I won’t get into the whole ‘work on Sunday’ debate but I will say that I always fulfill my Sunday obligation or go to confession if for some reason I don’t. My job requires me to work on Sunday 3 times per month, but I have plenty of time to go to mass, pray and spend time with family which I do.
As for my husband…guess what? He called me to ask if I was still going to pick up the kids for mass. I told him I was, and he just laughed and said they would all meet me there. I could have nagged, complained, threatened him by saying he would be in sin, etc. However, by refusing to make an issue out of it and still refusing to violate my own conscience, he made the right decision. Moral of the story: being a nagging wife doesn’t work, but a little,prayer and firm resolve work wonders.