You know, I heard that statement a lot when I was a new convert and was hanging with a Protestant crowd. It’s a common statement. I guess that non-Catholics think that they more they repeat this lie, the more believable it will become.
Bottom line is this : **The comments above re: Mary constitute a straw man argument. ** Evan, you’ve stated you used to be Catholic. So, unless you were not properly catechized, I would assume that you would know that your statements seem a little disingenuous.
Mormons don’t like it when their beliefs are mis-characterized. Personally I believe that they are justified in feeling this way. You’ve seen my previous posts–I try hard to take a balanced view and I do not like it when anyone feeds me baloney–and that INCLUDES other Catholics. In this case, I really think your statement is unfair. Please show the Catholic faith the same courtesy by not mis-characterizing what the CC actually teaches/what Catholics actually believe.
Please note that I say this as someone who was NOT very keen on the Mary thing when I first darkened the doors of a parish, and went to an RCIA class. I found it very weird, and kind of…well, yucky. But recently I read an article about this very issue, here on Catholic Answers, that helped me tremendously:
Any Friend of God’s is a Friend of Mine
So, please, I ask that you show Catholics the same courtesy that you would like them to show to you and members of your faith.
Sablouwho,
I thank you for being balanced, but if I am wrong, then please show me where I am wrong! I read the link you provided and I must tell you that it did not convince me. We agree on many points they made on this article you recommended, but it still does not convince why we should pray to someone else other than God the Father.
Asking a friend to pray for my wife or my father is not to invoke the prayer to that person. It is asking God to intercede for that person you are praying for. These are two different things. They have different meanings! We agree that you are showing your love when you pray for the good and success of another person. There is nothing wrong with that. You can even pray for someone who is dead, but you must direct your prayer to God and ask for His intervention on behalf of whomever you are praying for. Pray FOR and pray TO are two different things as you know!
Yes, I used to be Catholic and had to memorize many prayers, one of them was directed to Mary. Others were directed to the “canonized Saints”. By the way, what is the reason to “canonize a Saint” if all members of the Church of Christ are called Saints? I was taught to pray directly to Mary. Do you really want me to tell how I felt? Well, I did not like it at all. It did not feel good inside. For this and many other reasons I became less active in the Catholic Church…I would go to Mass once in a while. I did not connect with their teachings and their practices.
The scriptures teach differently…
We may recognize the importance of Mary, the Apostles, the Prophets, the Saints…etc. But we should not pray TO them. By praying TO others, we are worshipping them as gods! Recognizing the existence of other gods is one thing, to worship them is something else! That is my understanding. We recongnize that we have a spiritual Mother in Heaven, but we were told not to pray to her.
“For even if there are so-called gods, whether in heaven or on earth (as indeed there are many “gods” and many “lords”), But to us there is but
one God, the Father, of whom are all things, and we in him; and one Lord Jesus Christ, by whom are all things, and we by him.” I Cor 8:5-6
Jesus taught very clearly how we should pray…and whom we should direct our prayers. Whom did Jesus pray to? He prayed to God, the father and not to his mother.
“After this manner therefore pray ye:
Our Father which art in heaven…” Mat 6:9
To show how sensitive this is I quote a scripture from the book of revelation… An angel, who was a prophet in previous dispensation appeared to John to deliver the message forbade John of worshipping him….
“And I John saw these things, and heard them. And when I had heard and seen, I** fell down to worship** before the feet of the angel which shewed me these things. Then saith he unto me,
See thou do it not: for I am thy fellowservant, and of thy brethren the prophets, and of them which keep the sayings of this book:
worship God.” Rev 22:8-9
Peace to all! I don’t mean to offend, I am just exercising my free speech! If you convince me otherwise I will not bring it up anymore.