Sacrosanctum Concilium, which you noted due to a link you have read.
I am not focusing on people on either side of this issue - most seem to have never read it, or any of the other documents.
Lol! Nice try, but there was no vote for people in the pews, and I didn’t say a majority. I said many.
Your taking umbrage with my use of the word “many” is interesting.

Since we in the pews had no vote, no one knows what the total yes and no tallies would have been.
In reference to Post 71, you seem to think nearly everyone wanted the changes, based upon the people you knew then, but how wide was your sphere of Catholics?
Are you forgetting the “go along to get along” code that guided people of that era in most circumstances? Especially Catholics? Unlike today, when Catholics question picayune things to pieces, it was part of Catholic DNA to obey whatever the Church told us. Social mores were far different then than they are today. Most people tended to put their best foot forward so as not to rock the boat or be thought unaccommodating.
Lol! When Catholic women could ditch headgear, gloves went into the back of a drawer, it wasn’t long until sheer hose were history, and with dressed-down gals, the guys didn’t need to spiff up, either. Just look around Church on any Sunday. “As goes the Catholic Church, so goes the world,” indeed!
Yes, the Church—as it was known then—was dismantled. Yes, the Catholic experience—as it was known then—was the Catholic experience. It can never be retrieved. It was slightly different, of course, from person to person, and from area to area, but it was generally the same.
I was schooled by Benedictine nuns in 1st & 2nd grades, then St Joseph nuns. We were taught that Satan would try to tear down our Church from within, and that we must be ever-vigilant, to the point of dying for our faith. We learned about the saints who died and were taught to be equally protective about changes.
Remember, the world had been recently in a horrible war. Underground bomb shelters were common in case of attack by another country. Children went through classroom drills for possible bomb attacks. Some radicals had threatened to destroy us “from within.” We had heard that communists/socialists had permeated our seminaries. Many of us were on guard for our faith.
Maybe those of us who were traumatized by the Mass changes were more serious and had believed that we must be prepared to die rather than allow anything to destroy our church. When Christ’s very words were changed, as, initially, “many” had been changed to “all,” that certainly seemed like someone was trying to destroy our Church.
As Catholics we should be able to converse without scorn or ridicule from our sisters and brothers. Teasing? Sometimes, but scorn, never. I’ve never held animosity toward anyone regarding the changes. I did feel betrayed and fearful. We all need to be kinder and gentler toward each other.
My current Church is blessed to have a priest who offers a beautiful OF Mass. I wish everyone could attend his Mass and know the deep sense of peace that comes to us who have that privilege.