I have always considered the possibility of suggesting the following to “lay adminitrators” and people unwilling to realize the richness of the Roman Rite:
Why not explore another denomination?
Indeed, some denominations allow women to be ordained. Others allow communication for all baptized individuals. Some denominations are lead by a purely democratic system of authority - sessions and committees - and ignore all semblance of hierarchy.
In reality, aren’t those individuals who fight Rome, the bishops, traditional ritual and music, the same who (a) have been “hurt” by the Church, (b) do not have the opportunity, by way of the law of the Church, to become ordained as priests, (c) are interested in marrying and prospering in family life, (d) are in constant need of “feel good” or “uplifting” addictions, (e) are not able - for whatever reason - to follow rules over which they cannot be completely be in control?
Simply, we are all uplifted by Christ’s rising from the dead. And, again, let us simply recall the significance of true vocation when it comes to our own lives and ministry.
Those who don’t want to follow the rules of our beloved Church should consider departing from petty argument in a respectful and kind manner so as to not endanger the prayers and pray-ers of those who ARE willing to do so.
I have never really been gutsy enough to make such remarks, though, to those around me. I have often considered exploring the Anglican Church (particularly those parishes labelled “Anglo-Catholic” or “Cathlo-Anglic”), rich in their traditional liturgy by way of the finest choral and organ music, hymnody, and silence, and inviting to all people.
My continued love for the Roman Church and faith - and hope that sense and sensibility will begin to become contagious for those around me with real “attitudes” - has kept me within this place.
My prayers extend to those in the Saginaw Diocese and nationwide, that they may enjoy the gifts and blessings of the Roman Catholic Church, that they may be nurtured by the sound leadership of Bishop Carlson and those priests who serve their bishop, as is asked and required of them when they promise to serve God and their Church, and that they may be richened by the Holy Spirit to discern true vocation in everyday life.