Oh Grace, I think that Love is by far the most important thing, so much so that I capitalize it most often, and I’d be happy to explain a bit more why I said what I said.
I think that there is an unhelpful distinction between Love and law here that is being made. St. Paul never excluded law, in the sense of a set of standards to which one is bound, from the Christian life, and he certainly never contrasted such a concept with Love, because to St. Paul Love itself inherently included a set of standards by which one was bound. Remember that Jesus’ teaching was that law was not replaced by Love, but rather that law was fulfilled by Love. This was also the teaching that runs throughout St. Paul: law was an imperfect version of Love. According to St. Paul, law is simply a set of written or spoken requirements that teach us how to Love. Hence he refers to the law as a teacher (or schoolmaster, or guardian, depending on your translation) in Galatians 3:24. This is also his teaching in Romans where he explains that the law is only capable of condemning, because it is only able to point out where we have sinned. It is only able to show us where we have failed to Love (cf. Romans 7:7), and is powerless to in fact
enable us to Love, as the Grace of the Holy Spirit through Jesus Christ does. (cf. Romans 8:3).
You said that the law is summed up in Love, but a more accurate citation of the Scriptures would be to say that Love fulfills the law (cf. Romans 13:8). If one Loves, one does not commit adultery, for that violates Love. If one Loves, one does not steal, covet, or murder, for these fall short of Love. There are standards to which we are bound, and these standards are in some ways
expressed by laws such as the 10 Commandments, but the standards are not defined by law, law just expresses various aspects of the on standard that really matters, which is to Love.
So my point here is simply that to Love can be, for lack of a badly needed better term, be “broken down” into any number of actions. God did this for His people in giving them things such as the Ten Commandments. Jesus used this principle Himself in His teaching when He taught that to Love Him is to keep His commandments (and proceeded to list several of the 10 Commandments). He certainly didn’t mean that keeping His commandments is the definition of Love, but He did mean that keeping them is a part of Loving Him - not because the commandments are anything of themselves, but because they express some of those behaviors which Love can be “broken down” to.
Ultimately, Love means to give of oneself entirely for another. Christ expressed this in His giving of His life for us. So if I Love, I will give myself entirely to another, not take from them in the form of stealing, murder, or adultery. To Love is to give; to fail to Love is to take, or to keep for oneself.
And so we are called to give of our entire selves to Christ, to the greatest degree that we are able to. And mortifying the body is a part of that. I did not intend to say that if Daniel failed to fast he would be breaking a law. He is not bound by any law to fast. He is, however, by Christ’s own command, bound to be perfect, as our Father is perfect, and to Love God with all his heart, and all his mind, and all his soul. Now Christ has given him the Grace to mortify himself the way that he has been doing. This is wonderful! While it may not be a sin to forgo his fast for a day, it would be to not give of himself to the greatest degree he is able. It would be failing to Love completely not in the sense that he will be violating some law, be-it a self-imposed law or not, but in the sense that he would not be giving of himself in accord with the Grace given him by Jesus Christ.
In regards to the specific passages from St. Paul that you quoted, they are referring to the practice of eating either meats considered unclean under the ceremonial laws of the Jewish people or in regards to eating meats sacrificed to idols. He was saying that it was not wrong to do either of these things, but that one may choose not to for the sake of avoiding scandal to those who were still hung up about the ceremonial laws. The passage has nothing to do with fasting.
The practice of fasts - even mandatory ones imposed by Church canons - is one that goes back to the earliest centuries of Christianity. And in fact, the idea that fasting does not make a person any closer to God than otherwise is rejected by St. Paul, who teaches in 2 Corinthians 6:4-5 that fasting approves us to God. He told us in 2 Corinthians 11:27 that he himself fasted often.
So that’s where I am coming from. If you want to read up any more on what I am talking about when I talk about Love, see
www.soladeiverbum.com/gracealone.shtml .
If you have any more questions, feel free to ask.
God bless!