Lifeteen Mass - Why Are They Given A Pass on Reverence?

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I occasionally visit a Lifeteen Mass and am always so happy and thankful to see the teens there with their family. I’m so thankful that we have this program. The youth groups at Protestant/non denominational churches are a huge draw to young people, so this is a very important ministry.
 
The amazing thing about a “reverent Life Teen Mass” is that it’s a bit like the abominable snowman or flying saucers. Plenty of people claim to have seen them, but no one seems able to provide any evidence that they actually exist.

I hear the same thing all the time “The Life Teen Mass at MY parish is reverent.” But I have yet to see it with my own eyes, no matter how many times I do see a LT Mass.
The problem with this statement, Father, is that it’s reciprocal. You can say that I’m lying when I say I’ve been to a reverent lifeteen mass (and I’ll admit, I’ve only been to one, so I can’t really formulate a statistic based on that… but at least it was reverent, even if I didn’t prefer the music). In return, I can just as easily accuse you of lying when you say you’ve never been to a reverent lifeteen mass… or I can just as easily say the OP was lying to defame an allowed movement within the church… or I can just as easily accuse the OP of being satan possessed and making things up in order to fracture the church.

But if we start just telling every person who recounts any personal experience that they’re lying, this is rapidly going to become a very, very pointless section of the forum. I’ve never been to the fabled “clown mass”… in fact I’ve never seen a truly egregious error in person… but you don’t see me running around and saying “you’re lying” to people who claim they have…
 
The problem with this statement, Father, is that it’s reciprocal. You can say that I’m lying when I say I’ve been to a reverent lifeteen mass (and I’ll admit, I’ve only been to one, so I can’t really formulate a statistic based on that… but at least it was reverent, even if I didn’t prefer the music). In return, I can just as easily accuse you of lying when you say you’ve never been to a reverent lifeteen mass… or I can just as easily say the OP was lying to defame an allowed movement within the church… or I can just as easily accuse the OP of being satan possessed and making things up in order to fracture the church.

But if we start just telling every person who recounts any personal experience that they’re lying, this is rapidly going to become a very, very pointless section of the forum. I’ve never been to the fabled “clown mass”… in fact I’ve never seen a truly egregious error in person… but you don’t see me running around and saying “you’re lying” to people who claim they have…
If you can reference a post where I said that someone was lying, by all means do so.
 
Have you spoken to your pastor? To the priest who celebrated the Mass? To the youth director? Have you contacted the Lifeteen organization? Meet the people who run the program at your parish. Ask them questions politely about the program. You can’t change anything just by asking questions here.

We must do what we can to affect change in our own parishes. We don’t have a lifeteen program at our parish, but I have been to a few of their Masses at other churches. They are not all like you describe.

If you find that changes can’t/won’t be made at your parish’s evening Mass, than you can either make more of an effort to be at Sunday morning Masses, or attend a different parish’s Saturday/Sunday evening Mass.
I try to avoid Lifeteen Mass on Sunday night if at all possible, but sometimes it’s my only option when my kids have soccer games on Sunday mornings/afternoons. I actually feel embarrassed when I’m at a Lifeteen Mass with my wife and kids. The music is like going to a rock concert–very loud, totally irreverent (my 10 year old twins were covering their ears with their hands during the music it was so loud). Almost all the teens show up dressed as if they are going to the movies or a fast food joint. There was no kneeling during the consecration–everyone stands. During the consecration the priest invites all the teens to stand in front of the altar. I’ve never seen this done at any other Mass.

It appears to me that in some misguided effort to make the Mass more appealing to teens, we have cheapened and scrapped reverence in favor of entertainment. We have a standard in our family that because Mass is important and because we actually encounter Christ there, we treat it as important by dressing up a little–no jeans or flip flops or tennis shoes. My daughters are probably the only girls there wearing dresses. My sons are pretty much the only boys there wearing collared shirts and slacks. My kids actually feel uncomfortable at Lifeteen Mass because they are the only kids dressed like this. Am I going nuts or does nobody care about this kind of stuff anymore?

