Let someone Be....

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Some days, I wonder if I should just let 1 of my friends b.
I complain & correct her often.
I wish she could face reality & C things 4 what they R.
I may be rough, but nothing I say is false.
Im just saying what I C in her.
Y can’t people just take criticizms lightly?
I always wonder y sum people cannot let things roll off their back.
If Im wrong, then ok, but I was looking out 4 u newayz.
Sumdayz I do not understand y certain virtues are more difficult for others to have.
Sum people are more sensitive than others.
Others are thick-skinned.
1 of my friends has her life together 4 the most part, there r very few things 2 say about her that is wrong - she can handle the truth & correction.
Very nice person, thinks clearly & logically. Self-control, mature, smart, well-balanced.
My other friend is always stuck on the same things & does not seem 2 “get it.”
She accuses ne1 who tries 2 help her as mommying her.
She seems 2 avoid responsibility for her actions.
I had no problem telling her “mind her business”, “live & let live.”
If she followed every1’s honest advice, she would be a better person.
 
It is futile to admonish a sinner or give practical advice if the person will not listen to you. Just pray for her and hope she comes around, that is all you can do.
 
You keep posting these threads and then don’t bother coming back for the discussion. Are you looking for answers or just a place to rant?
 
Oh please. I have been friends with your sort. While it is honorable to be honest. It is not to be critical. I had a friend who I accused of “mothering” me. She had something to say about my hair, my clothes, the way I talked, etc. To this day, I have a difficult time trusting people who “keep it real.” Some folks do not know the difference between what is the truth and what is their honest opinion. Her defense was always I was asking her for advice, which was not always true. I understand the truth should hurt and we all have egos. There are many times she overstepped her boundaries and told me things only a doctor or mother should tell me. Interestingly enough, she kept her life very private because HOW DARE ANYONE TELL HER THINGS SHE NEEDS TO HEAR. I never knew who she was dating because she knew she was making a foolish decision and she wanted to be allowed to. Had that been me making those foolish decisions, she would have quickly intervened and told me how foolish my decision was. I CANNOT STAND YOUR SORT.
 
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