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Kendy
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Hey guys,
I am sorry I left you hanging. I didn’t realize so many people had responded. I appreciate all of your thoughful responses, esp., those of you who were kind and understanding.
I did go out to dinner and I am really glad I did because I discovered that I didn’t want him as much as I thought. I think it’s just that a faithful catholic man is such a rare thing that sometimes anyone with a rosary in hand seems like Mr. Perfect. Yesterday, I was in adoration and there was a man about my age there, and I swear my mind started flying in 10,000 directions.
Anyway, I don’t think I did anything so horrible. We are all looking for God’s call, and it’s ok to look around until we have made vows. I would not even think of doing this with someone who had made any vows.
But as it turns out, it wasn’t even about the vows. I don’t think we have that much in common, and well, you can’t build a marriage on mutual love for the rosry alone
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I think sometimes on this forum, we forget that people are in communion with God and are being guided by the spirit. I am before the blessed sacrament everyday and I am very interested in what God’s calling me to do. At no point did I feel like I was going to do something that was not His will. I might resist him sometimes, but Jesus always get his way so I have learned it’s not worth the fight.
Kendy
I am sorry I left you hanging. I didn’t realize so many people had responded. I appreciate all of your thoughful responses, esp., those of you who were kind and understanding.
I did go out to dinner and I am really glad I did because I discovered that I didn’t want him as much as I thought. I think it’s just that a faithful catholic man is such a rare thing that sometimes anyone with a rosary in hand seems like Mr. Perfect. Yesterday, I was in adoration and there was a man about my age there, and I swear my mind started flying in 10,000 directions.
Anyway, I don’t think I did anything so horrible. We are all looking for God’s call, and it’s ok to look around until we have made vows. I would not even think of doing this with someone who had made any vows.
But as it turns out, it wasn’t even about the vows. I don’t think we have that much in common, and well, you can’t build a marriage on mutual love for the rosry alone
I think sometimes on this forum, we forget that people are in communion with God and are being guided by the spirit. I am before the blessed sacrament everyday and I am very interested in what God’s calling me to do. At no point did I feel like I was going to do something that was not His will. I might resist him sometimes, but Jesus always get his way so I have learned it’s not worth the fight.
Kendy