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I’m doing pretty well. My husband and our three adult(ish) kids are home sheltering in place. I am very thankful to have a comfortable home, internet, books, good company, and food. Looking forward to receiving Jesus in the Eucharist again. Praying virus rates die down, and people are provided for! :pray:t3:
 
Thanks for checking. I wasn’t doing so well today because it is my self appointed grocery store day and the anxiety clings to me long after I’ve returned home. But I’m doing better now. I have some thoughts I’ll share incase anyone else needs this.

I need to make sort of a grocery store talk down for myself of things to mentally repeat to keep the anxiety at bay. Something like, " There’s plenty of food. They’re going to restock. We will not go hungry. The kids can snack less." Or maybe just a “Jesus, I trust in you.”

I might need to have a family meeting where we talk about how everyone is feeling and what kinds of things everyone needs to feel recharged: which of us have needs for some amount of alone or quiet time, which of us need activities with eachother to be lifted, and then once we’ve talked about it, we can make a pact to try to make those things happen for eachother.
 
I ran out of buttermilk too and discovered on the Google machine you can make your own with regular milk and white vinegar or lemon juice. Who knew?
 
How kind, thank you.
I’m on furlough I live in nj and dh is working from home as he works ny.

He telecommuters often now every day.

Stay safe! 🙂
 
I believe that we are rather lucky all things considered. My wife and I are both still getting paid - I am teleworking and she is a public school teacher who will be retiring at the end of this school year (already planned before the outbreak).

My son is living in an extended stay hotel (long story and not related to the virus) and staying in his room nearly all the time. My daughter is in her final semester of college (which has shifted to online teaching for the remainder of the term), but the place where she worked has shut down for the duration (roller skating rink), so she scrambled for a replacement and just got on with Amazon at a distribution facility not too far away.

And the area where we live, while not unaffected, is not one of the major hot spots of infection, so we feel as if it is okay to poke our heads outside every now and then and feel the sun when it is out.
 
Southeastern United States here. We are doing fine. My parents and I are retired and my son is homeschooled. We only get out to do drive-through (groceries and prepared food) and to do things in the yard. We are homebodies anyway, so in all honesty, not much has changed. I assist at Mass, to the extent that is possible, online, TLM. I am growing vegetables in the yard, and cooking for my family. My son and I wanted to take a vacation over spring break (we adhere to the public school calendar but we start after Labor Day, the way everybody used to), but that may not happen until summer or later — many people have it a whole lot worse, no job, no income.
 
I wasn’t doing so well today because it is my self appointed grocery store day and the anxiety clings to me long after I’ve returned home.
Honestly, grocery trips are too anxiety Inducing for me. Seeing the empty shelves just sets me off. I’ve stopping going and I am now shopping online. It is still hard to find what I need sometimes, but it is less frustrating than staring at empty shelves.

I’ve also expanded our garden which helps.
 
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Hi, kind of you to ask.
We are in Ohio and doing okay. This week seems easier than last.
The hardest part for me is that 3 of my children are at their Dads for the time being.
And also I can not be outside where I live, rural city close neighbors, closest one being healthcare worker, God bless her.
Shopping online, staying busy indoors, trying to get my 50 yr old mother to do the same…

Will have an Easter lunch tomorrow and keep praying.
 
When you buy meat online, do you find it is what you ordered? I’m always scared with meat and vegetables thinking they will send what they want to.
 
Yes. It is always what we ordered. We got a very good flat Brisket in for Easter.
 
Hello everyone…Just trying to cope in this unbelievable circumstance…the virus. Here in our community, on tuesdays, the local Walmart has “Senior” hour starting at 6:00AM. My husband and I will attend this next Tuesday. Hopefully we can get all we need… 😒 I created a spreadsheet grocery list that I categorized by departments to make our shopping easier… :roll_eyes: If there is a line for paper goods, then he will stay in line while I shop for the necessary food items. I am getting anxious just thinking about this much needed trip to the store. I have experienced some good things like baking bread, and tomorrow I will make Flour Tortillas. I like cooking, especially baking. Oh, I have only one yeast packet left and will have to save it for baking another loaf of bread, otherwise, I could and would like to make some cinnamon rolls with raising and pecans. 🍞 Oh, another positive outcome of this isolation is that I have lost weight! We exercise more! But a negative aspect is that although I Pray …I am worried and concern for our well-being. We also started playing games like dominos, checkers, chess, etc.
 
I live in Florida , and am 83 years old with a lung condition and under a great doctor’s care. Before all this started I was a weekday Mass goer and did all my own food shopping. I am blessed that a daughter and son live in the area and check up on me frequently and pick up and bring me my groceries. And they keep a proper distance from me!

