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DustinsDad
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God bless you! You have my utmost admiration.Hey OTJM, that quote about marijuana was not the only thing I said to explain celibacy and why priests should not marry. See here, I don’t like to write long posts so I shortened all what happened during those 2 Sundays. Had I known this misunderstanding was gonna happen in the forum I would have said everything. I did, in fact, give much better reasons than the marijuana example. I was being a bit sarcastic with that example.
This teacher of mine brings up ‘the priests being married’ issue. He says, “Guys, today we are going to talk about the call to priesthood.” And for a good while he does fine until he says, “They can’t be married.” So a girl asks, “Why, what’s so important about that.” Another kid says, “Yeah that could help the shortage of priests.” The teacher says, “It might change it in the future.” He is all for priests marrying. I say, “Well I believe it should stay the same.” So all the kids who were paying attention chime in and start questioning me why I believe it should stay the way it is. And look here, I’m not the smartest person on celibacy so I say what I know. Time has run out and I haven’t had my last say yet. So I say, “Lets bring this back up next week by then I’ll have more to say.” So the teacher says alright we will debate about it next week. This guy wants me alone to debate him and the other 11 kids who are all for priest getting married.
After being challenged on my beliefs of celibacy and priests, I wrote a three page speech, with my parents’ approval, that gives many references to celibacy and quotes from the Bible that gives many indications for celibacy. I explain that a priest can’t have two masters (dedication to the church vs. dedication to a wife and family). Please don’t make me have to retype my whole speech so you can read it. And YES I did write about how the church still, right now, allows married men ministers from other denominations (for instance: married Lutheran ministers who want to convert to Catholic priesthood) who want to become a Catholic priest. They do that since the church is against divorce.
So I come next with my speech ready and he comes ready to debate me. Team 1 was the teacher and 11 kids. Team 2 was 1 kid, that kid being me. So I say, “Look this is not gonna happen full ‘debate’ style. I said how about I read my speech and you can have a rebuttal. He says, “Sure.”
After I read aloud my speech he and 11 other kids start shouting questions at me. I will not repeat their rebuttal. But it was like 12 lions going after a lamb. I came there to learn and I was challenged instead including by my teacher. One of the only things I learned that Sunday school year was to defend what I believe without backing down. This event happened earlier this year around February I believe. Since then I have made my Confirmation and fortified my views with unwavering resolve. I am now in 9th grade. Maybe 8th graders are not slow and stupid but there sure is a lot who aren’t well religiously educated. Why? Probably since the teacher was not fitted for the job. Btw, I also gave my speech for my parish priest to read and he was proud of me for writing it.
Peace in Christ,
DustinsDad