Oh wow, I go to the UGCC pretty regularly. I was aware that there are those who are against latinizations, but are there really people against english language Divine Liturgies? That is absurd. That is just planting the seeds for future children of the Ukrainian immigrants to either become Latins or to leave the Church as they identify more with the American culture.
In North America the leakage rate among the Ukrainians, Catholics and Orthodox alike, is astounding.
In high school I had a Ukrainian Orthodox friend who is non-practicing because since he did not speak Ukrainian (his parents didn’t pass it down and just going to Church once a week was not enough to learn it) he felt like a foreigner in the Church.
I have had the same experience, in both Ukrainian Catholic and Ukrainian Orthodox parishes. Although I was not raised in that church, I guess one could say I really was a foreigner.
Unfortunately in my own rite, the Latin rite, the Polish priests have the same attitude. I was at a parish once and basically treated like an outsider because I did not speak Polish (my grandparents were polish). But how can I learn if no one has taught me? Also due to life circumstances I learned to speak Spanish. I would love to learn Polish but due to my work situation right now (all Spanish) it would be difficult. There are parishes near my house where they only have daily confessions available in Polish.
My experience is the same, and I am also Polish through my grandparents on my father’s side (they came to America sometime around 1910). I was baptised in a ‘national’ parish in Chicago. This was not a PNCC parish, but a boundryless parish for the Polish Roman Catholics in the Archdiocese of Chicago. My father spoke Polish and that is all I heard when his family was together, but we used English in our home.
My father was not encouraging us to learn Polish, he was of two minds on the subject but primarily he was concerned that we ‘blend in’ and never have our Americanness questioned. He also maintained that he spoke a “fractured Chicago Polish” and we should not learn the language from him.
I have related my experiences going back to Polish parishes in Chicago elsewhere on CAF. It was very discouraging. Most of the people were recent (1980’s - 1990’s) immigrants, they did not adopt a welcoming mannerism for visiting strangers.
Evidently, they did not feel they ‘needed’ us.
We Novus Ordo-rite babies will always be misfits I suppose. Don’t fit in at the Polish parish because we don’t speak Polish. Don’t fit in at the Novus Ordo english parishes because we are too “traditional”…
I figure that I must have attended between 600 and 700 TLM’s while growing up, I remember it well enough.
I think the EF Mass has been idealized or romanticized in the peoples minds somewhat. It wasn’t nearly so perfect, eye-popping and awe inspiring then as most people would assume, although if all one has experienced is the Missa Normativa of today I can see that it would be quite elegant by contrast.
… Don’t fit in at the Eastern churches because that is not our tradition and we’ll always think like Latins …
If you will always think like a Latin then no, the eastern churches are not for you.
But if you reexamine the way you look at the Faith and can embrace it through eastern eyes you might (like so many others) find a home there after all.
I realize that you are already quite knowledgeable on the subject, but there are plenty of additional resources of Catholic authorship which can help you if you wish to explore this possibility further.