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Lorrie
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I’m not coming to your house to hide out, you would offer me up on a platter with an apple in my mouth.It doesn’t matter what I would do. It only matters what God says we ought do.
– Nicole
I’m not coming to your house to hide out, you would offer me up on a platter with an apple in my mouth.It doesn’t matter what I would do. It only matters what God says we ought do.
– Nicole
hahahhaI’m not coming to your house to hide out, you would offer me up on a platter with an apple in my mouth.
That’s awfully presumptuous…I’m not coming to your house to hide out, you would offer me up on a platter with an apple in my mouth.
Catechism of the Catholic ChurchThe CCC clearly states that lying is only sinful when the person being lied to has a right to the truth
The Morality of Human Acts
II. Good Acts and Evil Acts
1755 A morally good act requires the goodness of the object, of the end, and of the circumstances together. An evil end corrupts the action, even if the object is good in itself (such as praying and fasting “in order to be seen by men”). The object of the choice can by itself vitiate an act in its entirety. There are some concrete acts - such as fornication - that it is always wrong to choose, because choosing them entails a disorder of the will, that is, a moral evil.
So, it is error to judge the morality of an act which is intrinsically evil by the “intention that inspires” it or the circumstance which supplies its context.1756 It is therefore an error to judge the morality of human acts by considering only the intention that inspires them or the circumstances (environment, social pressure, duress or emergency, etc.) which supply their context. There are acts which, in and of themselves, independently of circumstances and intentions, are always gravely illicit by reason of their object; such as blasphemy and perjury, murder and adultery. One may not do evil so that good may result from it.
1759 “An evil action cannot be justified by reference to a good intention” (cf St. Thomas Aquinas, Dec. praec. 6). the end does not justify the means.
1760 A morally good act requires the goodness of its object, of its end, and of its circumstances together.
1761 There are concrete acts that it is always wrong to choose, because their choice entails a disorder of the will, i.e., a moral evil. One may not do evil so that good may result from it.
2464 The eighth commandment forbids misrepresenting the truth in our relations with others. This moral prescription flows from the vocation of the holy people to bear witness to their God who is the truth and wills the truth. Offenses against the truth express by word or deed a refusal to commit oneself to moral uprightness: they are fundamental infidelities to God and, in this sense, they undermine the foundations of the covenant.
So, it is our duty always to manifest the truth.2469 “Men could not live with one another if there were not mutual confidence that they were being truthful to one another.” The virtue of truth gives another his just due. Truthfulness keeps to the just mean between what ought to be expressed and what ought to be kept secret: it entails honesty and discretion. In justice, “as a matter of honor, one man owes it to another to manifest the truth.”
III. Offenses Against Truth
As we know from #2469 “one man owes it to another to manifest the truth.”2483 Lying is the most direct offense against the truth. To lie is to speak or act against the truth in order to lead into error someone who has the right to know the truth. By injuring man’s relation to truth and to his neighbor, a lie offends against the fundamental relation of man and of his word to the Lord.
2484 The gravity of a lie is measured against the nature of the truth it deforms, the circumstances, the intentions of the one who lies, and the harm suffered by its victims. If a lie in itself only constitutes a venial sin, it becomes mortal when it does grave injury to the virtues of justice and charity.
2485 By its very nature, lying is to be condemned. It is a profanation of speech, whereas the purpose of speech is to communicate known truth to others. The deliberate intention of leading a neighbor into error by saying things contrary to the truth constitutes a failure in justice and charity. The culpability is greater when the intention of deceiving entails the risk of deadly consequences for those who are led astray.
2486 Since it violates the virtue of truthfulness, a lie does real violence to another. It affects his ability to know, which is a condition of every judgment and decision. It contains the seed of discord and all consequent evils. Lying is destructive of society; it undermines trust among men and tears apart the fabric of social relationships.
