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DelsonJacobs
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Since they do not appreciate any type of logic besides the “proof text” and quoting “authority” blurbs, the average JW will not respond well if one tries to steer them away from their trademark formula of doing things.I agree with all of this except it does presuppose the JW you are speaking to understands and appreciates logic and reason. Otherwise you will continue in the circular arguments based on what is published by the Watchtower.
Peace bro!!!
The advice I gave, of course, is not meant to be shared with the JW per se. It is meant to be used as an approach by a non-JW if they get in a discussion with them. If you just presented them with my comments on this forum the JW would see no benefit in it, which I am sure you realize.
Because of pride and fear of going against direction of accepting any other type of logic except for that which comes from their Governing Body, one should not expect discussions with JW of any type to produce anything but a “backfire effect.” We increase their faith in their beliefs by letting them go through their “proof texts,” because they are reminders for them that become ingrained via such repetition. So the best thing to do is not allow a discussion to go the way they’ve practiced or have been taught will go.
Discussions with them are rarely helpful because they believe that any second of doubt can be a literal attack of Satan upon their person. Cognitive dissonance experienced by them whenever they are proved wrong or left speechless by some argument or example that goes against what they’ve been taught can actually cause them to become ill.
As a Witness I’ve seen it firsthand: a good friend of mine fainted when something occurred that was “impossible” according to JW theology and had to be cared for over several weeks by her daughter–even while she was on her honeymoon!
Another friend who experienced the falsehood of the JWs firsthand locked himself in his bedroom for weeks and went into a depression that almost ended his marriage.
And the woman I almost married when I was a JW, when she had such an experience in which her beliefs were jarred disappeared for a day. When she was found (in another city I might add) she was out of touch with reality so badly that she had to be checked into a mental health hospital where she removed her clothes and went looking for a long-lost husband from her past–who never existed in the first place.
All of these recovered, dismissed or forgot they ever had such experiences where the belief system of the JWs was proven wrong and made them lose it. They sadly went back to following the Governing Body blindly.
Do your best when discussing things, but be aware while you do that it may not do much. They have been given new instruction recently, insisting that they must obey their Governing Body, even if it “may not appear practical from a human standpoint. All of us [Jehovah’s Witnesses] must be ready to obey any instructions we may receive [from their Governing Body], whether these appear sound from a strategic or human standpoint or not.”–The Watchtower, Study Edition, November 12, 2013, page 20.