Jewelry, makeup, etc. Vanity?

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Is is sinful for people to wear jewelry or makeup? What about piercings, or tattoos? I even wonder about growing beards sometimes. I have trouble seeing why these don’t amount to vanity, unless they are more or less demanded by custom.
 
Is is sinful for people to wear jewelry or makeup? What about piercings, or tattoos? I even wonder about growing beards sometimes. I have trouble seeing why these don’t amount to vanity, unless they are more or less demanded by custom.
No, it is not a sin to wear make-up or jewelry. I think that being scrupulous can come into play when people start worrying about that as being a sin. Now, if you aren’t comfortable or just dislike wearing make-up or jewelry, that’s fine, but it is not a sin to wear them. In fact, I think I read that it was Mother Angelica who said that for some women, wearing make-up is an act of charity towards others!!
 
Is is sinful for people to wear jewelry or makeup? What about piercings, or tattoos? I even wonder about growing beards sometimes. I have trouble seeing why these don’t amount to vanity, unless they are more or less demanded by custom.
I think in the Sinner’s Guide, the Ven Louis of Grenada speaks of dressing and styling according to your station in life. sinful? unlikely. leading to occasions of sin? possible. Vanity and Greed being the first to come to mind.
 
I think your being way too scrupulous. I have a beard (as much as a blonde dude can 😉 ), peirced ear, and a small cross I wear around my neck. No comment on tattoos. 😉

Virtually anything CAN be sinful, but don’t take it to the extreme in worrying.
 
Is is sinful for people to wear jewelry or makeup? What about piercings, or tattoos? I even wonder about growing beards sometimes. I have trouble seeing why these don’t amount to vanity, unless they are more or less demanded by custom.
It’s not sinful/vain wear jewelry or makeup. I’m not a fan of tattoos or piercings other than ear lobes. In my opinion, vanity is drawling inordinate amounts of attention to one’s self or thinking too highly/shallow of you yourself.

For example, if your life centers around makeup/jewelry, then I think you would have a pretty vain life. If it’s just a thing you enjoy doing to contribute to society and make a living at the same time, then it’s not vain.

I think most lay women should wear some form of makeup at least once in awhile. It can be really pretty if it isn’t “too much” or weird looking. I think men and women in general should make sure they are attractive looking (different than trying to attract), which may or may not be makeup. Take care of and adorn the body that God has given you.
 
Is is sinful for people to wear jewelry or makeup? What about piercings, or tattoos? I even wonder about growing beards sometimes. I have trouble seeing why these don’t amount to vanity, unless they are more or less demanded by custom.
Makeup and jewelry are of themselves not sinful, neither are beards, piercings, and tattoos.

If you’re wearing $50,000 worth of bling to show the world how rich you are, then yes, vanity comes into play. Same with makeup, tats, piercings, and other body modifications.

Moderation is the key, both with this and with so many aspects of life. Be careful of scrupulosity. If you’re in doubt about wearing a ring or are feeling youre sinning because of your beard, talk it over with your spiritual advisor.
 
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Moderation is the key, both with this and with so many aspects of life. .
Dude (or Dudette, if your a girl)! Totally right on this.

Moderation is key with drinking, sex, eating, make up/jewlery, the list goes way on!
 
I love to wear makeup. I have a good collection from Mally Beauty, Laura Geller, Bare Escentuals and Tarte, as well as skin care from Philosophy and hair products from WEN. I also get my hair flat-ironed twice a week and colored every few months. The last two I tried to do on my own, but, I ended up with fried locks and orange hair. :eek:

Makeup helps me deal with self-esteem issues. It also hides the burn marks from my experimental attempts at straighting out my hair. :eek:

The reason why I use the brands that I do is that they are all pretty good at withstanding the scorching south Texas heat. When I do purchase new colors from these lines, I wear them to Mass first. I also tend to wear a lot of purples and violets eyeshadows during Advent and Lent and golden tones during Christmas and Easter. I guess even in makeup, I am a liturgical geek. I even wrote about that in my blog. 😃
 
Is is sinful for people to wear jewelry or makeup? What about piercings, or tattoos? I even wonder about growing beards sometimes. I have trouble seeing why these don’t amount to vanity, unless they are more or less demanded by custom.
Dear MilesVitae,

Cordial greetings and a very good day.

It is very admirable, especially nowadays when so many modern day Catholics have a adopted a hand in hand with world type of religious practice, that you are even exercised regarding such issues. You are decidedly not being overscrupulous in asking such questions, but are simply taking seriously the call to sanctity and separation from the world.
That is laudable and what every Christian ought to do, even more so nowadays in our godless and decadent culture.

St. Paul, in his Pastoral Epistle to young Timothy, says that, “women should adorn themselves modestly and with seemly apparel, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly attire but by good deeds, as befits those who profess religion” (I Tim. 2: 9). St. Paul has been citicized severely for these words, as if he did not want members of the fair sex to look their lovliest. Such riddiculous criticism is entirely unjustified, for St. Paul only means that the real adornment of the Christian women is not coiffure or jewellery or costly vesture, but good works which are the fruits of a character cultivated by holiness of life.

