Not exactly. It would be more like pulling her off the ledge. God killing her wouldn’t be the same as me killing her, because God knows he’s bringing her to heaven and saving her from hell. Also, suicide isn’t really comparable to hell.
I’m not saying that sin is acceptable. And how would killing her a year early interfere with her free will? She had free will her whole life, and God could just give her a little less life to prevent her from making bad choices. She chose good for 35 years and bad for 3 months, so why couldn’t God just take her during her good period? Why did he let her go into her bad period before letting her die?
If the parents are capable of magically protecting him then I think that they have a responsibility to do so. If you could say “abracadabra” and make your child immune to being run over, what possible justification could you give for not doing it? If you see your child running into the street and you make no effort to stop them then you’re a terrible parent. You are responsible for your children, and God more so even than a human parent, because he can simultaneously and infallibly watch everyone without ever missing anything.
Yes, she did do that. However I think the idea that God would throw her in hell after making no effort to save her repulsive. It’s like a parent who watches, unconcerned as their child plays in the street, then punishes them for being hit by a truck while making no effort to get them to a hospital.