Well, chalk one up to bad social skills and obliviousness. I honestly figured it’d be easier on the both of us to just get these kind of things out of the way at Mass, as it feels kind of silly to make an appointment for a minute of prayer. Not to mention I’ve never had them turn me away, which kind of kept me oblivious. I’ll probably just round up a couple things at once from now on and make an appointment.
-To all of you-
Blessings do vary in power depending on the prayer used and the merits of the the clergyman imparting the blessing. Which does have me worried about my holy water, because the prayers have been changed drastically post-VII. I mean, there’s actually no such thing as “holy water” like we would consider the Eucharist something in and of itself regardless of what kind of person the priest is and what prayer has been designated for the consecration (I think one liturgy doesn’t even have words for the consecration, but has it merely implied.) The Church created holy water and decides what it is. Anyways, what I’m trying to say is a blessed object is only as good as it’s blessing.
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Can. 1166 Sacramentals are sacred signs by which effects, especially spiritual effects, are signified in some imitation of the sacraments and are obtained through the intercession of the Church.
Can. 1167 §1. The Apostolic See alone can establish new sacramentals, authentically interpret those already received, or abolish or change any of them.
§2. In confecting or administering sacramentals, the rites and formulas approved by the authority of the Church are to be observed carefully.
Can. 1168 The minister of sacramentals is a cleric who has been provided with the requisite power. According to the norm of the liturgical books and to the judgment of the local ordinary lay persons who possess the appropriate qualities can also administer some sacramentals.
Can. 1169 §1. Those marked with the episcopal character and presbyters permitted by law or legitimate grant can perform consecrations and dedications validly.
§2. Any presbyter can impart blessings except those reserved to the Roman Pontiff or bishops.
§3. A deacon can impart only those blessings expressly permitted by law.
Can. 1170 Blessings, which are to be imparted first of all to Catholics, can also be given to catechumens and even to non-Catholics unless there is a prohibition of the Church to the contrary.
Can. 1171 Sacred objects, which are designated for divine worship by dedication or blessing, are to be treated reverently and are not to be employed for profane or inappropriate use even if they are owned by private persons.
Can. 1172 §1. No one can perform exorcisms legitimately upon the possessed unless he has obtained special and express permission from the local ordinary.
§2. The local ordinary is to give this permission only to a presbyter who has piety, knowledge, prudence, and integrity of life.
I am not a Canon lawyer but look in at the red font. Also the restriction of blessing St. Benedict medals on St. Benedict’s feast day has been lifted to any day of the year.
This strange attitude that some have is contrary to what the Bishop’s want. If you have the traditional blessing they are obliged to bless the medal that way.