What is the standard of “worthiness?” Would it be the same standard used to determine who may enter the temple, or something lower?
Amontoya,
Something lower, definitely, since tithing worthiness is not at all part of such a “standard”. If there was unresolved (through repentance including meeting privately with the bishop for him to help in the steps toward repentance and to discern worthiness) sexual sin or abusive behavior in the family or with others, then the person should decline. If the person has counseled with the bishop and been asked to refrain for a period of time and asked to continue in a pattern of showing sincere change to show sincere repentance during that time, then they should obey the bishop. The bishop seeks and is guided by discernment, and has a handbook of instructions concerning specific serious misconduct, and that general handbook has been carefully prepared by the apostles.
What if a member has unresolved sin? Would he or she be advised to decline?
Yes, privately by the bishop, if he so discerns the need. He may discern that the person has repented already in certain instances.
What if a non-member lacked the desire to covenant with Christ, but continued to partake in communion? Would the bishop take any steps to prevent that person from receiving, or just let the matter rest because it is seen as “a private thing?”
The bishop “watches over the flock.” If the discernment through the Holy Ghost whispers to him that he ought to have an interview with such and such a person (perhaps this happens as he observes them during a meeting and receives that impression), then he would usually have an “executive secretary” contact the person such as by phone, and ask if they would come to a private “meeting with the bishop”. The “executive secretary” would not be told why.
I would say it would be quite a rare instance that a bishop would receive such an impression about meeting with a non-member who was attending frequently, but it could certainly happen. No one is asked if they have or are “covenanting with Christ.” It is assumed that they are, since that is what the prayers say they are doing by partaking.
Right now, I’m being reminded that I should trust God to provide, and should not be anxious about the cares of this world. I have a difficult time remembering that.
I hope things turn around for you in that area, then. But I guess with eight children I’ve been pretty “over-anxious” during the years myself, so maybe the big picture is that we learn to trust God through the experiences of “we made it through another crisis” (whether big or small) “and He helped us get through it.”
Thank you for the reply, and God bless you.
Thanks. Much peace and joy to you in your life.