When my children were at home, one of our annual Lenten practices was a large piece of poster board, divided into calendar days, entitled “A Loving Lent.” The girls typically received some money from their grandparents along with Valentine’s cards, and that money –
their own – was changed into dimes. At the end of each day, each child had to tell “something loving” they had done that day, it was written in the day’s square, and one of their dimes was taped onto the calendar, which hung in a prominent spot. At Lent’s end, the whole poster board went to Father at the rectory to use the money for whatever he thought appropriate. (Father, bless him, always sent a nice note to the girls thanking them and saying he had used the money for this or that.)
It is a good memory for my girls – now grown – and I think made the point of sacrifice and good works in the name of Our Lord. Of course, many an evening you would hear a rush of “loving deeds” taking place – “oh, let me help you;” “would you like me to read you a story,” etc. – as a child realized they had done NOTHING loving all day long to report.
And the poor secretary at the parish office – who was tasked with untaping all the little dimes – was glad to see our family grow up!