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LOLā¦true.Hey, at Vatican II they said they wanted to involve the laiety more, be careful what you wish for![]()
LOLā¦true.Hey, at Vatican II they said they wanted to involve the laiety more, be careful what you wish for![]()
Guess you could ask your priestā¦would you feel comfortable with that?is precisely because our priests are so busy and exhausted. If that is the case, what can be done to help them?
I donāt know where you ared, where I am we have courses on scripture, adult religious ed, ministry courses, spirituality courses, retreats, conferences, workshops, an on-going synod, classes in the Churchās social teachings, religious education workshops, youth ministry education, formation for formators. There is a great deal happening. The problem that I notice is that itās always the same faces at every event and learning opportunity.OK, so they can not catechize during mass and that can not change (got it), but they are called to clarify when there is confusion. There is confusionā¦lots of it. So, how is the clergy working to clarify if they can not do so during mass? They no longer teach catechesis outside of mass either. Certainly there is a huge gap here. How is the Church working to fix that?
Preachers (deacons, priests and bishops) try their very best to do what they can with what they are given. We must also remember that not everyone is a good preacher. Preaching is a combination between training and natural talent.This is trueā¦and I certainly didnāt say it was an easy task.
However, if teachers must create lessons that will educate, inspire and fufill all of their students at every level in their classroom, I would think that our clergy must do their best to do the same for all of the parishioners in the pews.
Trust me, I was around. There was a great deal amiss. Two things were happening. First, we did not have the means of communication that we have today. Most people were not aware of what was amiss. Second, much of it was behind doors. The laity of that time could care less what happened behind closed doors as long as priests and religious gave them what they wanted. Behind closed doors, if priests and religious were miserable, the laity could care less, espcially in the USA. This was the great American Heresy, the rugged individualism.Itās okay Lormar. I do think that things are different now and that is why there are so many of us lay folk sticking our noses into the business of the Church. I think most Catholics in the past didnāt see anything amissā¦perhaps because there wasnāt anything amiss (and I am not referring to sinful priests, etcā¦that has always happened because we are all sinners)?
If people never say what they need, they will never get their needs met. On the other hand there is a right way and a wrong way of saying what one needs. One can layout what one needs and ask for help or one can challenge and act as if one is entitled. The latter is totally inappropriate. The clergy and religious have no obligation to satisfy the laityās every whim. However, the clergy and religious do have a moral obligation to respond with whatever gifts weāre given.Maybe as laity we should keep our mouths shutā¦or maybe, just maybe what we have to say needs to be said.
The Council wanted to involve the laity. This is true. However, some laymen have taken this to mean that they can run the Church, which is not true.Hey, at Vatican II they said they wanted to involve the laiety more, be careful what you wish for![]()
Fantastic article! Grazie!Talk about trying to understand and learn from Pope Francis. I found this fascinating interview. I thought others might enjoy it as much as I did.
There is no paupersim in Francis, just the Gospel
It depends on the pont on the table. There are some things about which they are right such as the need for better catechesis, the fact that it was not the intent of the Church to throw tradition out with the bathwater. They are certainly right that the older rites are still valid and licit, but only when celebrated by those who have permission to celebrate them, which right now does not include them.I am going out on a limb asking this question, but I have to ask it. It is not being asked to start a heated discussion which will result in yet another locked thread, and I suppose it is being directed more towards those who would know - that would be Brother Jay and any priests who happen to be registered users here. Here is my question (and I thought it better to āhideā ithere in this thread rather than call attention to it by giving it itsā very own thread - in fact, I wonāt even put the question in a separate paragraph): is there any way that either the sspx (notice I didnāt capitalize it as to call attention to it
) or other independent priests (this means the you-know-who) can be right?
If it turns into a fight, I will report my own post. Have pity on me please. I really need an honest answer.![]()
Thanks,Brotherā¦Talk about trying to understand and learn from Pope Francis. I found this fascinating interview. I thought others might enjoy it as much as I did.
