JW's why they don't celebrate Christmas

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I was having a conversation with a new friend who is JW. We were talking about why they don’t celebrate Christmas. She said it is in the Bible where Christ said not to celebrate his birth. Where is that in the Bible, and it it taken out of context?

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Arlene:
I was having a conversation with a new friend who is JW. We were talking about why they don’t celebrate Christmas. She said it is in the Bible where Christ said not to celebrate his birth. Where is that in the Bible, and it it taken out of context?

Arlene
It’s not in Scripture at all.
 
interesting…I remember a quote from a little girl (this was in the local paper) who was obviously a JW and she said that they don’t celebrate Christmas because “there was no proof it was December 25th” or something like that, it was a few years ago.

Uh, yeah…really… I bet that little girl wished she could have barbie dolls and other things girls play with. But since they don’t allow them to celebrate birthdays, by the time they’d be old enough to earn the money, it’d be too late.
 
Being raised a JW – I tell ya every year in school it was a downer to come back to classes after “winter break” with no stories or new clothes, etc. Birthdays, same deal. As a kid I just learned to parrot the lines but inside it just inhaled deeply.
 
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b_justb:
Being raised a JW – I tell ya every year in school it was a downer to come back to classes after “winter break” with no stories or new clothes, etc. Birthdays, same deal. As a kid I just learned to parrot the lines but inside it just inhaled deeply.
But she quoted something that was supposedly in the Bible where Jesus said don’t celebrate my birth, celebrate my death. So that is the basis of why they don’t celebrate. Do you know where that is in the Bible, or is it in their made up Bible?
 
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Arlene:
But she quoted something that was supposedly in the Bible where Jesus said don’t celebrate my birth, celebrate my death. So that is the basis of why they don’t celebrate. Do you know where that is in the Bible, or is it in their made up Bible?
As your friend for the citation. I doubt it will seem very formidible once you see it in context. I suspect she is citing the passages of the Gospels which exhort us to keep the Lord’s Supper, and interpolating the prohibition against birthdays. Short of an actual passage however I have no idea what she is referring to.

Witnesses usually say that there is no express license for the celebration of any observance or holiday except the annual observance of the Lord’s Supper on 25 Nissan. Birthdays are never authorized by Scripture and the only examples of such being celebrated (apart from our Lord’s Nativity) are of Pagans or of disobedient Jews–, the Baker in the story of Joseph was beheaded on Pharoah’s birthday, Salome danced lewdly before Herod on his birthday and asked for the head of John the Baptist, etcetera.

Hope this clarifies things!
 
The scripture that they tie together with the commands to commemorate Christ’s death is:

Ecclesiastes 7:1 A good name is better than a good ointment, and the day of one’s death is better than the day of one’s birth.

As can be seen, this is still very short of prohibiting birthdays, or an observance of Christ’s birth.
That all of the birthdays in the Bible are from pagans or bad people is a subject of some debate:

Job 1:4 And his (Job’s) sons used to go and hold a feast in the house of each one on his day…

A number of commentators have understood these to be birthday celebrations. There is nothing in the text to indicate that what they were doing was bad, or that the troubles that they experienced were as a result of these celebrations.
 
No where does the bible forbid birthdays. In fact the bible points out that we aren’t to make judgements about someone for keeping or not keeping certain celebrations and festivals.
 
Another point they try to make is that the only people who kept track of b-days in Jesus’ day were people into astrology and since that sort of thing is a no-no, there was no reason to record the actual birth date of Christ which is why Dec 25 is a fake.

I would ask the JW friend WHY Jesus wouldn’t want his birthday celebrated. At least people are thinking of Him. Even people too busy & preoccupied with themselves normally are confronted with the story of the baby, born in a manger. Why is that a bad thing? And people are generally more charitable during the Christmas season - giving to the needy etc. What’s the down side to celebrating Jesus? Now your friend might point to the greedy materialism that unfortunatly Christmas has become, but assure him/her that as Catholics we are truly celebrating the birth of Christ. Say, “Don’t take MY word for it… come to midnight mass with me this year.”
 
