of James and Joseph.
So if James “brother of Jesus” was an Apostle, he cannot have
been a son of Mary.
One can argue that a **third ** James, supposed blood
brother of Jesus, was elevated to the Apostleship at some time
after the resurrection.
a) If the third James is different from the son of Alphaeus, he is mentionedHowever this presents a number of
difficulties.
a) Why is this “third James” **never ** mentioned in the
gospel accounts?
b) Why would the Apostles take a non-apostle as their leader
in Jerusalem?
c) Why is the 3rd James’s elevation to Apostle not mentioned
in scripture?
d) Why did Jesus give Mary as Mother to John, if this “third
James” existed?
e) What happened to the “second” James, son of Alphaeus
after the resurrection? If we imagine a “third James”, then
James the Apostle, son of Alphaeus disappears from history
mysteriously at exactly the same time the supposed “third
James”, just as mysteriously appears.
Amen to thatThe point of the question was that Jesus who is God would have no blood nieces or nephews.
God doesn’t have blood relatives other than the Blessed Mother Mary.
Why?
Because if He did those blood relatives would be able to constitute not just a royal house but claim they were from a Godly royal house.
Which is why Mary is an only child and St. Joseph didn’t have any other children.
If you believe Jesus had blood relatives then I guess you’d be of the mentality that could believe in the DaVinci code!
The bad possibilities of blood relatives of Jesus is endless!

Thank you for the post, nevadagardener.Our Blessed Mother & The Saints
What the Bible Says About Mary’s Virginity
by Mark Bonocore
St. Jerome’s argument that “brother” is merely a Jewish tribal reference happens to be based in a Scriptural observation that totally destroys the Epiphanian “James bar-Joseph” theory once and for all. And that observation is simply that James “the brother of the Lord” had a different mother than Jesus, and this different mother was still alive at the time of the Crucifixion!
This fact can be seen most clearly by comparing Matt 13:55 and Mark 6:3 (passages which list the names of Jesus’ “brothers”) with Matt 27:56 and Mark 15:40 (where the mother of two of the listed “brothers,” James and Joseph [Jose], is mentioned with the “Joseph” vs. “Jose” variant between Matthew and Mark being preserved in both places). Thus, the ONLY way for James to have been the biological son of Joseph is if a) Joseph divorced his first wife or b) if Joseph practiced polygamy - neither of which are part of Tradition, and neither of which fit with the Scriptural character of Joseph.
Rather, the Greco-Syrian, “Epiphanian” tradition (also to be found in the Protoevangelium of James), which presents Joseph as a widower with grown children at the time of his marriage to the Blessed Virgin, is rooted in an easy-to-understand pastoral solution that was commonly disseminated by the bishops and fathers of the Eastern Church to defend the Tradition of Mary’s perpetual virginity and to explain the reference to “brothers” in Scripture. Given the cultural animosity between Gentile Christians and their Jewish enemies throughout the first several centuries of Church history, in which Jewish culture and the “Jewishness” of various themes in Scripture were significantly downplayed (Christianity was, after all, a “Gentile” religion ), it is not surprising that the earliest fathers would opt for a straightforward pastoral explanation which did not depend upon understanding the tribal dynamics of Jewish culture, and which their Gentile flocks could easily understand (i.e., “the brothers mentioned are Joseph’s kids”). St. Jerome, however, who had close associations with Jews (the very Jews who helped him translate the OT), and who was not only a first-hand witness of how Jews thought and lived, but who also approached the New Testament Scripture with a much more rational, Western mentality, and thus knew that the “Joseph the widower” scenario could not be reconciled with the origins of James, gave the Church its present understanding which is certainly NOT rooted in any alleged dualism on Jerome’s part, but in a better and more comprehensive understanding of the Scriptures; and one that is free from the anti-Jewish cultural bigotry that prevented the earliest Church fathers from grasping what the word “brothers” really meant.
