Jesus was an only son.. Mary did not have more children!!

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Did you just moved to live here then? How long have you been catholic?
I’m a British born foreign national (i.e I was born here but I am not a British citizen, except by naturalisation). I was baptised at about 8 weeks old and have been raised as a Catholic ever since. This is diverting the thread too much, If you want to ask any more questions about me then send me a PM
 
So, the Bible says “brothers”. The Bible also calls Lot the ‘brother’ of Abraham. However, Lot is Abraham’s NEPHEW, not brother. How do we know? Because Scripture also says that Lot is the son of Abraham’s brother. So, the translators used the term ‘brother’ but made it clear that brother did not mean, or did not solely mean, a ‘biological brother’. It could mean a biological ‘relative’. In fact, we also see in the New Testament that Christ would be the ‘first of many brothers’… .meaning us as Christians. . .therefore, ‘brother’ can also be read as not even a biological relation.

Scripture refers to the ‘brothers’ of Jesus but Scripture likewise notes that every single one of those ‘brothers’ is not the son of Mary. Only Jesus is the son of Mary.
 
So, the Bible says “brothers”. The Bible also calls Lot the ‘brother’ of Abraham. However, Lot is Abraham’s NEPHEW, not brother. How do we know? Because Scripture also says that Lot is the son of Abraham’s brother. So, the translators used the term ‘brother’ but made it clear that brother did not mean, or did not solely mean, a ‘biological brother’. It could mean a biological ‘relative’. In fact, we also see in the New Testament that Christ would be the ‘first of many brothers’… .meaning us as Christians. . .therefore, ‘brother’ can also be read as not even a biological relation.

Scripture refers to the ‘brothers’ of Jesus but Scripture likewise notes that every single one of those ‘brothers’ is not the son of Mary. Only Jesus is the son of Mary.
So in this case I guess that Cain didn’t have a brother but a relation instead?
 
guan: It is not a matter of believing or not believing what the apostles said, or wrote; rather it is dealing with a number of arrogant, venom-spewing catholics(not on this forum per se), who try to bully you with “their” interpretation.
Yes,I admit that I have met a number of venom spewing Catholics on here. Generally, though, they are not offering you 'their" interpretation, but the one that was handed down to us from the Apostles.
It is one of the main reasons that I would never entertain the notion of converting! Christ offers more freedom than your church is willing to allow,
It is true that modern offshoots (children of the Reformation) have departed from the Apostolic faith, and have substituted freedom for license. The Catholic Church is often being accused of being “backward” and “too strict” because we adhere to the faith that was passed down to us from the Apostles. I can understand people’ reluctance to embrace this difficult way of life. We believe that Jesus asks for everything. I had it myself for a long time. It is really hard sometimes to do things you do n’t want to do just to be obedient.
and I think it is quite disingenuous of you to suggest that I have followed a “weak” Saviour for 42 years.
I am sure you believe He is strong enough to do whatever you want to believe. What I am suggesting is that you believe He is too weak to do what Catholics believe He has done. You seem to believe He can preserve His written Word, but cannot preserve the Word He entrusted to the Church. This means that you believe the weakness of men is stronger than His HS, and HIs promises.
And I have read all of the apostles’ words many times, believe them, and know that these words also apply to me, as a Christian!👍
Yes, but you read them in isolation from the Apostolic Teaching that is preserved within the Church, as He promised. Part of that Teaching is that Mary had only one child, Jesus. Those in scripture referred to as “his brethren” were not children of Mary.

Don’t you think the Apostles would know, if He had womb brothers? What you are saying is that God allowed His Truth to get “lost”.
 
I was not the one that made the claim that knowing about Mary’s perpetual virginity was vital to salvation. That was your “reformers,” and some of the ECFs. I pointed out that knowing things about the Kingdom, about the people and heroes within it, and about how God chose to do things, are helpful to our understanding and deepen our connection in love with Him and all His Kingdom. They may not be absolutely necessary, but they are helpful. And so it is with Mary’s perpetual virginity.

I think that many who strove to defend the honor of Mary against her assailants did not believe that such beliefs were essential to salvation, but since they WERE truth, and related to our adoptive spiritual Mother, to deny these things, to speak against them, was a terrible thing. It was rejecting truth and slandering God and His handmaiden.
You make the most salient point. Once we begin to relinquish any part of the Truth to the onslaught of the doubting, what guarantee is there that we will not cave in on another Truth? The Apostles committed ONE FAITH to the Church, and it must be held without parting it out, separating, and disposing of any part. This is why Catholics defend the Truths about Mary that were committed to the Church.
 
It is very curious how much effort is put forth, trying to “prove” that Joseph and Mary, did not marry:eek:
Scripture clearly states that Joseph took her into his home. If he was not willing to be legally considered her husband, this would have caused them both to be guilty. He accepted her vows of chastity. This was the custom if a virgin was to be given in marriage. The male responsible for her, her father, or her husband, must approve of her vow to celibacy. This is how it is written in Mosaic law.