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Arlene:
But she quoted something that was supposedly in the Bible where Jesus said don’t celebrate my birth, celebrate my death. So that is the basis of why they don’t celebrate. Do you know where that is in the Bible, or is it in their made up Bible?
Jesus never said that. Have her give you the verse so you can look at it. And then show her the verses in Matthew and Luke that show the Angels in heaven and the Sheppard’s in the fields rejoicing at His birth; obviously celebrating it 🙂
 
At His Feet:
The scripture that they tie together with the commands to commemorate Christ’s death is:

Ecclesiastes 7:1 A good name is better than a good ointment, and the day of one’s death is better than the day of one’s birth.

As can be seen, this is still very short of prohibiting birthdays, or an observance of Christ’s birth.
That all of the birthdays in the Bible are from pagans or bad people is a subject of some debate:

Job 1:4 And his (Job’s) sons used to go and hold a feast in the house of each one on his day…

A number of commentators have understood these to be birthday celebrations. There is nothing in the text to indicate that what they were doing was bad, or that the troubles that they experienced were as a result of these celebrations.
 
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jediliz:
interesting…I remember a quote from a little girl (this was in the local paper) who was obviously a JW and she said that they don’t celebrate Christmas because “there was no proof it was December 25th” or something like that, it was a few years ago.

Uh, yeah…really… I bet that little girl wished she could have barbie dolls and other things girls play with. But since they don’t allow them to celebrate birthdays, by the time they’d be old enough to earn the money, it’d be too late.
It’s not like JWs don’t give their children gifts at other times. I’m pretty sure that just because that girl couldn’t celebrate a holiday doesn’t mean she was deprived of stuff. That’s kind of a leap don’t you think? As an adult do you get all your clothes, food, etc from Christmas gifts? I doubt it. so why would this child only get toys at holidays?
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b_justb:
Being raised a JW – I tell ya every year in school it was a downer to come back to classes after “winter break” with no stories or new clothes, etc. Birthdays, same deal. As a kid I just learned to parrot the lines but inside it just inhaled deeply.
Why didn’t your parents give you gifts at other times? In my house we had “family day” once a year where we would go someplace cool during the day, like a science museum or something, and exchange gifts at night. Plus there were other random times my parents brought home stuff for me. I’m glad that gift giving and telling people you love them wasn’t confined to certain days on the calendar in my home.
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Arlene:
But she quoted something that was supposedly in the Bible where Jesus said don’t celebrate my birth, celebrate my death. So that is the basis of why they don’t celebrate. Do you know where that is in the Bible, or is it in their made up Bible?
I’d have to look up the specific scripture. Don’t know what you mean by “made up bible”. The basic reasons are – the bible does not condone celebrating birthdays, not even Jesus’ and that December 25th was not the day of his birth anyway. You can prove that through scientific fact of the climate in that region at the time. There’s no way shepards would have been out tending to their flock at that time of season and day. Plus the Christmas tree and all the other things that have come along with that holiday have their basis in pagan rituals. If you don’t believe me, ask a priest. It’s true. The Christmas tree has lights on it because of the pagan day of lights or festival or something or other. What has that got to do with Jesus?

Anyway, I can look up more in depth info later, but I’m confused as to why that second person was left feeling so left out at holidays. My parents always made sure I never felt left out. I don’t get why it was so tough for some and not for others.
 
What the Bible Doesn’t Condone - I guess a basic question is, if the Bible doesn’t condone, or perhaps actively command to do something, is that a reason for it to be prohibited? Are the accounts of Herod’s and Pharoah’s birthdays enough to prohibit all birthdays? Isn’t there a possibility, at least, that righteous Job’s sons celebrated birthdays? If we are going to start prohibiting all things that are not explicitly commanded, then all religions will have to eliminate a lot, JWs included.

Were the Shepherds Outdoors with Their Flocks in Winter? - This might be true in a general way but when I hear it put as an “impossibility”, I question it. I’ve seen construction workers outdoors working in Winter, for example, when people would think that they would not be. For us, 2000 years later to say that we know for a certainty that the shepherds could not have been out there in the winter; I don’t think that’s airtight.

Pagan Trappings - Along the same lines as above; if we start to throw out everything that has a pagan connection in our lives, we’re going to be doing a lot of throwing out. Wedding rings, days of week, etc. Isn’t it true that, over time, the meaning of symbols do actually change? Words, as an example, are symbols, and their meanings certainly change over time. Before the 20th C, the swastika was a relatively benign symbol but during the course of the century it’s meaning changed dramatically. Isn’t it possible for a symbol to be “appropriated” (good or bad), and come to mean something else? When you ask an average Christmas celebrater - what does that symbol mean? What will be the answer they give you?
 