There is no paupersim in Francis, just the Gospel
Iām also thankful for these two posts because although I am not an sspxāer, I happen to agree with them on certain pointsā¦apparently the ones that are okay. I also disagree with them on the things that are not okay to do/say. Very often I get the feeling on this website that my points are not okay to make. Maybe Iām being paranoid.There are a lot of other issues that are too many to list here. The key is that even when youāre right on some points, it does not give you a license to be so wrong in so many other areas. In fact, it makes it harder for others to remember what it is that youāre right about.
To get back to the original subject of this thread, Pope Francis, I believe that we can learn from this man how to speak so that we can say what is OK to say without being negative. I think that all too often we have a tendency to be very negative when speaking of that which needs to be corrected.Iām also thankful for these two posts because although I am not an sspxāer, I happen to agree with them on certain pointsā¦apparently the ones that are okay. I also disagree with them on the things that are not okay to do/say. Very often I get the feeling on this website that my points are not okay to make. Maybe Iām being paranoid.
A coupleof things. First of all, while I appreciate your inclusion of the word āweā I have definitely been getting the feeling from your posts in reponse to mine that what you really mean is āmeā and others like meā¦including the comment about arrogance in an earlier post. Unlike your students, I much prefer folks to be direct with me.To get back to the original subject of this thread, Pope Francis, I believe that we can learn from this man how to speak so that we can say what is OK to say without being negative. I think that all too often we have a tendency to be very negative when speaking of that which needs to be corrected.
Allow me to provide an example. Iāve taught theology and psychology most of my life. I discovered that my students did much better and became more interested in learning when I said something like, "The problem with this idea is . . . " or āLetās try to look at this from a different perspective.ā
In my early days I used to say, āYouāre wrong,ā or āThatās wrong,ā or āWrong answer. Try again.ā Guess what. The student did not try again or if he did, he was very reluctant and very insecure, because I blew the studentās confidence right out of the water or I simply offended him. The truth was the even though the student was mistaken, he was making an honest attempt.
We tend to do that to the Church as well. Here is where Pope Francis seems to get it right. I see this man pointing out what needs to be addressed without pointing fingers at individuals and wihtout knowingly offending. From what Iāve read, he seems to have a history of this.
In dealing with tradition, we must learn this style of communication.
I donāt think Brother Jay was singling you out. Trust me. If he is, heāll let you know. I think heās trying to make a point to everybody. So please take no offense.A coupleof things. First of all, while I appreciate your inclusion of the word āweā I have definitely been getting the feeling from your posts in reponse to mine that what you really mean is āmeā and others like meā¦including the comment about arrogance in an earlier post. Unlike your students, I much prefer folks to be direct with me.
Wrt tradition, I do not recall ever coming out and saying the Pope was wrong which is another reason why I am questioning your posts to me. I think there has only been one thing that i have questioned with regards to the message it might send. Still, I have never accused the Pope of being āwrongā.
Actually, I think that IĀ“m being misunderstood. I try to post that anyone can read what IĀ“m writing. If I limit to answering a specific person, I feel that excludes other people. ThatĀ“s no fun at all. You may be the person putting the topic on the table, but my response it to the topic, not to the individual.A coupleof things. First of all, while I appreciate your inclusion of the word āweā I have definitely been getting the feeling from your posts in reponse to mine that what you really mean is āmeā and others like meā¦including the comment about arrogance in an earlier post. Unlike your students, I much prefer folks to be direct with me.
Wrt tradition, I do not recall ever coming out and saying the Pope was wrong which is another reason why I am questioning your posts to me. I think there has only been one thing that i have questioned with regards to the message it might send. Still, I have never accused the Pope of being āwrongā.
Then I am being paranoid afterall. My sincere apologies. Iāll try not to take things personally.Actually, I think that IĀ“m being misunderstood. I try to post that anyone can read what IĀ“m writing. If I limit to answering a specific person, I feel that excludes other people. ThatĀ“s no fun at all. You may be the person putting the topic on the table, but my response it to the topic, not to the individual.
I hope that helps.
The story says that the Pope first brought a chair for the guard to sit in so that he wouldnāt have to stand.Itās an unconfirmed story, but I still think itās worth the read. Compassion.
Pope prepares sandwich for Swiss Guard outside his room