Life after death........that is THE question

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Go find out.
FWIW, I happen to agree that the existence of an afterlife is a fact. Not that it’s true - but that it’s a claim that can be either proven or disproven (at least, in principle).

That said, blithely telling someone to “go research” a claim like this is a bit silly. If you want to believe in it, you simply have no choice but to take it on faith.
 
i wish i could believe it.
I can remember very clearly the day (or week, or month, or year, whatever) when I realized what it was that Christ offers to us. I had just as hard a time accepting it as you appear to be having. It had nothing to do with any logical difficulties or metaphysical squabbles, it was simply because it seemed too wonderful, too good, too “exactly what I wanted” for it to be true. We live in such a cynical, glum, resigned world that even something naturally joyful is regarded with suspicion. We are trained to live in a climate of temporal despair and are almost comfortable doing so. This makes the transition to immortal hope a difficult one. Every time the thought “it is too good to be true” pops into your head you should fight it off with the thought “Christ is too good not to be true.”
 
God, the Universe, the Bible, Mary, Jesus

all mean NOTHING if there’s no life after death. And i don’t mean ambiguous life,i mean self identity, take what you learned with you life. right?

i’m having trouble thinking this is real. seems so fantastic i just can’t believe it.
how do we believe in something so fantastic?

and nothing makes any sense or means anything if we’re just dirt, but…

don’t know, but there it is, right?
Each of us has a feeling of being “I” which doesnt change no matter who we think we are or how we change personally. And one of the things in personality that does change, and can change in radical ways, is the depth and breadth of what we understan little words such as I, God, and Life to mean. For instance, a finer distinction can be made by saying, eg, that living is what life does. So living is an activity, while life is what allows living to happen. So then we have life as an abstract that is continuous, and individuals, gazzilons of them, who live as an aspect of life as aprinciple. So in a sense, there is no begining or end to life or living, only to what appears as an individual instance of being alive.

So since there appears to be a continuity of life that is composed of instances of individuals liviing, we seem to have a need for explaingi why that is so. And we try to explaiin it in our classic and mostly fruitless way of putting the whole thing outside ourselves and only looking at what things look like and how behave relative to one another.
We externalize the reasons for our world and what we see in it and make it flat, adopting the view that there is me, and there is the world. That is Original Sin.

We mistake our sense of person for what the feeliing of I points to. And then we have a bad time because we think that when we say I we mean who we are, not what we are. And discovering what we are is what mystics do. It looks to us that they are looking for God, and that is right, but in the quest for discovering what that relationship is, it is inevitable to find out what one is, relative to God. And as that propgresses, some interesting things happen, mostly that are not talked about, because if you haven’t been there, it just doesn’t mean a darned thing,

Of course, there are teachings about this, but they are about as useful as a book on swimming until you get in the water, or a picture of water when you are thirsty. But when you jump in or dirink, it is a different story. So if you know the book, you can piously say "in this instance, blah, blah, blah blah, blah. And you have a blah situation if you’ve been there and know what floating feels like, and how it is to stop being thirsty, my friend.

So that is what religions are about. They keep you interested and working, one way or another, until you can’t stand it and start really looking inside for some real answers. And of course you will be told that there are no answerts inside, because they are in a church or in a book. Anyone of any faith has this. But that is OK for a start and a provocation, thatis, material to work with, until you discover some very interesting things. Then you will not need to ask such questions because the answer is simple and the world changes for you, you see that sense and soul are good friends, and it is all Good.
 
FWIW, I happen to agree that the existence of an afterlife is a fact. Not that it’s true - but that it’s a claim that can be either proven or disproven (at least, in principle).

That said, blithely telling someone to “go research” a claim like this is a bit silly. If you want to believe in it, you simply have no choice but to take it on faith.
Your two opinions seem to contradict each other. If it is a fact, something that can be proven or disproven, why would anyone have to “take it on faith?”

As for myself, I think nothing can be proven or disproven to a mind already made up. Mostly, we believe things for the reason I have stated, and even in experiencing something ourselves, we might get a fact, something that exists, wrong.