You are right, though, a lot of effort is put forth by Catholics to preserve the faith that was committed to us by the Apostles. If we start making concessions to those who have not received the faith, but prefer to extract what they believe it was from Scripture, then all kinds of errors will follow. To concede one part of the Truth is to concede all of it.
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If this were not a serious subject, it would border on comical; the many different(who's right?) interpretations, assumptions, and speculative ideas about "cousin", "wife," or "woman". When it comes down to that glorious day when we see Jesus face-to-face, is any of this going to matter? What harm exactly does it do to anything, or anybody? I mean, wasn't Peter married?
It is always harmful to relinquish the Truth.

Mary made a vow of celibacy. Joseph accepted her vow according to Mosaic Law. She remianed a perpetual virgin. This is the faith we have from the Apostles.
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I would like to believe in the possibility that these two did marry and enjoy sexual relations; even if you use Ezekiel 44:2 to rebuke those who disagree:p
You are certainly free to believe whatever you like. 😃

This is a departure from what the Apostles believed and taught.

Mormons like to beleve that Jesus is the angel Michael.
 
Mormons like to beleve that Jesus is the angel Michael.
Mormons also say that Christ, the Holy spirit and God are three completely different Gods, because Jesus was talking to someone when he prayed and that he couldn’t have been talking to him self! 🤷
 
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I'm not really sure what you guys are afraid of by constantly saying that Mary and Joseph were never married, or had marital relations:eek:
They were married, legally speaking. When Joseph took Mary to himself (into his home) he assumed legal responsibility for her. This was the custom. If a woman made a vow of celibacy, she had to be cared for by a man, either her father, brother, or husband. The only “unattached” women were prostitutes.

I don’t know that “afraid” is right. We defend the Truth because once you start unravelling it by one thread, the rest is in danger. The Faith committed to the Church by the Apostles is a unified whole.
And to say that we do not know the Truth, is to mock God, and deny His grace to anyone who is not catholic:(
No, this is not true. Truth can be found even among Pagans, as Scripture clearly states. The fact that you reject part of the Truth does not mean you have none. You are obviously a very fervent Christian, acting with integrity on all the Truth that you do know and embrace.

God’s grace is not limited by anything except a lack of faith.
Do you really believe that Jesus is going to ask you if you believed that His mother was married or not, or had sex or not?
Not a bit. When you get to the Gate, you will see His Mother there with Him, and you will no longer doubt. We will see Him as He really is, and He is the only child of His mother. 👍
Is that going to prevent any of us from going to Heaven?
Rejection of the Truth can keep people out of heaven. Whether or not it keeps you is between you, and your Maker.
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Mary was an extremely important part of God's plan to redeem US; but in no text, is she mentioned as being essential for salvation:thumbsup:
You are basically saying that Jesus is too weak to preserve the Word He committed to the Church.
And brace yourself, because us noncatholics are going to be in Heaven right alongside you ornery, stubborn catholics, who believe otherwise!
The Apostles taught us not to judge before the time. It is up to God.
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I know that bashing noncatholics is part of your exclusivist nature, so please continue, knowing that your ignorant rants are not deterring our walk with the Truth! He has forgiven and rescued the "rest" of us too!:p
Wow.
 
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I know that bashing noncatholics is part of your exclusivist nature, so please continue, knowing that your ignorant rants are not deterring our walk with the Truth! He has forgiven and rescued the “rest” of us too!
Hmm, Guanophore isn’t like that, he also bashes catholics alike! :D;)
 
🤷 Well obviously you dont want to see the truth in the simplicity of the bible but making everything complicated… If you cannot see the easy thing as the word KNEW or KNEW NOT in relation with the whole bible (Adam knew Eve again and had a baby… hello?) what about when in Matthew says that Joseph knew not Mary until her FIRSTBORN baby was born… Firstborn? Wow why not ONLY BORN?
Really - this is just silliness … When and exactly how does one determine that a child is an “only born” … Firstborn is a distinct characterization especially in the Jewish culture [and others as well] … and that designation is important whether there are zero [0] siblings that follow or twenty [20] …

As far as knowing … well barren women ‘knew’ there husband and never had children … Abraham and Sara ‘knew’ each other for decades before Isaac was concieved … thus to “know” is to have carnal relations … not concive a child …

And the passage in scripture is referring to Joseph and Mary “not knowing” each other before Jesus was born … there is nothing in that passage that addresses what they did after the birth … that was not the purpose of the Evangelist …
 
Hey Zundrah: Weren’t you going to convert to catholicism on Easter? And in another thread, someone said that Christ could only be found in the catholic church:confused: So, if a non-believer came to Christ, say in someone’s home, who wasn’t catholic; would this Christ be a different Saviour than the One in the cc?😛
 
=1beleevr;5744958]Hey Zundrah: Weren’t you going to convert to catholicism on Easter?
Yes but my college classes over ran it’s time… 7:30pm. I am sad about it but there’s nothing I can do.
And in another thread, someone said that Christ could only be found in the catholic church:confused:
I don’t believe that!
So, if a non-believer came to Christ, say in someone’s home, who wasn’t catholic; would this Christ be a different Saviour than the One in the cc?😛
No way!
 
