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Reuben_J
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Your parish lectors situation is not bad if you are reading once a month. You people have enough to go around. Then you can either choose to be a lector or EHMC. For the latter, you can serve every week, after all you are attending the mass. There is no restriction in the frequency that you can serve as an EHMC.I’m been a lector for well over a year now, and I only read approximately one a month.
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But the thing that really hurt me and felt like punch in the gut, is when one of my friends, who is a EM, after I told her what I thought was good news, as I was overjoyed in being selected as a EM, is that she basically chastised me and gave me the third degree as to why I couldn’t do it. That hurt. I only want to serve the Church and God and felt that the Lord has called me to serve the Church as both lector and EM, but after hearing what my friend said, it makes me want to give up serving in any capacity whatsoever. Can anyone give me any advice and opinions?
Your friend should commend you for willing to serve, not chastising. After all the priest has given you permission to do both in the parish. You are not against the rule since you do not do both in a mass - I suppose that would be Sunday mass.
In my younger days I used to serve two parishes as a lector - we serve in the cathedral but at times also went to a nearby sub-parish for convenience. But once I became an EHMC, I stopped reading.
Don’t feel too bad. It is true we have high expectation that people of the church should have higher standard but in reality, they are probably no different that our non-Christian neighbors - sometimes we can be mean and inconsiderate with our comments. Being Christ-like can be quite elusive even for Christians.