Like a girl at work

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There is a girl I like at work. I’m talking to her it’s going good. How would I ask her for her number or if she has Facebook? Any advice or suggestions?
 
Last time I asked a woman for anything (most of my friend’s are female, and they just give me their phone numbers, that is not as impressive as it sounds), I just told her I wanted a way to talk to her outside of Mass. (I should note her I didn’t talk to her at Mass, but after) She told me to look up her name on Facebook, and gave me the unique spelling of her name. Now that I think about it, I wish I’d asked her for another way to contact her before I got rid of my Facebook.
 
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I would avoid asking for drinks, I wouldn’t ask someone something like that because I don’t drink. I recall some people telling me that I should ask a woman out for coffee, well that’s great for me, because I like coffee, but not everyone does.
 
Make it a suggestion in your conversation. I have a woman I’m currently interested in that I go to church with, and I’m talking to her after Mass and everything, and the very first thing I said to her to try to get to know her was a compliment of her appearance, so I obviously didn’t hold anything back on that. I am just waiting for an opportune time , it’s best to start off as friends, in any relationship that you might potentially be in, I know this from experience. I don’t understand the people that say don’t date friends, because I think that’s incredibly stupid. Is it just nervousness on your part? Like, if you knew her a little bit better, it wouldn’t be that big of a deal? Because that’s actually what I’m running into.
 
Yeah I know her kind of well we like work with each other. I need to try to ask her alone could I ask her wanted to get some ice cream sometime?
 
Watch her be lactose intolerant 😆 . In all seriousness I really understand what you’re going through, because I’m going through something similar. Although, I think it’s kind of obvious that the woman that I’m interested in is at least somewhat interested in me, kind of acts like it and I don’t have time to explain how here. That said, she’s probably figured out that you like her. How does she act towards you?
 
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I would ask for her number before her Facebook name. I say this just because FB is so impersonal (ironic given it’s “social media”). It might send the message that you’re interested in being friends (which you should be, but it sounds like you would like to explore other options).

Perhaps asking her if she’d like to meet for coffee or tea some time might be a good first step. Then, if it goes well, see about getting her number to set up a date.
 
What are her mannerisms and the like towards you? I am sorry if I am not being very descriptive, I haven’t had much sleep.
 
First, know your employer’s policy on fraternization/dating.

IF the company permits employees to date, then, you simply say “Hey, Sally, would you like to go get a cup of coffee after work?”
 
Oh yeah, I forgot about that, and make sure it does not get in the way of your work.
 
That is good. Do you get off work about the same time? Maybe you could talk to her then.
 
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