While Jesus always has compassion for each person,
just as Jesus rejected what was wrong in the temptations by satan in the wilderness, so also must He in all things. Remember that he said “And Jesus answered him, saying, It is written, That man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word of God.”
It is the Word of God we must follow.
Scripture never speaks of marriage in terms of man and man, or woman and woman, but only woman and man:
You can find it in Genesis chapter 2 verse 24
and in Matthew chapter 19 verse 3
Some Pharisees came to him, and to test him they asked, ‘Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any cause?’ He answered, ‘Have you not read that the one who made them at the beginning “made them male and female”, and said, “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh”? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.’ Matthew 19, 1-4
Homosexuality Old Testament
Jude 1:7
Likewise, Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities near them, which like them committed sexual sins and pursued homosexual activities, serve as an example of the punishment of eternal fire.
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Homosexuality, New Testament*
Romans 1:26-27: “For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet.”
Sadly, much as there is compassion, we can’t change the law of God.
"For according to the objective moral order, homosexual relations are acts which lack an essential and indispensable finality. In Sacred Scripture they are condemned as a serious depravity and even presented as the sad consequence of rejecting God.[18] This judgment of Scripture does not of course permit us to conclude that all those who suffer from this anomaly are personally responsible for it, but it does attest to the fact that homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered and can in no case be approved of. “Declaration on Certain Questions Concerning Sexual Ethics”
I have a grandson who decided he is/is gay. He has a partner.
I love him and pray for him. Obviously then, the issue is also personal.
Jesus, the Vatican, cannot and will not go against the law of God as revealed in Scripture, but the Church requires and counsels compassion.
usccb.org/issues-and-action/human-life-and-dignity/homosexuality/always-our-children.cfm
dignityusa.org/ratzinger