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Hope1960
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The Vatican made clear that Holy Communion can only be denied in very limited circumstances, and as you state, kneeling is not one of them. But it certainly states that the norms of the United States were approved, and those norms are clearly standing with a bow before receiving. That is my logic as to why I have decided FOR ME, it is a matter of obedience to our bishops.In view of the law that “sacred ministers may not deny the sacraments to those who opportunely ask for them, are properly disposed and are not prohibited by law from receiving them” (Canon 843 s. 1), there should be no such refusal to any Catholic who presents himself for Holy Communion at Mass, except in cases presenting a danger of grave scandal to other believers arising out of the person’s unrepented public sin or obstinate heresy or schism, publicly professed or declared. Even where the Congregation has approved of legislation denoting standing as the posture for Holy Communion, in accordance with the adaptations permitted to the Conferences of Bishops by the Institution Generalis Missalis Romani n. 160, paragraph 2, it has done so with the stipulation that communicants who choose to kneel are not to be denied Holy Communion on these grounds.
(GIRM 160)Holy Communion is to be received standing, unless an individual member of the faithful wishes to receive Communion while kneeling
Thus if there are two people in a parish, one of whom stands, and another kneels, neither are being disobedient. Neither are acting against the Norm. Any attempt to consider one of those to be disobedient is an act of Disobedience itself.Indeed, the faithful should not be imposed upon nor accused of disobedience and of acting illicitly when they kneel to receive Holy Communion"
You have a misunderstanding about what the Norm entails. It INCLUDES the option to kneel (and always has) A person who kneels is acting within the Norm.But it certainly states that the norms of the United States were approved, and those norms are clearly standing with a bow before receiving
At one time, yes, but we know now that Rome has literally been asked about this very situation and has responded that the faithful are not to be told that it is forbidden to elect to kneel while receiving Holy Communion. A bishop or pastor can explain the reasons that this is not the norm in a particular diocese–it is not forbidden to attempt to dissuade the faithful from kneeling, either–but to act in a way outside the norm simply is not grounds to withhold Holy Communion, no matter how many times the norms preferred by those with pastoral jurisdiction are explained. They must lead in that direction, if they desire it; they do not have authority to compel it nor to shame those whose lights lead them differently. Likewise, the faithful have no room to complain if a bishop makes standing the norm or does not make any particular accommodations for kneeling other than simply allowing it.I’m sorry something like this happened to you. Our priest instituted kneelers at the door of the altar steps so that people could kneel for Communion around Lent and he’s kept them since. I actually never liked receiving on the tongue or kneeling but now I do and I honestly find it hard to receive on the hand now. Kneeling, I can do or not.
Now, I have to agree with some others who say do as the Romans do but it is sad that the priest wasn’t open to you kneeling. Then again, we have no idea what was going through his mind nor what past experiences he’s had with it so best not to judge. Hard, I know!
If you don’t see ANYONE kneeling, perhaps refrain. While it is completely allowed and a beautiful way of expressing honor to God, it can be a little odd in a place where it is never done. I know because someone knelt in front of me once at another church and it was a bit awkward because I had been so close to him in the line.
So maybe pray about it some and also take a look at the surroundings. It’s not your fault at all but it can help to be a little be adaptable in different places!
I don’t think “because” is the right word here, is it? I did understand Greek Catholics receive standing, but I don’t think its “because” they receive in both kinds.In the Byzantine Tradition, we receive Holy Communion standing because we receive both Species at once