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My response in 241 was to dsulpizio —so lets stick to the content of dsulpizio post and leave aside for now your contributions of anal behavior --OCD etc.I read 241, and I say you don’t read my posts. One does not have to read the status of someone else’s soul to see behavior that is over the top. And one does not have to determine the status of another’s soul to see that individual may be, for example, OCD. That is not a soul issue; it is a psychological issue.
Since you have read the post --it is obvious that dsulpizio was attributing the behavior of others to being “so inflicted with sin that they react by looking for error elsewhere” --" a reaction to their own sinfulness, which may be diminished by their own eyes when they focus on the errors elsewhere. Now --someone would have to be blind not to see that dsulpizio -did in fact make it a soul issue. This prompted by response in post 241.
I have read your posts. I have invited you to discuss the issue of what may drive some people to an activity and attitude which appears at least in part to be OCD, and the best response you can come up with is “you can’t look at their souls and judge them”?
The issue being discussed was not OCD or anal retentive behavior–it was dsulpizio’s post which did not deal with those issues. I’ve included below your first response to me. Lets focus on the parts I have bolded. As to your first statement —as can be seen --dsulpizio own words speak against what you wrote. She/he made it a point (twice) - to attribute their behavior to their state of “sinfulness etc.”I already said I agreed with you on that point, but you keep going back to it.
Now to your last statements in your post below. I noticed you made a change. dsulpizio did Not attribute sinfulness to the behavior (as you state) – but to the driving(motivating) force behind the behavior —to their state of sinfulness that caused the reaction (behavior).
You conclude with --“his observation being accurate if not well described”. What is it that you agree is accurate if not well described in dsulpizio’s post. It could not be anything with anal retentive/OCD behavior–because this was Your take on what drives certain behavior and Not dsulpizio’s which centered on the state of sinfulness as the motivating force. Where you super imposing Your take on anal retentive/OCD behavior onto dsulpizio’s post in order to come up with --“his observation being accurate if not well described”. This would be putting Your words in dsulpizio’s mouth.
I am not sure that dsulpizio was trying so much to speak to the state of their souls as to their demeanor and what appears to be driving them. People who respond as do the subgroup he describes are not limited to Catholics or Traditionalists; they show up elsewhere. While I would not describe their behavior in terms of being sin driven, there is ample literature in legitimate psychological studies showing that some people who fall into a general category of anal retentive can end up in a sub category of those who are particularly driven to minute observation of “law abaiding” in others as that is an area that is most compelling within their lives.
I have had too much experience with people who are very rigid about observing minute details of behavioral “law” (“thus and so has to be done exactly this way”) not to be able to identify with his comments. There comes a point where concern for following, for example here, the rubrics, crosses over to an obsession with the minutia. That does not say that everyone who wants to follow the laws, or wants them observed, is obsessive. It helps to have a bit of common sense when discussing the issue.
Then, again, Voltaire pointed out that common sense is not all that common…
While I agree with you that we are all sinful, and I disagree with the poster in terms of using the word “sinful” to describe the behavior, his observation is accurate if not well described.
OK, maybe you just don’t want to deal with the issue. Fine and dandy. But you could simply say you don’t want to talk about it, instead of repeating an answer that has already been defined out of the conversation.
Or maybe you don’t agree that psychology has any use or validity. You could say that too, as the Church does not view psychology as looking at someone’s soul and judging them.
If you don’t want to play in the sandbox, that is fine; but saying that you won’t play in this sandbox because someone else has a toy in their sandbox you don’t like makes no sense.
otjm --that is the point --the discussion was not about a different issue (psychology) but the content of dsulpizio’s post. That is what I address --and you responded to me --bringing in the “psychology” --turning the discussion in direction that did not deal the post or my response to him/her.I read the other poster’s post; I read your response to his post (which I have pointed out, I agree with); I ahve posited a different issue, and you keep returning to the one you and I agree about; that is not responding to my comments. So yes, considering that you and I agree that one has neither the right nor in fact the ability to look into another’s soul, dragging that issue out to reply to me is a red herring.
