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I believe Arizona Mike answered a few of the points brought up. However, let us try to be civil and not jump to conclusions about our brethren suffering from homosexual tendencies.
Married or not, straight or gay, the issue of messing with children is deplorable. The Church got a black eye but it is learning. Not every Bishop is guilty of hiding it and not every priest committed such an act.
I have a close family member who was molested and raped by a member of the clergy decades ago. We often wondered why that particular family member acted a bit odd. It was not until recently we found out the full story of what transpired in their teenage years. The remarkable thing to me was how the person decided to handle their traumatic experience. Instead of turning to anger and revenge they turned to therapy and spiritual direction. In the end my family member forgave and befriended their attacker when the molesters past sins caught up with. My family member did not excuse the molesters actions and the molester reaped what he sowed. However, my family member felt that if Christ could be innocently crucified next to criminals and forgive everyone one that killed him why couldn’t they forgive this man. I can never forget how shocked I was to find this out but I saw the healing power of forgiveness in my family member. These are horrible experiences that violate trust at the most sacred level. However, the healthiest response I have seen is to respond as Christ taught. Obey the laws of man and forgive from your heart.
God Bless
Married or not, straight or gay, the issue of messing with children is deplorable. The Church got a black eye but it is learning. Not every Bishop is guilty of hiding it and not every priest committed such an act.
I have a close family member who was molested and raped by a member of the clergy decades ago. We often wondered why that particular family member acted a bit odd. It was not until recently we found out the full story of what transpired in their teenage years. The remarkable thing to me was how the person decided to handle their traumatic experience. Instead of turning to anger and revenge they turned to therapy and spiritual direction. In the end my family member forgave and befriended their attacker when the molesters past sins caught up with. My family member did not excuse the molesters actions and the molester reaped what he sowed. However, my family member felt that if Christ could be innocently crucified next to criminals and forgive everyone one that killed him why couldn’t they forgive this man. I can never forget how shocked I was to find this out but I saw the healing power of forgiveness in my family member. These are horrible experiences that violate trust at the most sacred level. However, the healthiest response I have seen is to respond as Christ taught. Obey the laws of man and forgive from your heart.
God Bless