As those who have been “ransomed, healed, restored, forgiven”, we are not to be *unduly *pre-occupied with how we look or indulging in extravagance. It is most certainly an ostentatious display of worldly vanity to want to wear an inordinate amount of jewelry and make-up. A woman who professes godliness will surely be more concerned with adorning “the hidden person of the heart with the imperishaable jewel of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious” (I Pet. 3: 4). For the woman of faith genuine adornment is attained by the means of the performance of good works and acts of mercy.

As for tattoos, which are, alas, becoming very fashionable, even for women, these are a symbolic of the brash world with its vulgarity and clearly have no place among those who profess godliness. Apart from being downright unsightly and low class, they convey the impression of ill-breeding and an uncouth demeanor and thus do not sit comfortably with the religion of Christ. Give them a very wide-berth, dear friend. Beards are acceptable, provided that they are kept clean and well trimmed.

Any vain display on the part of men and women is offensive to good taste and propriety, but what is more important is that it is offensive to our all holy God. How sad today that many modern Catholics have lost their instinct for modesty and unashamedly pursue the cult of beauty and personal embellishment. It is even more reprehensible when women attend Holy Mass in unseemly garments, decked with jewelry and excessive make-up, which hardly befits broken and contrite hearts, which God welcomes and expects.

Warmest good wishes,

Portrait

Pax
 
I was wondering when the no makeup “religious fanatic extremist(s)” would show up.
 
I am a recovered athiest, incredibly devoted Catholic and heavily tattooed woman. To the degree that removal is not a particularly viable option. I have to bear a lot of scrutiny and judgement for it. However, I know and feel the love of Jesus. What men choose to think I really don’t need to be bothered with it. I am no longer the person who received all the bodywork but I am the person that has to carry it for the rest of my life.
 
I dont think wearing make up could be considered a sin from a Catholic perspective, however IMHO the wrong gender wears make-up that’s all 😃
 
My wife just tonight said that she heard under some circumstances wearing makeup might be considered an act of charity!

Looking our best might actually encourage others to converse with us, allowing us very small ways of getting to know them, developing and deepening friendships, creating small opportunities to talk with them about more than just the weather, over time moving into substantial topics like family, love, and other matters.

Just a thought.
 
Dear MilesVitae,

As for tattoos, which are, alas, becoming very fashionable, even for women, these are a symbolic of the brash world with its vulgarity and clearly have no place among those who profess godliness. Apart from being downright unsightly and low class, they convey the impression of ill-breeding and an uncouth demeanor and thus do not sit comfortably with the religion of Christ. Give them a very wide-berth, dear friend. Beards are acceptable, provided that they are kept clean and well trimmed.

Pax
Even through your eloquence your how judgmental you are shines through. I am a woman with a few tattoos and I have even had my priest tell me that they were “really cool”. I think that it depends on what tattoos you have. Mine are of Catholic symbols and I see them as a form of mortification, which most people in the church see as just fine. To say that someone is ill-bred because they have tattoos is presumptuous and shows that you judge by appearances rather than looking to see the man(or woman’s) heart. I think that it is sinful to come to such conclusions about people you know nothing about.
 
Even through your eloquence your how judgmental you are shines through. I am a woman with a few tattoos and I have even had my priest tell me that they were “really cool”. I think that it depends on what tattoos you have. Mine are of Catholic symbols and I see them as a form of mortification, which most people in the church see as just fine. To say that someone is ill-bred because they have tattoos is presumptuous and shows that you judge by appearances rather than looking to see the man(or woman’s) heart. I think that it is sinful to come to such conclusions about people you know nothing about.
^agreed! i have about 6 tattoos. 3 of which are religious, 3 of which are not. i get asked about them all the time and it is a great way to evangalize.
 
^agreed! i have about 6 tattoos. 3 of which are religious, 3 of which are not. i get asked about them all the time and it is a great way to evangalize.
Very true! Mine have been conversations starters where I can talk to people about Catholicism
 
how do catholics feel about tattoos? just curious.
I’m sure we all have very different feelings about them.
As far as what we think about them, from what I’ve read I believe they are not immoral of themselves and do not constitute mutilation of the body as some argue. None the less, in some (maybe most) cases I have trouble understanding why they would not be vain.
 
If the jewelry and makeup are not worn in abundance and to show off the fact someone has lots of money, then no issues here.

I do like to wear jewelry and makeup. I just do not wear tons of either one no matter if I am at work or Mass, and do my best to not be showy. I may wear a few extra items of jewelry and apply a bit extra makeup for a party or concert but that is appropriate for those places.

I choose not to get tattoos because I am not willing to deal with the pain and permanence of them. At least I can remove the make up and jewelry at the end of the day (or night).
 
I dont think wearing make up could be considered a sin from a Catholic perspective, however IMHO the wrong gender wears make-up that’s all 😃
And I really do not think women should be expected to sport beards!
 
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