Many pre-Vatican II era people felt that their bishops had lied to them when it became widespread knowledge that the Latin Mass had, in fact, not been abrogated, because they definitely had been led to believe that Latin Masses were no longer possible.
And I object to your use of the word “many”. Even after Ppe Benedict opened up the EF, the results were that very few people either by parish or by diocese wanted - and to this day want - the EF. I have a parish within about a 15 minute drive that has 11 Masses on a weekend; 4 are in Spanish; one in Vietnamese, 5 in English and one in Latin. Yes, that happens to be at 6:45 in the morning on Sunday, and there are about a 100 or less who attend. The rest of the Masses vary between 80%+ attending in terms of seating(with the exception of the Vietnamese, which is around 250), to at least one which is literally standing room only. The “presumption” that the EF would even double in size to maybe 200 has no historical evidence to support it whatsoever. It is a courtesy to the very small minority of the parish who wish to have the EF.
there are parishes in the US which are all EF, and parishes which may have one or more EF Masses - many during the week rather than on Sunday. Why? Well a look at the ststistics is a bit telling; fewer than 3% of all parishes in the US have any EF Mass, including the all EF parishes.
So let’s be honest in our language: Some (not many) people wanted to retain the EF.
My mother, born in 1917 in a rural community went to daily Mass after she retired. One day I asked her what she thought of Vatican 2 (note: Vatican 2, not the Mass) and her immediate response was “Oh! The Mass in English!” and she was the source of my siblings and I having missals in the 1950s and 1960s prior to the introduction of the vernacular. And the vast majority of people I grew up knowing - meaning those my age and older, were overjoyed with the use of the vernacular.
Dismantling of the Church? Please, spare us.
And as to the “Experience of being Catholic”, I am old enough to remember that the majority (as in, more than 50%) of those attending Mass prior to the vernacular did not have missals; they said their rosaries and read their devotional pamphlets.
Yes, that was quite the “experience of being Catholic”. I kind of think that was not what Christ intended when He confected the first Eucharist at the Passover, nor what the Church intended as it spread throughout the then known world and used the vernacular of the people.