However you say it, whatever terms you use. It’s usually the last sacrament listed. How is this sacrament supposed to be administered? Is it only for those on their death bed? Can anyone who is sick receive the sacrament? Can you receive it more than once?
Nobody ever discusses this sacrament and I really don’t know much about it.
Let’s give it a shot.
First the vocabulary.
Many people confuse the terms “last rites” “extreme Unction” “Anointing of the Sick” and use them interchangeably, so I have to start with the words.
Anointing [of the sick] and Unction [of the sick] are exactly the same thing. There is no difference whatsoever between them–none. There is a fallacy out there that there is some kind of difference between Anointing and Unction. They are simply two English translations for one Latin word (
unctionis), which has not changed–it was called “unctionis” before Vatican II and it’s still called “unctionis” after Vatican II.
The Sacrament itself is Anointing of the Sick or Unction of the Sick. For the moment, forget about the word “extreme” as that will come later. In this sacrament, a person who is seriously ill, not just sick but seriously ill, is anointed by a priest as a form of spiritual healing, praying for healing of both body and soul.
The person need not be at death’s door for the sacrament to be administered. In fact, the Church recommends very strongly that it be administered when the person becomes seriously ill, and not wait until death is approaching; at least not for the first time Unction is administered. Yes, it can be administered again if the illness gets worse, or if another illness occurs to make it more severe, or if some time has passed since the previous anointing.
If the person recovers, then yes, the Unction can be administered again for a different illness or a recurrence of the same.
The adjective “extreme” may be added but only if the situation itself is actually extreme. So, if the person is actually dying, then it can be called “extreme Unction” or even “extreme Anointing.” It is the same Sacrament, the only difference is that if the situation is extreme, we can add the description “extreme.”
Many people are confused about the term “last rites.” This term is not a synonym for the Sacrament–it never was. What the “last rites” does mean is that several rituals (rites) are administered one after the other. They are:
The Sacrament of Confession (at least in its minimal form of the priest pronouncing absolution).
The Sacrament of Unction (aka Anointing)
The Sacrament of Holy Communion as Viaticum (food for the journey) [if possible]
A special blessing called the “Last Blessing” or the “Apostolic Pardon” or the “Apostolic Blessing at the Hour of Death”
All 4 of these together make up the Last Rites of the Church. If the person is presumed to be dying (I say presumed because we can never predict the future) that’s when the Last Rites should be administered. If death is truly imminent (the person is expected to expire in literally seconds) then Communion is administered before Unction/Anointing.
There might not be enough time for a proper confession. In that case, the priest can pronounce the absolution only, and in truly extreme situations, it’s sufficient for him to say only the essential words “I absolve you…”
It is untrue that “Last Rites” or “Extreme Unction” has been replaced by “Sacrament of the Sick.” No such thing has happened. Unfortunately, many people are under that impression.
How’s that for a start?