If someone wants to believe, as OP stated, he needs to go find out about his topic. Research it himself. Find what evidence exists. Come to a conclusion.
 
And of course you will be told that there are no answerts inside, because they are in a church or in a book. Anyone of any faith has this.
I am Catholic. ALL the answers are inside, as Christ lives in me. Also in you. Some people are satisfied with having someone give them answers. They trust the authority of a church or a book. Some find the answers inside, and then supplement their understanding through Church and Book. Or some combination of processes.
 
Your two opinions seem to contradict each other. If it is a fact, something that can be proven or disproven, why would anyone have to “take it on faith?”
Because the key words here were, “in principle.” Either there is an eternal life, or there isn’t. That we are in no position to know the answer to this question does not mean that the question does not have an answer. If eternal life is real, anyone currently dead knows that it’s real. If it’s not, anyone currently dead “knows” that too (if they were in any position to “know” anything).

Until we know for certain whether there is eternal life, anyone who wants to believe in it is forced to take it on faith.
If someone wants to believe, as OP stated, he needs to go find out about his topic. Research it himself. Find what evidence exists. Come to a conclusion.
Interesting choice of words here - “If someone wants to believe…” I agree - if you want to believe, especially in something like having a life that never has to end, there are lots of people and sources willing to tell you that. It seems to me that that anyone who starts their research wanting to reach a particular conclusion is leaving themselves wide open for confirmation bias.

It seems to me that a truly open-ended search for what’s real on this subject who have to begin with the understanding that there is nobody alive today with special authority to speak on whether life is truly eternal.
 
Interesting choice of words here - “If someone wants to believe…” I agree - if you want to believe, especially in something like having a life that never has to end, there are lots of people and sources willing to tell you that. It seems to me that that anyone who starts their research wanting to reach a particular conclusion is leaving themselves wide open for confirmation bias.
I’m taking your points out-of-order. Below, you wrote something that clearly illustrates your bias on this topic:
Because the key words here were, “in principle.” Either there is an eternal life, or there isn’t. That we are in no position to know the answer to this question …
You state as fact: “we are in no position to know the answer to this question.” You have decided for some reason, no one can know. Everything you follow with is based on this premise. Yet, you cannot substantiate your own assertion that:
Until we know for certain whether there is eternal life, anyone who wants to believe in it is forced to take it on faith.
About bias. You said:
It seems to me that that anyone who starts their research wanting to reach a particular conclusion is leaving themselves wide open for confirmation bias.
But then hardly any research would get done. Research is usually sparked by an idea, an hypothesis one seeks to validate or disprove. For instance, someone notices the consistency of the iridium layer at the KT boundary and says, “Hey! What if a huge meteor strike caused this?” Then they go and look for evidence of huge meteor strikes. Believe me, they were convinced before they started. You can read about it.

They also got argued with a lot. What do we know for sure? Are you more likey to believe a big meteor killed off the dinosaurs or that life is eternal? You also said:
It seems to me that a truly open-ended search for what’s real on this subject who have to begin with the understanding that there is nobody alive today with special authority to speak on whether life is truly eternal.
Really? No one on earth, in all the billions has the authority of experience or derived authority or any other kind to speak on this topic? Why would you say that? How many have you interviewed?

Now, I am fine with you believing whatever you like. Yet, you seem to want to stifle inquiry, you want to convince that there is no purpose in research into the topic because of things you believe without having any evidence yourself.

Life is eternal. This is not something I believe. It’s something I know for a fact. But I can’t make anyone else know it. I can say: go look into it. I do wish you would not try and discourage people from doing so. If your choice is not to do research and you are satisfied with your own position of: “I can’t know until after death,” that’s certainly fine. For you.

Doesn’t seem to be what OP is satisfied with, though.

It’s okay with you if he looks into this, isn’t it? If he wishes to?
 