You just don’t want to see the obvious here ay, the word is KNEW. Not until! It’s so clear. Mary had intimacy with Joseph after having Jesus
I know, it does clearly seem that way. If we did not have the opposite teaching handed down to us by the Apostles,we would probably understand it the same way. I is “clearly seen” this way by those who are separated from the Apostolic Succession, and have not had to opportunity to recieve the fullness of the faith.
🤷 Well obviously you dont want to see the truth in the simplicity of the bible but making everything complicated… If you cannot see the easy thing as the word KNEW or KNEW NOT in relation with the whole bible (Adam knew Eve again and had a baby… hello?) what about when in Matthew says that Joseph knew not Mary until her FIRSTBORN baby was born… Firstborn? Wow why not ONLY BORN?
You make a good point. It would be much easier to take the “simple” road, and abandon the faith that was passed down to us from the Apostles, and adopt this view, which is much less complicated.

The status of the Firstborn has special significance in the Jewish faith. This has no bearing on any children that come later.

All the Apostles and writers of the NT knew that Mary only had one Child. They never imagined that the Scriptures would be separated from the Sacred Tradition that produced them. I am sure, if they had, they would have added more clarity in a number of areas.😃
Well to me is totally clear, I havent even had to interpret the bible since the bible is clear. I also cannot find ANY proof to say that Mary (mother of Jesus) went to heaven. Sure she was a great woman but still needs a Saviour.
We interpret everything we read. Catholics interpret scripture in the light of the Apostolic Teaching that produced it. You interpret it in a state of separate from that faith.

Are you suggesting that saved persons do not go to heaven?

Do you have proof that there IS a heaven? Do you have proof that anyone is there?
 
…Mary had children, Christ had brothers. Catholicism just doesn’t have back up for their belief of her perpetual virginity.
Zundrah,the "brothers’ of Christ mentioned in scripture are the children of another Mary, who is also referred to as the “sister” of the mother of Jesus. You are right that we don’t have details on these people. We know they are the sons of Alpheus (Clopas), but we don’t know if either of these people is the sibling of Joseph, or Mary, or another near kin. What we do know is that they are very close relatives, and that they were raised like brothers and sisters. We also know that the mother of James the “brother of the Lord” also followed Him to the cross,a nd was present there with his mother.
 
The bible. ;)😛
Is that so? :coffeeread:

Where in the New Testament is it written that Mary actually gave birth to other children?
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In light of Sacred Tradition and the teachings handed down by the Apostles, Bishop St. Ignatius of Antioch wrote at the start of the second century: “Mary’s virginity was hidden from the prince of this world” as was also “the birth of Christ”. In other words, both her virginity and the virgin birth were outside Satan’s knowledge. If Mary had actually had conjugal relations with Joseph, then obviously her virginity couldn’t have remained hidden. St. Ignatius was a disciple of St. Polycarp, who in turn was a disciple of St. John, the beloved disciple. The deposit of faith consists of both Scripture and Tradition.

PAX :harp:
 
Zundrah: This is a worn out subject. Please look up in your Internet Cafe the Aramaic word for cousin. Guess what,…there isn’t any! If there is no word or words in that language, with all the other specitivity there is in Scripture, how would you describe all the relationships?

Hope your classes are going well! 👍
 
many say jesus had more brothers because on the cross, “When Jesus therefore saw his mother, and the disciple standing by, whom he loved, he saith unto his mother, Woman, behold thy son!” John wasnt marys son! ?? anyone care to elaborate on these beliefs…

would love to hear from anyone! =]
The mother of John,the disciple whom Jesus loved, was also present at the cross. John also did not name himself in this story, which is one reason that the Church accepts that Jesus gave His Mother to all who are willing to stand at the foot of His cross.

Giving His mother to someone would have been the supreme insult, if HIs mother actually had other children. It was their religious duty to care for her, once her husband and eldest son were dead. Giving her to a non-relative would have been a smack in the face of his siblings, had there been any.
 
You just don’t want to see the obvious here ay, the word is KNEW. Not until! It’s so clear. Mary had intimacy with Joseph after having Jesus
The Greek word for “until” is heos which never references the future. The evangelist is telling us that Mary and Joseph had no relations “up to the point” of the birth of Jesus - nothing more - to assure the Jews whom he addressed that our Lord’s conception and birth were virginal in fulfillment of Isaiah 7:14.

PAX :harp:
 
There is no evidence to show or even sugggest that Mary did NOT have children after Christ.
The angel Gabriel said to Mary: “The power of the Most High will overshadow you.” I suggest you look up the meaning of this Hebraic euphemism and discover why Joseph wouldn’t even contemplate having relations with his spouse. The evangelist wrote his gospel in the Greek, but the angel spoke to Mary in Aramaic, her mother tongue and a semitic language. 😉

PAX :harp:
 
What’s incredible to me is that folks think that the Church, which for practical purposes, was the only literate part of society for several centuries, was so blind that it could not see the word “brother”. Sure, we meticulously copied and transmitted these sacred texts for almost two millennium, but then all of a sudden in modern times we’ve been struck in the face with scripture! It is so hilarious to me when people quote Bible verses to try and contradict the Church, as though she did not choose the books that went into the Bible precisely because of their content. Oy vey…
 
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