If “by its very nature, lying is to be condemned,” then we know from this binding source that lying is intrinsically evil. It is also called a “profanation of speech” and taught that lying does “real violence to another.” It is also most clearly written that this offence and “every offence committed against justice and truth” demand the DUTY of reparation. That means, if you offend against the truth by lying, that you owe it (as a duty) to repair that offence, and that the reparation can sometimes be material reparation.2487 Every offense committed against justice and truth entails the duty of reparation, even if its author has been forgiven. When it is impossible publicly to make reparation for a wrong, it must be made secretly. If someone who has suffered harm cannot be directly compensated, he must be given moral satisfaction in the name of charity. This duty of reparation also concerns offenses against another’s reputation. This reparation, moral and sometimes material, must be evaluated in terms of the extent of the damage inflicted. It obliges in conscience.
It is what it is.That’s awfully presumptuous…
– Nicole
Thank you, tjm, at least I know you will have my back!“2508 Lying consists in saying what is false with the intention of deceiving the neighbor who has the right to the truth.”
If the SS asks if there are Jews in your basement and you say “no”, while there are in fact Jews in your basement, then you are not lying by the CCC’s standards- just like a killing in self defense would not be considered murder.
I got your back too, Lorrie!! lolIt is what it is.
Bottom line is that if I’m a Jew hiding in your house and the Nazi’s come I’m basically going to be served on toast (unless you state otherwise, which you haven’t done.)
Thank you, tjm, at least I know you will have my back!![]()
Now I have 2 places to hide!!! :hug1:I got your back too, Lorrie!! lol
Wow. You would really show signs of hesitation, remain silent, or dodge questions repeated from the persistent and relentless Nazi Gestapo searching your house for innocent Jews you’re hiding? They have no right to know the truth because of the evil they clearly intend to do with it. So, it is not considered the sin of “lying.” The Church authorizes to make use of a “discreet” language. Also, wasn’t it Pope Pius XII and many other Catholic clerics and religious at the time who authorized the falsification of baptismal records in order to save Jewish children from the Nazis?**IV. RESPECT FOR THE TRUTH
2488** The right to the communication of the truth is not unconditional. Everyone must conform his life to the Gospel precept of fraternal love. This requires us in concrete situations to judge whether or not it is appropriate to reveal the truth to someone who asks for it.
2489 Charity and respect for the truth should dictate the response to every request for information or communication. The good and safety of others, respect for privacy, and the common good are sufficient reasons for being silent about what ought not be known or for making use of a discreet language. The duty to avoid scandal often commands strict discretion. No one is bound to reveal the truth to someone who does not have the right to know it.
Also, wasn’t it Pope Pius XII and many other Catholic clerics and religious at the time who authorized the falsification of baptismal records in order to save Jewish children?
Thanks**To: Yablabo (a.k.a Nicole)
Nice quotes of the Catechism explaining that lying is intrinsically evil. However, have you bothered to read the ENTIRE section of the Catechism which you quoted from? To put it bluntly, the Catechism clearly teaches that certain wickedly evil individuals do not have the right to know the Truth. That would include folks like the Nazi Gestapos hunting for innocent Jews to murder in your house which you are hiding. Here is the part in the Catechism:**
Wow. You would really show signs of hesitation, remain silent, or dodge questions repeated from the persistent and relentless Nazi Gestapo searching your house for innocent Jews you’re hiding? They have no right to know the truth because of the evil they clearly intend to do with it. So, it is not considered the sin of “lying.” The Church authorizes to make use of a “discreet” language. Also, wasn’t it Pope Pius XII and many other Catholic clerics and religious at the time who authorized the falsification of baptismal records in order to save Jewish children from the Nazis?
Dr. Jeff Mirus of Catholic Culture addresses the difficulty of lying to save people’s lives from an unjust aggressor here. According to him, the Catechism prior to the recent revision defined lying as “To speak or act against the truth in order to lead into error someone who has the right to know the truth.” This definition would have certainly settled our debate easily once Yabablo (a.k.a. Nicole) and you had quoted it. It also would have been in harmony with the definition of murder which permits killing in self-defense. But, after much consultation, for some reason, they decided to quote St. Augustine’s definition of lying which does not explicitly address our question. So, therefore, the Church has never addressed the issue, though it came close to prior to the final edition of the Catechism. Dr. Jeff Mirus then goes to explain that a possible explanation to our question would be that when one speaks a falsehood with the intention of preventing an enemy or thug from committing a grave evil, one’s intention is therefore not to deceive.What exactly is the difference between discreet language and lying?