Overall I would say that Lifeteen takes great liberties that were never intended for the Mass. It feels cheap, dumbed down, and irreverent. I really can’t believe that our Chruch allows this to happen. What is going on?
 
To be completely honest, as someone who is not very detached from his teenage years, I find the fact that the Church feels that they have to “stoop to our level,” so to speak, in order for us to go to mass and participate in the Church, is extremely insulting to my intelligence and that of others near my age. I think Lifeteen is awful for that very reason, that it inherently presumes that we are just young, dumb teenagers and we need a mass to fit that.
Why shouldn’t the Church stoop down to our level? God stooped down to our level and became man. We cannot elevate ourselves to God by our own power. God came down to meet us where we are so that He may lift us up to Him. This is the Church extending the great mercy of her groom to the young ones of today.
 
To be completely honest, as someone who is not very detached from his teenage years, I find the fact that the Church feels that they have to “stoop to our level,” so to speak, in order for us to go to mass and participate in the Church, is extremely insulting to my intelligence and that of others near my age. I think Lifeteen is awful for that very reason, that it inherently presumes that we are just young, dumb teenagers and we need a mass to fit that.
Great point.
 
Why shouldn’t the Church stoop down to our level? God stooped down to our level and became man. We cannot elevate ourselves to God by our own power. God came down to meet us where we are so that He may lift us up to Him. This is the Church extending the great mercy of her groom to the young ones of today.
You are making a straw-man. I am 17 and from what I have seen on the internet and heard from other posters, LifeTeen Masses seem to fit YoungTradCath’s criteria.
 
Just asking for opinions here…

Is it possible for a Mass to be reverent with music that is other than organ or chant?

In other words, could a LifeTeen Mass be considered reverent if all aspects of the liturgy were perfect, but the music was provided from musical instruments (i.e., guitar, trumpet, drums, etc)?
 
Is it possible for a Mass to be reverent with music that is other than organ or chant?

In other words, could a LifeTeen Mass be considered reverent if all aspects of the liturgy were perfect, but the music was provided from musical instruments (i.e., guitar, trumpet, drums, etc)?
Would you be playing that instrument at the foot of Calvary at Christ’s sacrifice for mankind? We are taken back to that timeless moment during the consecration. Think about this when you decide on an instrument, that’s what I would be doing anyway.
 
Would you be playing that instrument at the foot of Calvary at Christ’s sacrifice for mankind? We are taken back to that timeless moment during the consecration. Think about this when you decide on an instrument, that’s what I would be doing anyway.
Considering several Lifteen bands played for the Pope last time benedict 16 visited NYC including Mass I’d say yep. Besides the Bible does say that music will be played on trumpets and SIX string liar. A liar is a anchient predessor to the guitar.

No where in the Bible is organ mentioned nor chant. Singing with a guitar-like instrument is.
 
Considering several Lifteen bands played for the Pope last time benedict 16 visited NYC including Mass I’d say yep. Besides the Bible does say that music will be played on trumpets and SIX string liar. A liar is a anchient predessor to the guitar.

No where in the Bible is organ mentioned nor chant. Singing with a guitar-like instrument is.
I hope you mean “lyre”…
 
To be completely honest, as someone who is not very detached from his teenage years, I find the fact that the Church feels that they have to “stoop to our level,” so to speak, in order for us to go to mass and participate in the Church, is extremely insulting to my intelligence and that of others near my age. I think Lifeteen is awful for that very reason, that it inherently presumes that we are just young, dumb teenagers and we need a mass to fit that.
I agree.

When middle-aged people try to create “cool” programs, what they create is corny, programs that middle-aged people find cool.

I know a lot of young people who detest that with a passion.

The way to attract young people is to continue to have reverent masses. Show them what it means to worship God. Teach them about the sacrifice of the mass.

Then have programs outside of mass that will keep them engaged in the parish.
 