I’m taking your points out-of-order. Below, you wrote something that clearly illustrates your bias on this topic:

You state as fact: “we are in no position to know the answer to this question.” You have decided for some reason, no one can know. Everything you follow with is based on this premise.
It is, and it continues to be. Nobody alive can know for a fact that life is eternal. They can wish it to be true. They can believe it with deep conviction. But, it seems that, in addition to be an unfalsifiable claim, it cannot be known by any living person. This seems self-evident to me. Despite my skepticism, it might turn out to be true. But the claim seems to preclude any living human being from knowing it’s true.
But then hardly any research would get done. Research is usually sparked by an idea, an hypothesis one seeks to validate or disprove. For instance, someone notices the consistency of the iridium layer at the KT boundary and says, “Hey! What if a huge meteor strike caused this?” Then they go and look for evidence of huge meteor strikes. Believe me, they were convinced before they started. You can read about it.
Sorry, but this is not comparing like with like. Noticing evidence of an element and suggesting a hypothesis for why it’s there is not the same as wanting to believe that a meteor hit the earth, and then trying to find supporting evidence for it.

The former scenario might not guarantee you wind up with the correct answer, but the latter scenario is barely a serious investigation at all. If you want something to be true, and if the stakes are high enough in your own mind, what sort of evidence would it take for you to concede that the claim is refuted?
Really? No one on earth, in all the billions has the authority of experience or derived authority or any other kind to speak on this topic? Why would you say that? How many have you interviewed?
I have another one for you, and it goes even farther than saying nobody can know that eternal life is a fact. I presume to assert, baldly, and without ambiguity, that there are no four-legged creatures living on the surface of the moon. I insist that this is not only a fact, but a TRUE fact as well.

Now then…what is your response? Do you insist that I interview every living lunar scientist to substantiate this claim? Would I have to interview everyone who’s actually walked on the moon to get their take on this? Or do I need to go there and explore the moon myself, before I’d be fit to make such a claim?

My point is that it does not do to simply throw the question to the wind and say that since I haven’t interviewed anybody, I have no grounds to say that nobody can know we have eternal life. I do have grounds to say this, because the claim defies any serious inquiry of that sort. In simple, practical terms, who would know whether eternal life is real or not? To me, it’s only one singular category of people - dead people. Who don’t pick up the phone when we call them, which makes them lousy interview subjects. After that, we have people who claim to have had NDEs. Leaving aside the question of why being dead for a short time would make you any sort of expert on eternal life, NDE claims are also counter-balanced by the claims of folks who have died, been brought back, and reported no NDEs. How does this evidence factor into the scheme of things?
Now, I am fine with you believing whatever you like. Yet, you seem to want to stifle inquiry, you want to convince that there is no purpose in research into the topic because of things you believe without having any evidence yourself.
Not true. I’m saying that, in general, starting any investigation with the desire to prove a particular claim is true, is usually a bad recipe for learning anything. “Seek and ye shall find” - that’s basically true. If you want something to be true badly enough, it’s only a matter of seeking the evidence that supports it until you’ve found it.

And specifically, I can only repeat - the parameters of this claim seem preclude any living human being from having any special authority or knowledge of eternal life. I noticed that you didn’t offer the OP any specific guidance of whom to talk to or what books to read. So what about a psychic medium? They claim to be in touch with “the other side.” Since you claim to know that eternal life is a fact, would it be worthwhile for the OP to speak with someone claiming the ability to communicate with the dead?
 
we won’t know it when we die unless there IS an afterlife, otherwise we’ll be non existant and know nothing…😦
 
Ah, but God is drawing you near Him in this forum, isn’t He? Through your questions, you show that you are searching!

You are beloved of God. Fear not. :heaven:

It’s all true. Christ came as surely as you are reading this. All roads lead to Rome, and to the Founder of the Catholic Church.

The world is divided into B.C. and A.D. not for nothing! God knew you “In your mother’s womb,” and wants you to draw near.

The history and truth of it are not phantasms or fantasy, but a truth you are seeking. Please stop by the nearest Catholic parish and pray, observe the Mass respectfully.

