Leaving Mass after receiving

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Ok first of all, my apologies for the delayed response. I have been away for a week without access to the internet.

Second, if you go back to what I wrote in my post, I did NOT advocate leaving before Mass in anyway. So lets have at least that part clear, I do not wish to encourage the practice/habit, however as I said, I do wish to at least write partially in their defense, hopefully in order to prevent this thread from becoming an outright thrashing of said individuals. As I said towards the end of the message, rather than bash them anymore than they no doubt already have (here and elsewhere), we as fellow brothers and sisters should be thankful that they are at least doing something to improve the sanctity of their souls. If we should do anything, then it is to pray for them.

In answer to the question of exactly what fulfills the Sunday obligation, well (I’m pretty sure, though I obviously could be wrong), one could ‘VERY TECHNICALLY’ come in after the homily, be present for the Eucharistic Prayer and stay till the point that the main Celebrant (if more than one) consumes the Precious Blood. That by itself would fulfill the obligation. Though once again, I do not advocate this in any manner.

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Oh and as for dispensations, well in certain situations, where it is simply not possible to go to Mass, one is obviously not held accountable for being forced to miss Mass. Being sick and unable to leave the house, having to go to work, etc, would be valid reasons, which you don’t need to specially obtain dispensation for, as you would be excused of the obligation simply by virtue of the situation.

To be honest, I can’t actually think of any reason which a person would need a dispensation from missing Sunday Mass, seeing that other than being in a few situations which would already excuse them from the obligation, one should always attend the celebration of the Eucharist.
 
OK, so this is something I have seen a lot at Catholic Churches, specifically Latin rite ones. I have occasionally seen it elsewhere, but not to the same degree. So, what is with it?

After people go up for communion, they come back and instead of sitting through/participating in the rest of the liturgy, they just eave. They sometimes even take their coats with them so they can escape more quickly.

What is with this? My RC friend calls it the “magic cookie” effect, which is rather irreverent, but I wonder if that is part of it. Do people think getting the Eucharist is the only important thing, so they don’t need to be there for the rest? Do Catholics have very busy Sundays?
I haven’t ever taken the Eucharist yet but I can’t believe that so many people take it for grantage! They are so lucky to be able to take communion! I’m gutted…
 
I haven’t ever taken the Eucharist yet but I can’t believe that so many people take it for grantage! They are so lucky to be able to take communion! I’m gutted…
I just logged on tonight, and I checked a few threads and saw this one and must log off again, but must comment on all this so far.

I don’t want to be negative, but it will sound that way I think.

There is nothing wrong with the Mass for people to leave early from boredom IMHO.
Again, that is my opinion.

And, believe I have endured some horrendous homily stuff, and other things. But, for me I feel it inappropriate to leave before the Mass is over. I see it as a simple matter of respect.

I don’t believe yet, but some things are just a matter of manners and proper decorum.

I don’t know why so many people do this.

I have been to 3 protestant churches, which is by no means any type evidence at all, but I did see people stay in much higher numbers, to the very end. Of course, this is not evidence but only my personal experience in a limited area, and is therefore irrelevant for all practical purposes for examination.

I don’t think there is a link between staying to the end and having proper doctrine though.

If there even is such a thing.

I think, that some people will rebel when told they must do something, and don’t so much if they are not told they must. But, they will do it because they want to without threats.

FWIW.

Sorry to add that, because I am very new at all this, and am in no way any expert on the matter. Simply sharing my personal experiences, that are admittedly very limited.:o
 
I just logged on tonight, and I checked a few threads and saw this one and must log off again, but must comment on all this so far.

I don’t want to be negative, but it will sound that way I think.

There is nothing wrong with the Mass for people to leave early from boredom IMHO.
Again, that is my opinion.

And, believe I have endured some horrendous homily stuff, and other things. But, for me I feel it inappropriate to leave before the Mass is over. I see it as a simple matter of respect.

I don’t believe yet, but some things are just a matter of manners and proper decorum.

I don’t know why so many people do this.

I have been to 3 protestant churches, which is by no means any type evidence at all, but I did see people stay in much higher numbers, to the very end. Of course, this is not evidence but only my personal experience in a limited area, and is therefore irrelevant for all practical purposes for examination.

I don’t think there is a link between staying to the end and having proper doctrine though.

If there even is such a thing.

I think, that some people will rebel when told they must do something, and don’t so much if they are not told they must. But, they will do it because they want to without threats.

FWIW.

Sorry to add that, because I am very new at all this, and am in no way any expert on the matter. Simply sharing my personal experiences, that are admittedly very limited.:o
Strawberryjam, believe me, your knowledge is far from limited! 😉
 
They aren’t supposed to leave right after they recieve the communion but wait until it is completely over. You must live the mass fully and not just wait until you recieve the body and blood of Jesus Christ. The mass is much more and means more than just leaving in the middle of the mass.

People must be aware to wait until everything is over and finished. It’s a bit disreaspectful to not experience and live it fully and by the heart. To be in the mass means to enjoy it with your heart and it will not cause you boredom or any other negative feeling that will impulse you to leave early. The indivudual who truly loves Jesus would want to stay in church even after the mass is over.

In my opinion, people who leave early are acting like hungry animals who just want the body and blood of Jesus to just simply eat it and leave immediately.
 
They aren’t supposed to leave right after they recieve the communion but wait until it is completely over. You must live the mass fully and not just wait until you recieve the body and blood of Jesus Christ. The mass is much more and means more than just leaving in the middle of the mass.

People must be aware to wait until everything is over and finished. It’s a bit disreaspectful to not experience and live it fully and by the heart. To be in the mass means to enjoy it with your heart and it will not cause you boredom or any other negative feeling that will impulse you to leave early. The indivudual who truly loves Jesus would want to stay in church even after the mass is over.

In my opinion, people who leave early are acting like hungry animals who just want the body and blood of Jesus to just simply eat it and leave immediately.
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