But why should this be the case? Why should it be assumed that teens want one liturgical style and one only? Now if they called it the Praise and Worship Mass then they are defining the style so of course they should use that style. But how does Teen = Praise and Worship and nothing else?
Teen means Teen. It doesnât automatically mean one who likes Praise and Worship to the exclusion of anything else. Are Life Teen Masses about the teens, or are they about the style of liturgy? If they are about the style of liturgy then they should change the name. That is basic truth in labeling. But if they are about the teens, then they should treat the teens as full human beings and not cardboard cutouts. And they should rethink their assumptions about what teens want, especially in light of surveys
such as this one that fly in the face of those assumptions.
(a quick summary of that article shows that Catholic teens rate âTraditional Choralâ music highest, and both âReligious Easy Listeningâ, âImprovisatory Vocalâ and âRock and Twentieth Century Instrumentalâ lowest - exactly the opposite from standard Life Teen fare)
Happy to pass it along. After all, that music is your music too.
âTeen means teen.â
I disagree with this statement.
I think this depends on your population of teens.
Iâve written a couple of teen novels, and one of the criticisms is that the kids in the novels are too âmatureâ and not typical of ârealâ teens. I can accept that criticism.
The reason that my characters are âmatureâ is that my children hung out with a very âmatureâ population of teenagers. They attended a private secular prep school, where many of the parents (not us) were doctors, lawyers, and corporation executives. We had several milliionaires and multi-millionaires in the school (including the child of the âMarshmallow Peepsâ company owner!).
Obviously, these kids came from very privileged backgrounds. Many of them went to their cabins in the Colorado Rockies (we live in Northern Illinois) over the weekends. It was not unusual for these kids to spend the week of spring break on safari in Africa, or touring Europe. Amazing.
They were great kids and I loved them! Friendly, caring, outgoing, welcoming kids who worked their butts off to succeed in that very tough (academically) school. We were thrilled to have our kids in this group.
I drove a group of them to Ravinia once for a Stephen Sondheim show. During the drive there, the group of young teenagers very knowledgeably and enthusiastically discussed such topics as âWhat makes Stephen Sondheim different than other writers? Are his musicals better or worse than others?â etc. They also discussed various philosophiesâthe subject was far above my head.
But they included me in the discussion. I wasnât just the mom who was acting as their personal servant. No, they were just as interested in my opinions as I was in theirs.
And it was from these kids that I created many of the teenaged characters in my novels. Some of the âunrealisticâ discussions in my novels are taken verbatim from real discussions that I was part of while my kids were in school. Ha ha.
My kids also hung out at the ice skating rinks with other skaters, and although these kids are very definitely real teenagers, they have a different focus that many âtypicalâ teenagers. The kids my girls were friends with got up at 4 in the morning and spent several hours before school at the cold ice rink, punishing their bodies. And in order to do this, they would go to bed no later than 9 P.M. every night. THATâS not typical teen behavior.
So to get back to the statement âTeen means teen,â and the application to religionâthere are many teens who have somehow managed to develop a deep spiritual life, have a mature understanding of the Catholic faith, who have an appreciation of history and liturgy, and who enjoy the ancient traditions of the Church.
But there are also many teens who have a very shallow spirituality, with only a vague or possibly even an incorrect understanding of Catholicism, who think that history is boring, liturgy is dull, and ancient traditions should be dispensed with. Some of these teens are outwardly polite and respectful to their elders, but inside, they are waiting for a chance to get out of the Catholic Church.
And sadly, there are teens who actually reject any aspect of religion. Sometimes this can be blamed on the parents, but most of the time, the parents have done everything right and the teen has chosen a different path.
So if you give your music survey to the first group of teens, of course they will put Gregorian Chant at the top of their list.
But give that same survey to the second or third group, and you may get different answers, if they even bother to fill out the survey.
Life Teen is an attempt to reach out to the second group of teenagers, and to a certain extent, the third group. The first group of faith-filled teenagers have plenty of other Mass options and many opportunities to fill their lives with traditional music (perhaps through joining community choirs such as my âMessiahâ organization that i wrote of earlier).
There is no need for a Mass to reach out to them. They are already safe in the harbor.
But that second and third group are walking on the edge. Life Teen is an attempt to reach out and grasp their hands and eventually pull them in to safety, too.
Yes, itâs a Mass, but itâs also a âmission.â The fact that others enjoy the Life Teen music, especially âboomersâ like me, is not important. The important thing is that those youth sponsors who use the Life Teen program have a âtoolâ that they can use to try to reach out to Catholic teens who otherwise might just slip away and never be found.
There are other tools, and perhaps if you are in charge of a youth outreach and given the âchargeâ to âbring them inâ (referring to those who have lost interest in their Catholic faith), then you would perhaps choose to use one of those other tools. And IMO, if you were working with the right motiveâLOVEâyour tool would be just as effective in reaching out to teenagers as Life Teen. Surely youâve read of various outreaches in the ghettos
In Harlem, an ice skating rink offers the âFigure Skating in Harlem.â Ghetto kids, mainly African American, can apply for this program, which includes classes and tutoring, and programs that help the kids stay away from gangs and drugs, to maintain good grades in school and be good citizens, and to come to the rink and skate for a few hours every week. âStarsâ of the figure skating world, including Dorothy Hamill and Michelle Kwan, help to raise funds for this very worthwhile program.
Hereâs a link:
figureskatinginharlem.org/inside/index.html
Now many people would say, âFigure skating? For kids from the hood?!! No way!â But it works! Many of these kids are succeeding in life, using the principles that they are taught in this very worthwhile program that logically, shouldnât work at all. Itâs the love of the people who run this program that is key to its success.
So far, when it comes to Mass, the main programs that I have seen, other than a program that Sarabande discusses, are Life Teen type programs for teens. **Perhaps itâs time for the lovers of Catholic traditions to put their time and money where their heart is, and develop a Traditional Teen Mass. **
I realize that some people believe that there is no need for âspecialâ Masses for teens. I respectfully suggest that these people donât have a realistic appreciation of the state of teenaged culture in the U.S. today. Perhaps the population of teens that they know are part of the âreverentâ group of faith-filled teens, and so they have the incorrect perception that teens donât need anything other than a regular Mass. But as I stated at the beginning of my post, teens are NOT teens. We send missionaries to various people groups in the world, and we run those missions differently, depending on the population (e.g., a clinic in an area that has been destroyed by a natural disaster, a reading library in an area that is hungry for learning, etc.) . Our teenagers are a âmission fieldâ that are ripe for harvest, and we need to use the proper implements for the in-gathering.