Talk to a priest about your concerns, and the rest will come to you.

You are beloved of God, and He is always drawing souls nearer and nearer to Him, even through questions like yours which seem to push Him away.

The Resurrection power is true, holy and the love behind Christ’s sacrifice cannot be discounted.
Please come back to the forums and let us know how you are.
May your day be blessed!
:angel1:Kathryn Ann
 
Ah, but God is drawing you near Him in this forum, isn’t He? Through your questions, you show that you are searching!

You are beloved of God. Fear not. :heaven:

It’s all true. Christ came as surely as you are reading this. All roads lead to Rome, and to the Founder of the Catholic Church.

The world is divided into B.C. and A.D. not for nothing! God knew you “In your mother’s womb,” and wants you to draw near.

The history and truth of it are not phantasms or fantasy, but a truth you are seeking. Please stop by the nearest Catholic parish and pray, observe the Mass respectfully.

Talk to a priest about your concerns, and the rest will come to you.

You are beloved of God, and He is always drawing souls nearer and nearer to Him, even through questions like yours which seem to push Him away.

The Resurrection power is true, holy and the love behind Christ’s sacrifice cannot be discounted.
Please come back to the forums and let us know how you are.
May your day be blessed!
:angel1:Kathryn Ann
thank you but i’m a shut in and cannot get around.
 
thank you but i’m a shut in and cannot get around.
Luke (NAB) 4:
He came to Nazareth, where he had grown up, and went according to his custom into the synagogue on the sabbath day. He stood up to read 17 and was handed a scroll of the prophet Isaiah. He unrolled the scroll and found the passage where it was written:
18 “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to bring glad tidings to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim liberty to captives and recovery of sight to the blind, to let the oppressed go free,
19 and to proclaim a year acceptable to the Lord.”
Emphasis mine. Jesus came to set you free. One does not need to mobile to be free.
 
thank you but i’m a shut in and cannot get around.
Oh, God Bless you, itullian, I am sorry to hear that. I hope you will give the nearest parish a call then. Nearly every Catholic parish I know has a special ministry to people who are shut in, recovering from surgery or, in the case of parish members wanting Holy Eucharist, they have special ministers who will come by. Please think about calling someone and feel free to ask your questions.

I’m just recovering from serious cancer surgery myself and I was so glad to have people from my parish stop by. We all need that. The Church is the Body of Christ, reaching out to embrace everyone with His love and compassion. These are not mere words. They are truth.

Christ came into the world to redeem everything about us. People asked Him why he spent so much time with people who were hurting, or sinful, instead of the righteous. He was so often seen with people who doubted, people who were unruly, demon- possessed. And He loved children! I think he loves a child- like heart, someone who wants to learn more. I’m still learning and He’s so patient with me.

People wondered why He spent so much time with misfits.
Jesus answered saying “They that are whole have no need of a physician.”

He is always seeking those who have questions, people hurting and alone.

My favorite thing Jesus said was that “They they have sinned much loveth much.”
That means the worse I am, the more I am grateful for His salvation!

The self- righteous sometimes have lukewarm hearts, thinking they are fine under their own power. And so He said:

“I come not to call the righteous but sinners to repentance.”

So, He came for all of us! If you were the only person in the world, He would have died for you and risen to assure your own life beyond this one and compassion and wisdom while you journey on the earth.

If God can take a poor soul like me, lost in dozens of misguided denominations and steer me to the Church He founded, He will certainly seek out anyone hoping to find the truth.

Scripture also warns us “My spirit will not always strive with man.” This is a serious statement that gives us pause. When He is drawing near to us, this is the time to listen and heed His compassionate call.

I wonder what special gift you might have to share with the world. I hope you will reach out to someone in a Catholic parish close by to discover that.

You are beloved of God, and that is all you need to know to begin the rest of your journey.

