I always thought the mass was the sacrifice on the holy altar, not a community activity.
How about when people try to make me hold hands with them durring the our father and I refuse?
(A footnote related to another recent post: we stand when we receive communion and GIRM 43 allows for sitting or kneeling after the reception of communion.)
So, there if I draw attention to myself by kneeling there should be no problem. I’ll just refer the “offended” people to the girm.
There is much written on the Mass as a communal event, not a private devotion or one reserved to the priest-celebrant. I suggest that you read the Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy, the first document promulgated by the Council Fathers and Pope Paul VI in 1963. A couple of references will give you the flavor of this document and those that followed to implement its principles:
• ¶7: Christ is present in the liturgy in many ways and all members of the community are copresiders with Christ.
• ¶14: “In the restoration and promotion of the sacred liturgy, this full and active participation by all the people is the aim to be considered before all else.”
• ¶124: Churches shall be “suitable for the celebration of liturgical services and to bringing about the active participation of the faithful.”
Also, in the GIRM, example references that apply:
• ¶27: Outlines the fourfold presence of Christ in the celebration: the assembly, the minister, the word and the eucharistic elements.
• ¶288: “Churches…should be suitable for carrying out the sacred action and for ensuring the active participation of the faithful.”
And, a third major liturgical document: Environment and Art in Catholic Worship (1978); succeeded by Built of Living Stones (2000).
• Provides principles for preparing liturgical space for the worship of the Christian assembly: the building, furnishings; also, the gestures and movement of the people.
• EACW was normative particular law applicable to US churches: so designated by the U.S. bishops Appendix to the GIRM. BOLS is a guideline but does contains content often based on other legally-binding documents. One pertinent excerpt from BOLS:
• ¶31: “Because liturgical actions by their nature are communal celebrations, they are celebrated with the presence and active participation of the Christian faithful whenever possible.”
My experience with this thread confirms again my experience of many years as an architect and member of the Environment and Art Committee of our now-defunct Diocesan Liturgical Commission: the clergy - in general - have done a lousy job (no job, actually) of explaining to their parish communities the principles of and reasons for the changes to the liturgy initiated by Vatican II and its Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy. It is no wonder that there is so much misunderstanding of where we are, how we got here, what we should be doing.
In reference to the holding of hands or refusal to do so: that is up to you, of course. Hand-holding is not mentioned in the documents and I expect most people would not be offended. And kneeling after communion is one of your options under the GIRM. In my experience, most people do, although I attended a Mass in the LA Cathedral where the congregation stood after communion. I don’t expect that you will be criticized for it (you seem to be looking for conflict)!