You are making a straw-man. I am 17 and from what I have seen on the internet and heard from other posters, LifeTeen Masses seem to fit YoungTradCath’s criteria.
This is easliy explained in lifeteens motto “leading teens closer to Christ” Lifeteens goal is to serve the underchurched and unchurched. It’s format, discussions and teachings do assume that kids dont know the basics. For 95% of the kids thats true. They dont know basic bible stories, they dont know squat about Mass and they know zero moral teaching. I learned more in 1 year of lifeteen than in the 8years of post 1st communion CCD.

For that last 5% who do know what the church teaches they are simply welcome as leaders. Still based on the lack of knowlege and the once a week format most teens in LT only get there after 3 or 4 years.

For those who walk into the program with alot of knowledge they are not well served by Lifeteen. This is the unfortunate side. Some parishes compensate by putting those teens in leadership roles. Others go above and beyond and host a deeper youth group like “dead theologians society”. Unfortunatly, having the critical mass…atleast a half dozen…dosnt often happpen.

Society is not the way it is because of Lifeteen, but lifeteen is the way it is because of society. Its one of the only groups that has the ability to keep post-confirmation kids in Church. Many good vocations and marriages have come out of the participants. It also helps the average layman reach teens with its nationwide support and “core” princible centered in prayer.

Nothing will reach every teen. But Lifeteen does its mission and does it well.
 
Can you blame the teens when they’re being pandered to?
You say pander. Another poster said stoop to our level. St. Paul put it this way.* “I am made all things to all men, that I might by all means save some.”* The Catholic Church’s tradition is use this criteria for inculturation and evangelization.
 
. So I want proof a reverent Life Teen Mass exists.
I think no proof will exist for such a tenet. While one can say that reverence is not relative, the fact that one person’s proof is not another’s indicates that there is at least some element of opinion. I have been to one LifeTeen Mass. I do not care for the music or the volume. However, the reverence of the kids involved was quite striking.
 
I agree.

When middle-aged people try to create “cool” programs, what they create is corny, programs that middle-aged people find cool.

I know a lot of young people who detest that with a passion.

The way to attract young people is to continue to have reverent masses. Show them what it means to worship God. Teach them about the sacrifice of the mass.

Then have programs outside of mass that will keep them engaged in the parish.
So much truth. Same with Church music, they insist that younger generations like having somewhat corny hymns that are more like ‘Jesus is a divine version of Barney the Dinosaur’ rather than nice traditional solemn ones, that I think most people enjoy.
 
So much truth. Same with Church music, they insist that younger generations like having somewhat corny hymns that are more like ‘Jesus is a divine version of Barney the Dinosaur’ rather than nice traditional solemn ones, that I think most people enjoy.
Ummmm. While i agree that there are some corny hyms myself and most of my friends between 13 and 35 like upbeat music far more that solemn music. Especally solemen music in a language we dont understand.
 
Ummmm. While i agree that there are some corny hyms myself and most of my friends between 13 and 35 like upbeat music far more that solemn music. Especally solemen music in a language we dont understand.
Well, everyone has there preferences.
 
Some people live on these forums to defend abuses in the Liturgy. If you read enough on these forums, it becomes obvious who these people are. Every time there is anything said to criticize abuses in the liturgy, these same people come out of the wood work to misrepresent things you say and make you prove everything you claim. Do not fall into their trap people. The best thing to do is ignore them and continue on with the discussion.
To a point I would agree with you. It just seems that almost everyone here has their “pet” abuses which they do not define as an abuse but are quick to jump on anything they see as an abuse.
Good point.

It’s like the Supreme Court said a few years back: “I can’t define it, but I know it when I see it.”

We also know irreverence when we see it.

The amazing thing about a “reverent Life Teen Mass” is that it’s a bit like the abominable snowman or flying saucers. Plenty of people claim to have seen them, but no one seems able to provide any evidence that they actually exist.

I hear the same thing all the time “The Life Teen Mass at MY parish is reverent.” But I have yet to see it with my own eyes, no matter how many times I do see a LT Mass.
Fr David,
I agree with you. I too thought as you do, until one Sunday I did attend a reverent Life Teen Mass.
 
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