God bless you for your honest questions. He understands!
Love and prayers,
Kathryn Ann
 
It is, and it continues to be. Nobody alive can know for a fact that life is eternal.
And yet, I do. So now we have a situation where you believe something without evidence and in believing that reject claims to the contrary because you believe something with no evidence. You haven’t even advanced an argument to bolster your opinion. You just say so.
This seems self-evident to me.
But things that seem self-evident are quite often not factual at all. It seemed evident to a great many people that the sun revolved around the earth. Obviously it must. Only it does not.
But the claim seems to preclude any living human being from knowing it’s true.
And again, many people know it’s true. So why would it seem to you impossible that we do?
Sorry, but this is not comparing like with like. Noticing evidence of an element and suggesting a hypothesis for why it’s there is not the same as wanting to believe that a meteor hit the earth, and then trying to find supporting evidence for it.
Oh, but they did. Because they aren’t computers, they were guys getting laughed at, they were nobodies in the supercompetitive cut-throat world of science and if they could find the evidence it meant publication in major journals, Science - Nature, it meant fame, fortune and an unending string of government grants. A huge, sexy theory to explain a great mystery of science. It meant the same thing we are talking about:* immortality*.

Trust me, they REALLY WANTED to find the evidence.
Now then…what is your response? Do you insist that I interview every living lunar scientist to substantiate this claim? Would I have to interview everyone who’s actually walked on the moon to get their take on this? Or do I need to go there and explore the moon myself, before I’d be fit to make such a claim?
Do you now why you believe that? Can you give reasons of already-proven fact to substantiate your assertion? You can make any assertions you like, the point is, you made one with nothing to back it up. At all. You just think it must be true.
My point is that it does not do to simply throw the question to the wind and say that since I haven’t interviewed anybody, I have no grounds to say that nobody can know we have eternal life.I do have grounds to say this, because the claim defies any serious inquiry of that sort.
And yet, serious inquiry has been in progress for some time. So, yes, I am saying you have provided no logical construct, no basis in previously established facts, nothing but your own feelings about the topic, to assert your “fact”" that no one living in Time can know that life is eternal. .
In simple, practical terms, who would know whether eternal life is real or not? To me, it’s only one singular category of people - dead people. Who don’t pick up the phone when we call them, which makes them lousy interview subjects.
And some of them are quite good interview subjects.
After that, we have people who claim to have had NDEs. Leaving aside the question of why being dead for a short time would make you any sort of expert on eternal life, NDE claims are also counter-balanced by the claims of folks who have died, been brought back, and reported no NDEs. How does this evidence factor into the scheme of things?
We also have people who claim, insist, they do not dream and never have. What does one person remembering and another not remembering have to do with what the one who remembers, remembers?
If you want something to be true badly enough, it’s only a matter of seeking the evidence that supports it until you’ve found it.
And this is bad because…?
And specifically, I can only repeat - the parameters of this claim seem preclude any living human being from having any special authority or knowledge of eternal life. I noticed that you didn’t offer the OP any specific guidance of whom to talk to or what books to read.
Correct. This is the most important thing anyone ever learns. If someone is seeking, he (or she) will be led. Not my job to try and tell folks how to proceed. People get to their destination in their own way. OP needs to go seek and see what he finds in his own way.
 
a fact? how so?
Given your interests, this sounds a bit facetious. Read Gulf by RA Heinlein. It’s pretty clear that who you are is a matter of what you think. What you are, on the other hand, is a matter of discovery, perhaps aided in the begining stages by a religion. But ultimately, Julie Mae is right on: “vamos a ver:” Let’s go see! You have to find out for yourself according to your best conscience. There’s even a book that sets out specific tools for thinking critically in terms of comparative religion, or anything else, for that matter. It is a good skill to have if you are human and have your own best interest at heart, or that of others. Love yourself enough to see where the Love stems from. Life, Love, God and death are certainly not what we think they are.
 
That’s it for me. The man walked out of his own grave. That makes him trustworthy.

