kalt:
It really will not matter what we say to the LDS forum members. They will defend their actions to baptize, marry, etc., by proxy.
If the Mormon Church cannot keep an agreement with the Jewish people, or respect the call from the Vatican to stop these baptisms by proxy; we will never be able to convince the LDS Forum Members that these rituals by proxy are dishonest, disrespectful, anti-Jewish, anti-Catholic, anti-any other religion that is not Mormon.
What greater insult or lack of respect to one’s faith exists, aside from the altering of history to deceitfully record a Jew or Christian, as a convert to Mormonism.
I’m sorry, but that is a lie.
Nothing we do 'records [anybody] as a convert to Mormonism," unless that person actually IS a convert to Mormonism. The recording of a proxy baptism does not do that. All THAT does is state that the vicarious work was done. It has nothing to do with the way that person lived his or her life, or how he or she worshipped, or what he or she wanted, or was. It is simply a note that the vicarious work was done. That’s only half of the operation; the other half, the vital one, is done by the person involved; acceptance or rejection.
WE don’t believe that these ordinances force anything upon anybody. It doesn’t make a Mormon out of a Catholic, or a Mormon out of a Jew, or a Mormon out of anybody who does not want to be one. Ever.
Unlike infant baptism, which according to those who engage in it believe has an effect on the soul whether the infant wants anything to do with it or not, and which record follows the life of that infant throughout mortality and after (whether he or she appreciates it or not), a Temple proxy baptism is ONLY effective if the person for whom it is done wants it.
Given this, I don’t think Catholics have any right to criticize us. At least when we put the baptism on record, the person for whom it is done has all the say in whether it does anything but takes up font space on a form.
The baptism by proxy is a desecration of the memory of the deceased, and an insult to their descendants.
Only if you think that’s all the deceased is; a memory, or that his or her descendents have total control over the eternal life of those who have passed before them. If you happen to believe in an actual afterlife, in which your ancestors continue to exist and have any individuality or freedom of choice, then the ‘desecration,’ if any, is yours, not ours. After all, WE believe that everybody has the right to make up their own minds about this issue. We do not assume that people become incapable of thought or decision making upon the instant of death, as you, evidently, do.
Ironically, the Mormons complain that they are mistreated, and they complain about what they perceive to be anti-Mormonism, within other Religions.
I see. We offer someone one last choice…and it IS a choice…and you equate that with, oh…what Ed Decker and the like do?
I don’t think we will ever understand each other in this, no.
I honestly do not see the insult in this. I wouldn’t see it if it were my name on the list. I would not be insulted, or consider my ancestors/descendents insulted, if someone were to do proxy work for me in any other faith.
I might laugh at them if they claimed that what they did made me do something against my inclinations, but be insulted?
Nope.
since that is so, Since I honestly and sincerely do NOT understand where there is any insult here to any other faith, (because I honestly do not see where turning the tables would be in any way an insult to me) I guess you are wasting your time.