Wow, this thread has exploded since last I saw it.
(this is gonna be one long post)
You choose to be sad, and you choose to be happy.
I disagree. I can say “I want to be happy” but that will do nothing. Happiness is a feeling, a reaction, and as a reaction something must come first to bring about that happiness. Happiness or sadness are merely consequences.
All actions have consequences, if you choose the correct answers on a test, the consequence is you get an A. Now, we all want to do well and get A’s right? So therefore we must choose the correct answer, and of course in order to do that we must study.
If you want to get to heaven, just like getting those A’s, you must make the right choice. And in order to make that choice, like studying, you must make good choices throughout your life. Now its possible to get to heaven without making good choices in our life, but most likely if you cannot surrender yourself to God in this life, you won’t be able to in the next.
The only hell is the one you make in your mind, and your mind projecting it onto your surroundings.
You said you are buddhist, I’m really not familiar with that religion , do you believe in a life after death? And if so, is there any form of judgment? It seems from your posts that if there is a life after death, there is no hell, therefore in my mind it doesn’t matter what we do in this life (similar to an atheistic mindset).
It’s not quite that simple. Even those, yes, those who choose hell freely go there, it is because they will never be able to stand in the presence of God, by the life they lived and the sins they did not seek forgiveness for. Those who die impenitent will go to hell. If the life someone lives is void of God and full of sin, it is unlikely they will be able to suddenly choose heaven at the moment of particular judgment.
Granted, what I wrote was a short summery. Plus I was at work so I had to hurry back to what I was doing before.

The fact that unbaptized infants are conceived in a state of original sin and that they cannot be freed from original sin without baptism, and that infants are excluded from the beatific vision if they die unbaptized, is a solemnly defined dogma just as Our Lady’s Immaculate Conception.
…It [Limbo] is a divinely revealed dogma
…Limbo is a dogma of the Church, I’d post the ex cathedra pronouncements, but there is a character limit, so we’ll make do with my earlier post
It is my understanding that there is no official Church teaching on limbo. It is only theological speculation. I called up my father ( a Deacon and moral theologian who has been teaching at Franciscan University for several years) who told me the same. Now, I’m not saying he is the end all be all, but I have looked and can find no official Church teaching on the subject.
Would you mind sharing some sources?
catholicnews.com/data/stories/cns/0702216.htm
"Those who, through no fault of their own, do not know the Gospel of Christ or his Church, but who nevertheless seek God with a sincere heart, and, moved by grace, try in their actions to do his will as they know it through the dictates of their conscience—those too may achieve eternal salvation.
337 --CCC 847
Could be that this is another thread but I could not help but notice that you did not mention deamons. Or more correctly Fallen Angles. Yea they reside in hell and rull over the human who go there and pretty much do whatever they want with and to them for all eternity. You also did not mention the fire. Christ mentioned the fire thats why I say that.
Fallen angels made the choice not to be with God, the reason the ‘rule’ in hell is because they are bigger and stronger then we are. The bully on the playground.
The fire? I would say that the pain of feeling separated from God could be described as a fire. I won’t go into too much, but I have felt the feeling I am talking about. It was a much smaller degree then what someone would feel in hell, but I believe that at a point in my life (I’m not going to go into details) I felt a very deep separation from God, and in all honesty I can imagine no worse feeling.