And when it gets difficult, I do what the man in Mark’s Gospel did, I cry out…

“I do believe, help my unbelief!” (Mark 9:24)

-Tim-
I usually cry out louder that you !!!
But then I remember what Jesus said to Thomas: “Blessed the ones who did not see and believed!” and then I realize that I do not want to see the lord till the Last Day, to be blessed, like He said.
 
God, the Universe, the Bible, Mary, Jesus

all mean NOTHING if there’s no life after death. And i don’t mean ambiguous life,i mean self identity, take what you learned with you life. right?

i’m having trouble thinking this is real. seems so fantastic i just can’t believe it.
how do we believe in something so fantastic?

and nothing makes any sense or means anything if we’re just dirt, but…

don’t know, but there it is, right?
The statement in bold beautifully describes what’s known as prior probability. This is how confident you are that a hypothesis is true prior to considering any evidence in its favor. We have numerous priors for all kinds of positions. These priors determine how strong a piece of evidence must be in order to convince us of a position. If you have a very low prior for a hypothesis, you’ll need very strong evidence to convince you. Likewise, if you have a very high prior, you won’t need very strong evidence to persuade you.

The question then is what evidence do we have for life after death? Once we’ve identified it, then we can all discern whether it’s strong enough for us given our own priors.

One suggestion I’ve heard before is that if death is merely the end of life, then asking whether there is life after death is asking whether there is life after the end of life, which is nonsensical. It’s like asking is there any food left on your plate after you’ve eaten all the food on your plate.
 
The statement in bold beautifully describes what’s known as prior probability. This is how confident you are that a hypothesis is true prior to considering any evidence in its favor. We have numerous priors for all kinds of positions. These priors determine how strong a piece of evidence must be in order to convince us of a position. If you have a very low prior for a hypothesis, you’ll need very strong evidence to convince you. Likewise, if you have a very high prior, you won’t need very strong evidence to persuade you.

The question then is what evidence do we have for life after death? Once we’ve identified it, then we can all discern whether it’s strong enough for us given our own priors.

One suggestion I’ve heard before is that if death is merely the end of life, then asking whether there is life after death is asking whether there is life after the end of life, which is nonsensical. It’s like asking is there any food left on your plate after you’ve eaten all the food on your plate.
Yes, this is very well stated. I might add that the framing of the question may also be the cause of conflict in that it may be incomplete in that it limits the itself to an incomplete dynamic. What I mean is that a person of a Christian faith has accepted or is dealing from a position within a limited paradigem, cliams that that particular religion is a sufficient and complete explanation of things aside. And perhaps that is the range of predisposition you cite?

But if the question is limited to the paradigm of a faith–or and understandign of that faith–which is incompete as to the nature of life itself, life apart from but including persona life, then there is definitly a problem. On the other hand, there may be motivation. 🙂

So most faiths as we understand them deal with some idea of personal continuity. And the big bugaboo is what constiutes person. That is a word, after all, that is derived from a Grek word meaning “mask.” So “person” may not mean “me” as I think about myself, but what I actually am indiependent of my thjoughts about it, if I think about that at all.

Most, by a long shot, don’t. We, as a race, accept the illusion that “I and me are one.” It could be said that that perspective is by itself that actual Original Sin. With some dilligent work, this misconception can be overcome, but few get that there even is such a possibility, accepting instead what they grew up with as a simplistic explanation of “how things work.” No wonder such prpoblems arise, the story of the “fall” and expusion from the “Garden” being vastly misunderstood these days.

But all that is to say that such a question has its begiining in a misalignment of one’s thought structure with reality as cloaked by a faith paradigm of what ever color or flavor or stripe that might be.
 
One suggestion I’ve heard before is that if death is merely the end of life, then asking whether there is life after death is asking whether there is life after the end of life, which is nonsensical. It’s like asking is there any food left on your plate after you’ve eaten all the food on your plate.
I believe there is a book called “Life after Life.” Kinda depends of what definition you are ascribing to the word in which instance. People tend to identify living as something to do with physical bodies and call that life. If we define life as the existence of the self-aware person, then there is life after life. Also during. I think some people believe before, also.
 
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