Dear Basil,
I know married priests exist. I vaguely recally marriage was forbidden so priests could not pass on their church to their children. Celibacy is also a sacrifice, I’d say, and a constant one. It’s a higher estate. It also means you only have to serve God and not your missus and kids as well.
I’m not suprised there’s a book about a Sunday service in the absense of a priest. But I understand such a thing is not a Mass, so you’re not obliged to attend it.
I had a thought recently: Suppose all these novelties, abuses or whatever you want to call them were tried in the past by our spiritual forefathers and dropped because they didn’t help the work? Or indeed, hindered it. We assume modern = better. Or that our forefathers were not as smart or educated as us.
I think that anything that survives for hundreds of years basically intact is likely most fit for purpose; like an old Rolls Royce that outlasts modern, gimmicky, cars.
I have the notion that a section of our clergy are educated, but not wise. They don’t want to be embarassed defending ‘outdated, bigoted, exclusive’ ideas to other educated people.They want to get ‘bums on seats’. They may also be trying to fight the decadence of our times by trying to get the laity more involved. I don’t think that has worked.
I suggest they try holiness. This can be attained by prayer, fasting, making sacrifices big and small, giving alms, visiting the sick, doing nothing that might displease God and all you can that would please Him. That will draw people to you like nothing else. Indeed, I recall saints who wanted to live like hermits soon found they had a lot of company!
Also, to paraphrase what another poster mentioned on this forum, when he showed a muslim around a Catholic church. It was something like:
The muslim said: “So you really believe your God is in that little gold box up there?”
His guide said: “Well, yes”.
The muslim said: “So why aren’t you on your knees?”
I think when people, individually and collectively, realise what a Mass is truly meant to accomplish, we’ll see a lot less crowd-pleasing in our churches.
After all, if billions can be spent on social issues, what price some beautiful vestments, a church that tries to mimic Heaven, a priest and people that all face the object of their worship and a schola that sings well, to please the great and awesome Lord Of All Creation? Doesn’t cost a lot.