When I’ve been confronted with serious trials, and God knows, I have, I like to quietly reflect on the following prayer:
O God, by whom the meek are guided in judgment, and
light riseth up in darkness for the godly: Grant me, in all
my doubts and uncertainties, the grace to ask what thou
wouldest have me to do, that the Spirit of wisdom may save
me from all false choices, and that in thy light I may see
light, and in thy straight path may not stumble; through
Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
It may not necessarily be THAT prayer, but my humble suggestion is to find one that really resonates with you and reflect on it as often as possible in quiet meditation. Return to it when you doubt, and use it to help your trust and faith in God that all things do happen for a reason. Sometimes we don’t see the beauty of the trial until long after the judgement, but we can all have faith that the beauty will shine through.