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Burning_Sapling
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Hello All,
For a long time before beginning my conversion process to Catholicism, my sexual and reproductive morality was gravely misguided. For instance, I was sexually involved with multiple girlfriends who were on the pill. I have only recently realized that the pill has an abortifacient function, but sadly I am not sure whether I would have cared much about this if I had known. Today I am appalled to think that I may have killed my unborn children through my ignorance, even if the statistical likelihood of this seems to be low.
In addition to this, there was one occasion where I encouraged a girlfriend to take the Plan B pill after our primary method of contraception failed. Thinking back, again I am horrified by this, in part because I’m not sure whether I knew or cared whether the Plan B pill procured abortion or if it was a form of contraception. The thought that I may have even partially intended to cause an abortion, and that I was at least careless as to whether this would be the result of my action, is troubling me very deeply. It is also very troubling that recent studies, at least one of which is published in a highly respectable journal (Linacre Quarterly), argue that the primary function of Plan B is to procure abortion.
I keep coming back to the thought that if I have really been so reckless with the lives of my own potential unborn children, then I should be in a prison somewhere. I’m sorry- I know that will be offensive to many, and that it is probably not right. But I need help understanding why it is not true if it is not true. Can anyone help? I also wonder if my encouraging my girlfriend to use the pill will cause complications in my joining the Church, as I understand that people who are directly involved in abortions are excommunicated. Anything else you can say to help me to heal and gain the forgiveness of God will be appreciated.
There may be some mitigating factors, since for most of my life I, like many of us, have been strongly socially conditioned to believe that even abortion is acceptable.
Thank you, God Bless.
For a long time before beginning my conversion process to Catholicism, my sexual and reproductive morality was gravely misguided. For instance, I was sexually involved with multiple girlfriends who were on the pill. I have only recently realized that the pill has an abortifacient function, but sadly I am not sure whether I would have cared much about this if I had known. Today I am appalled to think that I may have killed my unborn children through my ignorance, even if the statistical likelihood of this seems to be low.
In addition to this, there was one occasion where I encouraged a girlfriend to take the Plan B pill after our primary method of contraception failed. Thinking back, again I am horrified by this, in part because I’m not sure whether I knew or cared whether the Plan B pill procured abortion or if it was a form of contraception. The thought that I may have even partially intended to cause an abortion, and that I was at least careless as to whether this would be the result of my action, is troubling me very deeply. It is also very troubling that recent studies, at least one of which is published in a highly respectable journal (Linacre Quarterly), argue that the primary function of Plan B is to procure abortion.
I keep coming back to the thought that if I have really been so reckless with the lives of my own potential unborn children, then I should be in a prison somewhere. I’m sorry- I know that will be offensive to many, and that it is probably not right. But I need help understanding why it is not true if it is not true. Can anyone help? I also wonder if my encouraging my girlfriend to use the pill will cause complications in my joining the Church, as I understand that people who are directly involved in abortions are excommunicated. Anything else you can say to help me to heal and gain the forgiveness of God will be appreciated.
There may be some mitigating factors, since for most of my life I, like many of us, have been strongly socially conditioned to believe that even abortion is acceptable.
Thank you, God Bless.