Parker,
Christ said that those who become His disciples will have hundreds of wives, children…spiritual…
And all our relationships in Christ will continue to grow with each other in love in heaven.
Those who deny themselves for the Gospel…find new relationships in many people…
Those in the consecrated life actually receive many, many more personal relationships than if they married!!!
Catholic missionaries even see their approximate brothers and sisters as also their sons or daughters…
Kathleen or others interested,
I don’t know if this reply to you will be lost amidst the other conversation, but here you go:
I assume, since you talked about “hundreds of wives”, you were referring to the following passage in Matthew 19:
27 Then answered Peter and said unto him, Behold, we have forsaken all, and followed thee; what shall we have therefore?
28 And Jesus said unto them, Verily I say unto you, That ye which have followed me, in the regeneration when the Son of man shall sit in the throne of his glory, ye also shall sit upon twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel.
29 And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name’s sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life.
In the first place, verse 29 is a continuation of the teaching Christ had given about the young rich man, and Christ had used the words “If thou wilt be perfect…” (v. 21) so He is talking about reaching upward toward that ultimate goal of being perfect, and it certainly requires being willing to “forsake all” as He taught and as Peter had said (even though Peter was still a fisherman and thus had a vocation).
Forsaking all in the context of talking about “brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children” is talking about forsaking the traditions of those closest family members, since the Jews had very strong and embedded traditions and Jesus was teaching the “new gospel” which was doing away with so many of those traditions.
We see this same need today, of forsaking traditions in order to be led by the living Christ, the Good Shepherd.
The words “an hundredfold” do not mean “hundreds of wives”–they mean hundreds of close relationships but certainly include family within those relationships, since the Savior had just earlier in the same day (chapter 19 shows) been talking about the husband wife relationship, and thus the family relationship.
It reminds one of the words that were expressed to Rebekkah, “be thou the mother of thousands of millions”.
The intimate relationships within a family are far more likely to bring one into a situation where their need for really looking at their innermost motives, and hence the need for repentance and change, than less intimate relationships.
Ultimately, this is another example of the filter process that this life is all about, where people are being allowed to choose “what do I really want”, even with respect to relationships in the hereafter.