Michael,
Thanks for the advice. I will pin it up here at my computer as a reminder, but its hard to edify people who’s Jesus is hanging on a wall in a church. I was really suprised when I found out how some Catholics relate to Jesus. I had to put everything on hold until I learn more. The Protestants are easy to figure out, because they fellowship more. But, after a Latin Mass everyone exits quietly, and goes directly to thier vehicle.
Richard
Richard:
Fellowship after the Mass (also known as the “Coffee Hour”) is often referred to as “the Eighth Sacrament” by Anglicans – It’s almost MANDATORY. Imagine my surprise as I watched the people of a Roman Catholic Parish I had sung at clearing out a parking lot in less than 15 minutes! That was almost 30 years ago, and I still remember the way my jaw dropped down as I realized that these people had cleared a parking lot that had 500+ cars in it in 15 minutes - And that included leaving their pews, saying “Hi” to Father, walking to their cars, getting in their cars, starting their cars, etc…
And, They repeated this the very next week! and The Week after that, and so on! and, The same thing happened when I read at another parish a couple of years later!
We could have a thread on this and what could be done to solve the problem, because it is a real problem. People share HERE instead of in their parishes. People try to fit in HERE instead of in their parishes. and, In some cases, people get their support HERE instead of from their parishes.
So, I’m more than well-aware of what you’re talking about.
I once attended a TLM with a friend who regularly attended that TLM. After the Mass, he and his friends regularly went out to lunch after that Mass. This may be difficult, but see if there are groups that “congregate” after Mass and see if one of them will allow you to join the group. Another way to get included is to get involved (this is hard for me because of my disabilities) - The Catholic Church has Altar Servers/Acolytes, Lectors/Readers, Choirs/Schola Cantorum, the dreaded EMHE and USHERS (all within the Mass). and, The Church has The Knights of Columbus (when I was broke, I was the “utility knight” for a year - 25 years ago), CCD (It’s called something else now) & only God knows what else…
Regarding the “Jesus on the Cross” - I thought you listened to Fr. Corapi on EWTN!
We show Jesus on the Cross to remind us what our salvation cost us and where we belong if we want to be “Raised with Christ”. Or, As Fr. Corapi has repeatedly said in various sermons:
NO CROSS, NO CROWN
NO PAIN, NO GAIN
NO GOOD FRIDAY, NO EASTER SUNDAY
NO DEATH, NO RESURRECTION
NO COMBAT, NO GLORY
NO WAY AROUND IT!
Every time we see our Lord on that Cross, we should be reminded of that. Remember, The Apostle St. Paul said:
For Jews demand signs and Greeks seek wisdom, but we preach Christ crucified, a stumbling block to Jews and folly to Gentiles, but to those who are called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ the power of God and the wisdom of God. For the foolishness of God is wiser than men, and the weakness of God is stronger than men.
1 Cor. 1:22-25 ESV
And, This is What Isaiah said.
But he was wounded (pierced) for our transgressions;
He was crushed for our iniquities;
Upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace,
And with his stripes we are healed.
Isaiah 53:5 ESV
That’s why we show our Lord on the Cross - To remind us thick skulled Catholics what our Salvation cost our Lord, and so we should “Look on Him whom WE have pierced”.
Your Brother and Servant in Christ, Michael