I think the confusion comes from not understanding what love is. God is love. Jesus is God. Therefore Jesus is love. Perhaps we can read what St Paul said love or charity is-
1Cor.13
1] If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
2] And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
3] If I give away all I have, and if I deliver my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.
4] Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful;
5] it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;
6] it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right.
7] Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8] Love never ends; as for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.
9] For our knowledge is imperfect and our prophecy is imperfect;
10] but when the perfect comes, the imperfect will pass away.
11] When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became a man, I gave up childish ways.
12] For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall understand fully, even as I have been fully understood.
13] So faith, hope, love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
If Jesus has failed in any of these points I’m yet to see it. Jesus had a mission to accomplish and it wasn’t to come here and die for saints. If people needed to be told off or put in their place he did it. This is an act of love. Jesus came here to save us and contrary to what the world thinks we all need to be told when we’ve got it wrong. The same way we smack our children. We smack them out of love, not hate , because we love them and do it for their own good.
I suggest reading the - in conversation with God - series every day along with the church’s calendar and you’ll get a greater understanding of the love of God.
I know not all of scripture gives you a warm fuzzy feeling but that’s not it’s purpose. It’s revelation. It reveals to us the mystery of God and his creation. You simply don’t know God very well. To know God is to love God and to love God is to want to serve God. But first you have to know God. Study and pray.
I often get very moved by reading or listening to the scriptures. Especially when Jesus is healing, showing compassion, healing the sick and preaching about the love of God and revealing the truth that we so desperately needed…
This is a common objection that is based on misunderstanding. Jesus is love.