Has anyone here ever been faced with using discreet language to save another’s life or is that just a non-sequiter to make a point? Is it really?
In perspective; What would be considered discreet language if confronted with denying the Lord to save themselves?
I must wonder; Are those who can justify lying with outlandish and unrealistic examples ashamed of the Lord who shows us a better way?
Or- Are we only trying to justify “discreet language” which is really something different?
I think these are all good questions…pointing to double standards…irrational use of words…and ultimately contradiction (even within the Catechism of the Catholic Church (which can be understood in that it is a work not protected by the Holy Spirit from error)).What exactly is the difference between discreet language and lying?
Has anyone here ever been faced with using discreet language to save another’s life or is that just a non-sequiter to make a point? Is it really?
In perspective; What would be considered discreet language if confronted with denying the Lord to save themselves?
I must wonder; Are those who can justify lying with outlandish and unrealistic examples ashamed of the Lord who shows us a better way?
Or- Are we only trying to justify “discreet language” which is really something different?
This really depends on the situation, if it’s your best friend gearing up for a date or the like, I would certainly be as honest as possible to help them from embaressing themselves. If friend/person comes up to asking if they look good and they don’t, try to find something that does look good. You can only assume they are asking for YOUR opinion in which case there is no need to lie. You simply need to find the right words to express your opinion in kind manor. How somebody looks is often based on opinion, so if you must, say something like I’m not into that look or I don’t fancy that style or whatever they are asking your opinion on. That way you aren’t lying.What about if someone asks , “do i look good, or how do i look?” etc… and you don’t think they look good. Do you tell them that? Or, is it a sin to say yea u look good? does a lie make it a mortal sin, if it hurts someone ?
Yea, i actually do usually say those types of responses instead of lying. But, at the same time, there are certain cases where it’s like a stranger or someone who asks questions like that … and i don’t want to but so honest lol. so i don’t knowThis really depends on the situation, if it’s your best friend gearing up for a date or the like, I would certainly be as honest as possible to help them from embaressing themselves. If friend/person comes up to asking if they look good and they don’t, try to find something that does look good. You can only assume they are asking for YOUR opinion in which case there is no need to lie. You simply need to find the right words to express your opinion in kind manor. How somebody looks is often based on opinion, so if you must, say something like I’m not into that look or I don’t fancy that style or whatever they are asking your opinion on. That way you aren’t lying.
I would have said sorry i have to go now or something, and just completely doge the question. But, i know where you are coming from. Because, although it is easy to say “oh just say i can’t give you this info”, or what not, the reality is that when it comes down to it we don’t want people to think we don’t trust them … and people take it the wrong way and think you are being rude when you say things like that. it’s tough being honest all the time, but i guess it’s always best to try . But, i think if you truly are in a situation where you have an instinct someone is going to be harmful or malicious, than i wouldn’t be honest with them.Okay, so what about this situation. I just recently moved to a new city. One day, I was walking somewhere and a guy who claimed to be from a charity stopped me. He said his charity worked with children all over the world whose parents had died from AIDS, and he wanted me to sponsor a child. The problems were: 1) I wasn’t comfortable giving out all my personal information right there in the street to a charity I’d never heard of and a complete stranger; 2) I don’t have enough money to do it on my own (college student) and I would have had to talk to my mother if I was considering it. I was telling the guy some of this (not the part about being uncomfortable, the part about being in school and needing to speak to my mother), and he was being very pushy, trying to get me to give him my information for this right there. I eventually told him I was not prepared to do this right then, and he said okay but he asked me for my name. I didn’t want to tell him because of how he had been behaving, it made me not trust him. But I didn’t want to be rude either. I thought about lying and giving my middle name but I thought that that would have been a sin, so I just wound up giving him my real name which I really regret. Would it have been okay to lie about my name, or would it have been better to just be a little rude and say I don’t give out that information to strangers?
+1You seem to have completely disregarded the quote i provided that clearly stated that if the one being lied to does not have a right to the truth, you are not truly lying.
“2508 Lying consists in saying what is false with the intention of deceiving the neighbor who has the right to the truth.”
If the SS asks if there are Jews in your basement and you say “no”, while there are in fact Jews in your basement, then you are not lying by the CCC’s standards- just like a killing in self defense would not be considered murder.