At His Feet:
Pagan Trappings - Along the same lines as above; if we start to throw out everything that has a pagan connection in our lives, we’re going to be doing a lot of throwing out. Wedding rings, days of week, etc. Isn’t it true that, over time, the meaning of symbols do actually change? . . . . . .When you ask an average Christmas celebrater - what does that symbol mean? What will be the answer they give you?
Okay, but what does a tree with lights on it have to do with Jesus? It’s fine if they no longer mean pagan things, but can you explain to me why it has anything to do with god’s son being born?
(I’m not being antagonistic. I honestly have no idea.)
 
Why didn’t your parents give you gifts at other times? In my house we had “family day” once a year where we would go someplace cool during the day, like a science museum or something, and exchange gifts at night.
Yes we had the Family Day gift giving work around a few times.
the bible does not condone celebrating birthdays,
Nor does it prohibit it.
There’s no way shepards would have been out tending to their flock at that time of season and day
The Temple Sheppard’s would have been. An interesting idea to look at. If the date is accurate (which is highly unlikely) but if it is, then the angelic hosts would have told the Temple Sheppard’s about the coming of Christ. How apropos.

Christmas isn’t about getting gifts and trees. It’s about focusing on the Incarnation of Christ. The JW’s objections to Christmas boil down to them not ascribing to the doctrine of the Divinity of Jesus.
 
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b_justb:
Christmas isn’t about getting gifts and trees.
that’s what it’s about for quite a lot of people. I have no need for my faith to be commercialized like that.
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b_justb:
It’s about focusing on the Incarnation of Christ. The JW’s objections to Christmas boil down to them not ascribing to the doctrine of the Divinity of Jesus.
This goes along with why we don’t celebrate mother’s day and such too. You should focus on things like this every day, not on one specific day. It goes along with not celebrating birthdays. The bible is our example and the birthdays presented in it were horrible affairs where our lesson is we should not celebrate them.

So if you got gifts at other times why were you (and apparently continue to be) so upset about not celebrating christmas? What’s the big deal? It’s so odd to hear how not celebrating holidays absolutely ruined somebody’s life. I really don’t see how that could happen.
 
–Jaded
JW, just looking around
Okay, but what does a tree with lights on it have to do with Jesus? It’s fine if they no longer mean pagan things, but can you explain to me why it has anything to do with god’s son being born?
(I’m not being antagonistic. I honestly have no idea.)
The Christmas tree story is awesome. Excuse the vagueness; I don’t have the particulars in front of me. But the story is that when a certain Christian missionary was spreading the Gospel of Christ in Central Europe he camped in the area now known as Germany. The local religion was pagan and they were tree worshippers. He cut down the largest Oak Tree in the forest a symbolic gesture in toppling the local paganism. The next morning a Pine Tree stood in it’s place. The missionary took this as a sign from God and the Christmas tree tradition was born. Christmas trees and pagan roots? Youbetcha! Christ’s victory over paganism. Great roots!

-B.
 
–Jaded
JW, just looking around

So tell me. What about that generation that was at an age of reason in 1914 not dying off before the “END”? You JW’s changed your tune on that option since it’s pretty clear they aren’t any of them left and the “END” hasn’t come yet?

Nothing like shifting Truth for being THE Truth.

-B.

ps - have you discussed being at a Catholic forum with your elders? I wonder if they would approve?
 
b_justb said:
–Jaded
JW, just looking around

So tell me. What about that generation that was at an age of reason in 1914 not dying off before the “END”? You JW’s changed your tune on that option since it’s pretty clear they aren’t any of them left and the “END” hasn’t come yet?

Nothing like shifting Truth for being THE Truth.

-B.

ps - have you discussed being at a Catholic forum with your elders? I wonder if they would approve?

Okay, if you dont’ wish to have discussions with me, then don’t reply to me. I don’t see any need for anyone to pull out the “what would your elders think” card. That’s always what people say when they don’t like what JWs have to say. I have every right to be here. If people don’t want me here, then make the forum only open to catholics.

You can say we shift the truth all you want. I’m not going to argue with anyone. I’ll discuss things based on bible teachings, but I won’t argue. And some people just want to argue. You obviously left the JWs for a reason so there’s no point in talking to you about it anyway.
 
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