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joshjacob
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Al Masetti:
You bring up a very good point :clapping: .This is an excellent post. Would be useful in the ongoing discussion on married priests.
My wife has worked for more than 10 years as a secretary for a non-Catholic church. (They wanted someone who would not get involved in their internal politics.) Based on her experience, married ministers have an obligation (or an inclination) to look after their families first and the congregations second.
What happens when the minister’s spouse becomes terminally ill and requires a tremendous amount of time? Well, the spouse’s needs come first and the “attending” just isn’t there for the congregation.
This may seem “obsolete” in the “me-first” generation, but one of the needs is for someone who puts himself (or herself) last. Complete voluntary self-abnegation. [Is that the right word?]