Ladies, what would your thoughts be if you learned this about the man you're dating?

[Julia_Mae]

As is usually the case, it’s a combination of things. But some things are extensions of your profession, for instance, the type of people you interact with on a daily basis, the type of training you go through, lifestyle differences, etc. Honestly, I didn’t know there were so many differences, but I’ve come to realize that there are.

None of which answered my question. How are you managing to be on a date with a woman who doesn’t already know what you do for a living? I find the rest of this a lot of obfuscation. Maybe other women would, also.

I think it’s easy to say that a person’s profession doesn’t matter, but in reality, if you spend 8+ hours every day somewhere, it’s bound to become a huge part of your life and of who you are as a person.

If you are becoming a type of person that reflects your business instead of core values, then I’d say you have some issues. It’s how you do your living that counts. If you are living as if the whole world and everyone in it is something to promote, manipulate and exploit for your own gain, then, pretty much, you need to be dating the kind of women who are ONLY interested in your money and status. Decent women of Faith will have little interest in you.

 

[Elisabethelisa]

None of which answered my question. How are you managing to be on a date with a woman who doesn’t already know what you do for a living? I find the rest of this a lot of obfuscation. Maybe other women would, also.

If you are becoming a type of person that reflects your business instead of core values, then I’d say you have some issues. It’s how you do your living that counts. If you are living as if the whole world and everyone in it is something to promote, manipulate and exploit for your own gain, then, pretty much, you need to be dating the kind of women who are ONLY interested in your money and status. Decent women of Faith will have little interest in you.

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