What is more, the “Mary” who appears at the Cross/Tomb accounts in the Synoptics, and who is unquestionably the mother of Jesus’ “brothers” James and Joseph [Jose], is most likely the same Mary who appears in John 19:27, where she is called the “wife of Clopas” and is also apparently identified as “His mother’s sister.” Now, let us think about this. Two sisters, both named “Mary”? Not very likely. Yet, if we take the word “adelphe” here as a translation of the Jewish tribal term, and assume that Mary the wife of Clopas (and mother of James) and Mary the mother of Jesus are merely close relatives, yet not biological siblings, then it makes perfect sense that James would also be called Jesus’ “brother.” However, assuming that this woman in John 19 is indeed the same Mary from the Synoptics, and thus the mother of James, what we would then have to conclude is that this Mary was married to Joseph, had James (and Jose and presumably a whole slew of other kids by him), and then divorced Joseph and married Clopas, allowing Joseph to marry the Blessed Virgin. Or, we must conclude that Joseph was married to two women named Mary, both of them “sisters,” like Leah and Rachel. But, again, we have no Scriptural reference or tradition for any of this. And there is also the little matter of Scripture referring to James as “the younger James” (Mark 15:40), thus implying that he was younger (NOT older) than Jesus; and certainly younger than James Bar-Zebedee, who was evidently about the same age as Jesus.
Thus, all-in-all, Jerome’s solution is the best and the one most consistent with Scripture. While the “Epiphanian” witness of the early Greco-Syrian fathers is useful in that it illustrates their desire to protect the belief in Mary’s perpetual virginity as a true and universal Tradition, it must be admitted that their explanation was merely a pastoral one, and not something that can be reconciled with the Sacred Text.
Here is solid Scriptural proof that Mary always remained a virgin, and that it was the intention of Joseph and Mary to live chastely with one another.
First of all, in Luke 1:26, we are told:
“In the sixth month, the angel Gabriel was sent by God to a town of Galilee
called Nazareth, TO A VIRGIN BETROTHED TO A MAN named Joseph, of the
HOUSE OF DAVID, and the VIRGIN’S name was Mary.”
So, what does this tell us? Simply this: Mary is a virgin; and Mary is soon to be married to Joseph --a descended of David.
Sorry, there is MUCH MORE, so go to the link if I’ve got you interested, 'cuz it’s just too long to post: www.catholic-legate.com/articles/maryvirgin.html
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Those of us who believe that Mary remained a virgin are not holding our own ideas. We are holding the teaching of the church, the truth as given to us by God. Those such as yourself who hold ideas, beliefs, outside of church teaching are in error.Just as you’ve clearly grown up with your ideas about Mary, I have spent over 35 years being taught that Mary and Joseph were ordinary people given an extraordinary duty.
Laughing at God’s truth is not funny.I can remember the first time I had even heard of the idea that Mary was a perpetual virgin - it was about two years ago. I laughed because I thought it was a joke.
I am not convinced. Your arguments do not at all reflect respect for the Blessed Virgin, much less a true grasp of true faith in the Risen Christ and all that goes with the Body of Christ, His Church.I feel much more respect for Mary than you think
Excellent,…Excellent post! Thank you so much for your response.I’ve read a number of the posts in this thread just to get a taste of where things were headed here. All the posts were fascinating! There were even those who applied some scholarship in their responses and for that I am grateful.
As a seminarian (got my M. Div. but was not ordained), I found that the matter of our Lord’s family or lack thereof is something that’s been debated for all the centuries since He walked the earth. This opinion hasn’t changed in nearly thirty years.
It matters not to me whether Jesus had blood brothers or sisters, cousins, etc., because having a family (even a child or children as some postulate thanks to “DaVinci Code”), doesn’t diminish the fact that Jesus Christ was Son of God and Son of Man. Fully human and fully divine. What matters to me is His death and resurrection, the things we are commanded do as His followers, and His Presence among us as Eucharistic Lord.
Yes, this topic will be fretted about until the consummation of time. As for me- and only me- I can truthfully say that if Jesus had blood relatives- fine. If He did not- that’s also ok by me. Family or lack thereof simply doesn’t diminish His Divinity in my eyes.
Well- stating this kind of opinion tells you why i was never ordained and constantly in trouble with seminary authorities- not to mention my Archbishop.![]()
Why the Perpetual Virginity of Mary is ImportantIt matters not to me whether Jesus had blood brothers or sisters, cousins, etc…
**God, Heaven, Jesus word is not matter of earthly rationalism, but believe, which is given to us through Gods grace - if we are worthy to receive this grace.We must all remain rational as we realize that they are just that, -speculations and nothing more.