Thankfully I can clean my own little house, but not all in one day! 🙂 It is good exercise. I spend the day praying, reading, preparing my meals, the forum, and keeping in touch with the rest of my family and making and getting calls and e-mails from them. I have a few people that I write letters to also.

The hobby I have now is making greeting cards with pressed flower petals, leaves, and some stickers from the craft store which I have a lot of. Good thing I purchased all those supplies before all this!
I drive my 17 year old Toyota Corolla up and down the driveway every day so the battery doesn’t die. Hopefully, when this is over it can still get me to Mass and the food store which is nearby.

Blessings to all on this huge “retreat” we are all on in different ways.
 
Located west, and a little north in Mid-Central Indiana, we saw a temp of 78 F at 5:00 PM, on Wed, 4-8-20. It’s 29 degrees now, though, at 530 AM on Tues, 4-14, and we’re (sob!) expecting snow tomorrow (Wed) and Fri. I am not a snow fan, so it seems like Lent’s just been lengthened! Trying to decide which blankets I’m willing to ruin with thorns from my rosebushes. They’re looking so good that I want to protect them.

Since 3-1, I’ve only been for groceries once, around 3-19, I think. I had to mail something on 4-8, so just drove around for a bit to look at all the beautiful spring tree blossoms and flowers and see real, live humanoids, but I wasn’t out of my vehicle and I didn’t speak with anyone. I don’t believe I’ve ever seen so many cars in driveways. The grass here has been a more vibrant green than I’ve seen in a few years.

Although I now have two cochlear implants, phone speech Is still difficult for me, so communicating with offices has been a struggle. I text a friend in another state with the necessary info, then she calls the company for me. Normally, I’d bop over to one of four friends’ homes, but that, of course, is verboten right now.

My friends report more frequent thoughts about God, why we’re here, if we need to change our normal living patterns, what heaven will be like after we croak, more thoughts of and prayers for the dead (almost all my friends are non-Catholic) and more googling to ferret answers pertaining to faith questions. They also report more out-of-the-blue crying jags, sensations of helplessness, and greater patience with and interaction with others—a sort of new level or layer of awareness, but also shorter fuses that they self-chastize.
 
My friends report more frequent thoughts about God, why we’re here, if we need to change our normal living patterns, what heaven will be like after we croak, more thoughts of and prayers for the dead (almost all my friends are non-Catholic) and more googling to ferret answers pertaining to faith questions. They also report more out-of-the-blue crying jags, sensations of helplessness, and greater patience with and interaction with others—a sort of new level or layer of awareness, but also shorter fuses that they self-chastize.
Thank you for sharing! Wow…almost unbelievable temperature drop for Indiana! I used to live in New York for almost fifty years, raised the family of eight there, and moved to Florida when my husband accepted a buy-out from his company. Life has a lot of twists and turns and the Lord is very good.

I pray this huge retreat changes the hearts of many who do not know the Lord! Lord give us the wisdom to share with them!
And, may those who know Him move closer to him.
 
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My friends report more frequent thoughts about God, why we’re here, if we need to change our normal living patterns, what heaven will be like after we croak, more thoughts of and prayers for the dead (almost all my friends are non-Catholic) and more googling to ferret answers pertaining to faith questions. They also report more out-of-the-blue crying jags, sensations of helplessness, and greater patience with and interaction with others—a sort of new level or layer of awareness, but also shorter fuses that they self-chastize.
Thank you for sharing! Wow…almost unbelievable temperature drop for Indiana! I used to live in New York for almost fifty years, raised the family of eight there, and moved to Florida when my husband accepted a buy-out from his company. Life has a lot of twists and turns and the Lord is very good.

I pray this huge retreat changes the hearts of many who do not know the Lord! Lord give us the wisdom to share with them!
And, may those who know Him move closer to him.
I lived in Whitehall, totally surrounded by Columbus, OH, for three school years, 1974-77. We enjoyed our time there!

I do believe that all Christian religions will see an increase in attendance, for awhile, at least. I just hope that it is not only sustained, but that belief and membership continue to grow.

Last night’s low prediction was 32 degrees Fahrenheit on my weather app, but we went down to 29, a 51-degree drop from only five-and-a-half days earlier.
 
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“I do believe that all Christian religions will see an increase in attendance, for awhile, at least. I just hope that it is not only sustained, but that belief and membership continue to grow.”

If we all keep praying we can spark one another to desire to get closer to the Lord.
Many others did that for me! Of course, it was the Lord working in them. 😀
 
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